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Another question for slutprincess
Can you give the definitions, and/or differences between slave, sub and bottom.....and Master, Dom, and top?
It can get a little fuzzy to understand and know the differences between one or the other sometimes!
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| May 11, 2006, 14:58 |
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stik
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
A slave does whatever you want either eat you if not the substitute handles it whereas your master tells you to lick or suck etc. Your bottom is your asshole, the top your tits which are bouncy.
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| May 12, 2006, 14:29 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
Hello all again (smiles) ok a "Master" is the dominant males title when you are collared to him, elsewise you would be addressed as "Sir" same as a dominant female if you are collared to her she is " Mistress " elsewise shes addressed as "Ma'am".(although i know alot of Sirs/Doms that expect you to call them Master & usually i explain if you owned me then i would address you as Master) Dom (short for dominant) is the one that does just that dominates the sub/slave in the D/s relationship. Dom referring to the male's title domme for females. To me the difference in a submissive and a slave, the slave gives complete control holding no limits/boundaries that the dominant can use him/her as seen to his wants.He/she gives up all rights to the domninant to say "NO" Now i am a "submissive" and my submission is comsidered a "gift" to the dominant men i choice to scene/serve as well i have limits (for instance no scat, anal fisting, kids animals..) and i can stop a scene when it takes place if i choice to, i have rights. As far as a "top" or "bottom" moreless slang for durin a play scene the "top" is the one thats doing the play/scene where as the bottom is the recieving the play from the scene...Like once i had a male dominant that had just started in the lifestyle. Durin the play scene i had to moreless guide him ..so if you've ever heard the phrase "topping from the bottom"..i hated it, because i was the submissive & do not enjoy having say no do it like this , or wait you need to be doin this instead.once again my "two cents" hope everyone is having a good weekend as well i hope you have a better understandin now ..kiss kiss Slutprincess 
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| May 13, 2006, 23:01 |
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tuscanverve
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
This BDSM stuff..... Like they say. pain and pleasure... is it really pain and pleasure. or just pain for one and pleasure for another....?
Needles, clamps, piercing , is it all safe?
In porn , i've known a certain model (she was pretty young and cute) who was in straight porn, did two BDSM movies,and then opened website of her own.... where she is literally.... well what not....
I mean I've seen some vidoes where the girls are really crying and real tears.. but I guess if it's legal somewhere.. i'm sure they know what they're doing....
What I mean to ask is . is BDSM really a mutual thing, or is it just a male fantasy?
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| May 16, 2006, 08:29 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
BDSM is very misunderstood, it's a culture, a lifestyle. There's a creed that is followed and it is a very mutual thing based on trust.
Slutprincess can give you the best answers, and there are already quite a few threads here that might clear up allot of things for you.
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| May 16, 2006, 08:55 |
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tuscanverve
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kolk, India
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
Is BDSM porn different from BDSM lifestyle....? I mean I'm not new to BDSM , read stories, seen porn....
But when it comes to porn, is it still mutual or is it girls in need of cash? In that case where do u draw the line between a sexual fantasy and exploitation?
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| May 18, 2006, 03:17 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
Hello all again my "two cents" ..i have been a submissive in the BDSM for 4 yrs...it is not all about pain ...and for many subs, there pleasure comes from pleasing their Master, be it by pain serving etc...as you said you seen "videos" we have all watched movies and people can be great actors as well...i have seen pictures on the net at torture galaxy and they were so fake it was unreal. The blood (yeah right when i do my own needle play to my nipples and get them to bleed..i can show you "blood"  BDSM is a true lifestyle and for some D/s relationships(Dom/sub) they never do a play scene, its what is right for you and your partner at the time. What it is you need to fulfill your needs, wants, desires. To me the meaning of a "collar" is far more sacred than a wedding band. It totally represents the soul bond of two individuals that have come together to find their true selves. So many people are "closed minded" afraid to "look outside the box" so to speak...and it is those people who never find true happiness.enjoyment in life ..as i said my "two cents" kiss kiss Slutprincess
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| May 18, 2006, 05:43 |
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tuscanverve
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Re: Re: Another question for slutprincess
QUOTE (slutprincess @ May 18, 2006, 05:43)Hello all again my "two cents" ..i have been a submissive in the BDSM for 4 yrs...it is not all about pain ...and for many subs, there pleasure comes from pleasing their Master, be it by pain serving etc...as you said you seen "videos" we have all watched movies and people can be great actors as well...i have seen pictures on the net at torture galaxy and they were so fake it was unreal. The blood (yeah right when i do my own needle play to my nipples and get them to bleed..i can show you "blood" BDSM is a true lifestyle and for some D/s relationships(Dom/sub) they never do a play scene, its what is right for you and your partner at the time. What it is you need to fulfill your needs, wants, desires. To me the meaning of a "collar" is far more sacred than a wedding band. It totally represents the soul bond of two individuals that have come together to find their true selves. So many people are "closed minded" afraid to "look outside the box" so to speak...and it is those people who never find true happiness.enjoyment in life ..as i said my "two cents" kiss kiss Slutprincess
maybe you'd know if I named the site, but that's illegal, I'm not allowed to name sites. In fact, there are two...
