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How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
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| May 29, 2006, 20:40 |
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
Far be it from me to be the first to post on this topic, but I have to say that according to the polls so far the women don't seem interested in answering this question, and I know better... To get to the point however, I always believed that if you are goona have an encounter with someone , you should at least make sure that they, walk away with a smile on their face...  
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| May 29, 2006, 20:46 |
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
I could almost care less if I had an orgasm or not. Long as I know he liked it.
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| May 29, 2006, 21:21 |
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lizonya
64 / couple
lake elsinore, California, US
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
well, i couldn't say i care less about experiencing an orgasm because it is sooooooo nice and it's important for him to know that i get off. plus i can have multi...and him too. sometimes, we fuck so much that we simply run out of juice. 
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| May 30, 2006, 01:00 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
For me it's more important that my partner is fully satified. The older that I'm getting, it's far more important for me to pleasure my partner, than for me to have been pleasured.
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| May 30, 2006, 01:15 |
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Re: Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
QUOTE (lizonya @ May 30, 2006, 01:00)well, i couldn't say i care less about experiencing an orgasm because it is sooooooo nice and it's important for him to know that i get off. plus i can have multi...and him too. sometimes, we fuck so much that we simply run out of juice.
okay, maybe i said that wrong.. its not that i could care less about it or not. Just I'm not going to get upset or worried, etc.. you name it, if I don't have an orgasm. I'm one that likes to please more than to receive, although it work both ways. 
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| May 30, 2006, 13:56 |
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
I don't like having my orgasm be the total responsibity for someone else. I've taken the time, and still do of course, to know and learn what kicks it for me and I'm the one in control of sharing that info and/or in control of my own orgasms.
Sex just for the sake of sex and releasing sexual tension, then yeah...an orgasm is pretty damn important, but it's not that important when just sharing physical imtimacy with someone that really matters to me and me to them.
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| May 30, 2006, 14:13 |
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Re: Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 30, 2006, 14:13)
Sex just for the sake of sex and releasing sexual tension, then yeah...an orgasm is pretty damn important, but it's not that important when just sharing physical imtimacy with someone that really matters to me and me to them.
dang it... I just cannot come out with it right.
thats a good way to put it... thanks chazz. 
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| May 30, 2006, 20:05 |
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
The question does not specify which partner and I was looking at it as the person I was with having an orgasm. That is VERY important to me - I want to know that they have been fully satisfied and the proof is in the puddin'  
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| May 30, 2006, 23:35 |
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pepper
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daytona, Florida, US
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Re: Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
QUOTE (lizonya @ May 30, 2006, 01:00)well, i couldn't say i care less about experiencing an orgasm because it is sooooooo nice and it's important for him to know that i get off. plus i can have multi...and him too. sometimes, we fuck so much that we simply run out of juice.
Exactly and for those times, isn't KY a wonderful invention?
  
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| May 31, 2006, 07:19 |
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Re: Re: Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ May 30, 2006, 20:05) QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 30, 2006, 14:13)
Sex just for the sake of sex and releasing sexual tension, then yeah...an orgasm is pretty damn important, but it's not that important when just sharing physical imtimacy with someone that really matters to me and me to them.
dang it... I just cannot come out with it right.
thats a good way to put it... thanks chazz.
I knew what you were trying to say! I figured we had kinda the same opinion on this ! 
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| May 31, 2006, 09:32 |
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rockhard1961
63 / male
Sealy, Texas, US
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
I would much rather have her reach orgasm!
I figure if I can make her cum, my time will eventually be there!
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| June 13, 2006, 20:26 |
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muffpleazer
46 / male
Singapore, Singapore
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Re: Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
QUOTE (rockhard1961 @ June 13, 2006, 20:26)I would much rather have her reach orgasm!
I figure if I can make her cum, my time will eventually be there!
Totally agree with u man! 
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| June 19, 2006, 13:02 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
I am more of a challenge when it comes to that, so I never expect it from my partner.....If it happens, Great! however its not a necessity for me to orgasm to find it sexual.......Just the touch itself is enough for me!.....I am very easy to turn on, just not easy to orgasm.....So I do not place much value on that alone!
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| June 19, 2006, 19:35 |
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40something
57 / female
In the Sun, Arizona, US
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Re: How much importance do you place on orgasm to consider a sexual encounter being "good"?
It is a plus, not a requirement. Sometimes, i am too tired to even head that way, but it doesn't mean I wouldn't enjoy the closeness.
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| June 19, 2006, 20:09 |
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