The first one's a big porn co. I dunno how much of their BDSM is "acting".
The 2nd is Russian, but they claim they have that USC 2257 thingy..... I REALLY doubt that those cute girls have "soul bonding" with their "punishers".
Look, I'm not new to BDSM, infact I do know quite a lot. I haven't played, just seen lots of porn and read stories. I've seen LOTS of sites. I can tell the "acting" from the "tears".
I don't wanna start a fight here.... just wanna clarify. 
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| May 23, 2006, 02:16 |
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tuscanverve
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kolk, India
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Re: Re: Another question for slutprincess
QUOTE (stik @ May 12, 2006, 14:29) ..Your bottom is your asshole, the top your tits which are bouncy....
oh gawd. that was funny!!!
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| May 23, 2006, 02:18 |
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Re: Re: Re: Another question for slutprincess
QUOTE (tuscanverve @ May 23, 2006, 02:16) QUOTE (slutprincess @ May 18, 2006, 05:43)Hello all again my "two cents" ..i have been a submissive in the BDSM for 4 yrs...it is not all about pain ...and for many subs, there pleasure comes from pleasing their Master, be it by pain serving etc...as you said you seen "videos" we have all watched movies and people can be great actors as well...i have seen pictures on the net at torture galaxy and they were so fake it was unreal. The blood (yeah right when i do my own needle play to my nipples and get them to bleed..i can show you "blood" BDSM is a true lifestyle and for some D/s relationships(Dom/sub) they never do a play scene, its what is right for you and your partner at the time. What it is you need to fulfill your needs, wants, desires. To me the meaning of a "collar" is far more sacred than a wedding band. It totally represents the soul bond of two individuals that have come together to find their true selves. So many people are "closed minded" afraid to "look outside the box" so to speak...and it is those people who never find true happiness.enjoyment in life ..as i said my "two cents" kiss kiss Slutprincess
maybe you'd know if I named the site, but that's illegal, I'm not allowed to name sites. In fact, there are two...
The first one's a big porn co. I dunno how much of their BDSM is "acting".
The 2nd is Russian, but they claim they have that USC 2257 thingy..... I REALLY doubt that those cute girls have "soul bonding" with their "punishers".
Look, I'm not new to BDSM, infact I do know quite a lot. I haven't played, just seen lots of porn and read stories. I've seen LOTS of sites. I can tell the "acting" from the "tears".
I don't wanna start a fight here.... just wanna clarify.
The porn you are talking about, although has a "BDSM" theme, is not BDSM. I do not go anywhere near those kind of sites.
The creed is " Safe, Sane, and Consensual"
If this creed is not being followed and adhered to, then it is not BDSM.
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| May 23, 2006, 05:42 |
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oldladies4me
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
as far as I am concerned IT is control and if you and your prtner have an understanding. no limits will be crossed. we are all here to enjoy ourselves .but we cannot infringe on our partners boundries! If it feels good and you are comfortable roll with it
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| May 24, 2006, 15:01 |
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tuscanverve
38 / male
kolk, India
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Another question for slutprincess
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 23, 2006, 05:42) QUOTE (tuscanverve @ May 23, 2006, 02:16) QUOTE (slutprincess @ May 18, 2006, 05:43)Hello all again my "two cents" ..i have been a submissive in the BDSM for 4 yrs...it is not all about pain ...and for many subs, there pleasure comes from pleasing their Master, be it by pain serving etc...as you said you seen "videos" we have all watched movies and people can be great actors as well...i have seen pictures on the net at torture galaxy and they were so fake it was unreal. The blood (yeah right when i do my own needle play to my nipples and get them to bleed..i can show you "blood" BDSM is a true lifestyle and for some D/s relationships(Dom/sub) they never do a play scene, its what is right for you and your partner at the time. What it is you need to fulfill your needs, wants, desires. To me the meaning of a "collar" is far more sacred than a wedding band. It totally represents the soul bond of two individuals that have come together to find their true selves. So many people are "closed minded" afraid to "look outside the box" so to speak...and it is those people who never find true happiness.enjoyment in life ..as i said my "two cents" kiss kiss Slutprincess
maybe you'd know if I named the site, but that's illegal, I'm not allowed to name sites. In fact, there are two...
The first one's a big porn co. I dunno how much of their BDSM is "acting".
The 2nd is Russian, but they claim they have that USC 2257 thingy..... I REALLY doubt that those cute girls have "soul bonding" with their "punishers".
Look, I'm not new to BDSM, infact I do know quite a lot. I haven't played, just seen lots of porn and read stories. I've seen LOTS of sites. I can tell the "acting" from the "tears".
I don't wanna start a fight here.... just wanna clarify.
The porn you are talking about, although has a "BDSM" theme, is not BDSM. I do not go anywhere near those kind of sites.
The creed is " Safe, Sane, and Consensual"
If this creed is not being followed and adhered to, then it is not BDSM.
then why aren't these sites outlawed? They are big production companies.
Tell me , is anything there to regulate porn? Many sites are "exploitation" themed. Many young teenage girls are into porn. How does one draw the line between real exploitation and acting? How can abuse be prevented when such things are legalised?
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| May 26, 2006, 15:28 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
Hey...I'm with you...no abuse should be tolerated, no underage porn should be tolerated...physical violence is a criminal act.
I do have an interest in BDSM, but do not frequent sites that have criminal content, because my interest is in the BDSM culture, not physical and violent abuse, there is a huge difference between the two.
I can only guess that it is just too difficult and overwhelming task to "police" the Internet for this type of crime? DEA, ATF, and other agencies monitor popular drug/counter culture websites, and we all know about the strong campaign against online pedophiles...I guess it'll take enough people who care enough to do the reporting to the right agency or office??
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| May 28, 2006, 08:09 |
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tuscanverve
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
lets screw their asses....
Presenting insertion item no. 1
The great indian spiny jackfruit
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| June 2, 2006, 20:43 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
hi all!!! as i'm new 2 the site but not 2 the joy's of a healthy sex life i thought i'd put my 2 cent's worth into this sub-ject..lol..weather it's bdsm or bondage or what ever YOU like 2 do as long as your an adult!!! and respect each other's bounderies... it doesn't matter if your thing is pain,being told what 2 do or just being tied-up and humped the main thing is trust in your partner....kisskiss
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| June 6, 2006, 09:15 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
SlutPrincess covers it all very well I think. As a Dom, I have My sub, whom I have collared and now own her. Yes she is sub, but the same time she is also slave/ slut . I own her completely, and she does what ever I tell her, when I tell her.
I know ppl get the idea that it's all about inflicting pain etc: This is so untrue.......... it's all about control !!!!Yes, I inflict pain, usually just for punishment (more severe), but also during play.
She enjoys it, and I get sexually aroused while punishing her. It always ends with the best sex ever, then I may leave her sitting in a cupboard for a few hours while I relax,lol.
My only gripe about how BDSM has been highjacked by SCENE ppl, ggggggrrrrrrrr....... It's fashionable to turn up at a club all dressed up in rubber/latex or what ever and Kid ppl on that they are some sort of Dom etc: It has given BDSM a bad name in recent years and made it a bit of a joke to those that look on.
Get rid of the tourists, and leave the real thing to those that are serious about it. Owning a sub/slave/ slut is not a fashion statement, It's a choice that has meaning to those involved, and yes, it is a lifestyle.....
Rant over,lol 
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| July 6, 2006, 08:49 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
Don't stop! I'm would be happy to read your rants anytime.
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| July 6, 2006, 09:19 |
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Re: Another question for slutprincess
lol Chazzy  you'll get fed up with them eventualy,lol
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