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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Just wondering
How many of the dudes here help the significant others out with the house work. ie laundry, cleaning, vacuuming, dishes, cooking etc.....
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April 24, 2006, 01:01 |
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Re: Just wondering
I did when I was married and now since I am divorced I do it all.
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April 24, 2006, 01:03 |
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flatbed
59 / male elgin, Illinois, US
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Re: Just wondering
i did before she left for another state
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April 24, 2006, 04:03 |
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Re: Just wondering
i do help out
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April 24, 2006, 09:03 |
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Re: Just wondering
Ok im really sensitive to this topic for all you guys who do you must be just wonderful men .And for those who don't im sure you know who you are. I have no respect for men who are lazy and are not respectful to there other half.A relationship is a 50?50 split
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April 24, 2006, 11:49 |
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Re: Just wondering
He gets better with this all the time. He does laundry, cooks, picks up, does most things on the Honey Do very promptly. Only thing he refuses with is dishes and that is alright by me. I refuse to mow the yard.
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April 24, 2006, 15:03 |
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tomboy6978
46 / male Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Just wondering
i can cook,bake,bbq,clean house,vaccuum,laundry,yard work of course,and more oh does that sound too good for you girls oh well i guess i be prepared by the time i get married
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April 24, 2006, 17:54 |
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nykitten
54 / female Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Just wondering
As much as I agree with the whole 50/50 thing.....I happen to do it all...
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April 24, 2006, 18:55 |
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hardrock1955
69 / male McGaheysville, Virginia, US
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Re: Just wondering
I always helped, but not the dishes . now I do it all
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April 24, 2006, 19:18 |
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Re: Just wondering
depends on who has a "real" job... and what that job actually is... etc. it's not even remotely fair to expect both partners to do half the house work if one is also putting in 8-12 a day to make money... even if it's a simple office job.
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April 24, 2006, 19:20 |
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Re: Just wondering
I do. I don't believe that only the woman should have to do it. If you're living together then you are both making the place dirty and therefore it's as much the man's job to do the cleaning as it is the woman's.
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April 24, 2006, 19:22 |
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nykitten
54 / female Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Just wondering
Geeezzz, the things we learn after the fact!....
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April 24, 2006, 19:24 |
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Re: Re: Just wondering
QUOTE (nykitten @ April 24, 2006, 19:24)Geeezzz, the things we learn after the fact!....
Are you making fun of me?
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April 24, 2006, 19:26 |
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Re: Just wondering
it doesnt really bother me if i have to do a little more than the other half. Actually BCB took half the words out of my hands, dang it(get it, hands?? ha! Anyways.. moving on).
Like for instance, they could cook, i'll clean. I'll keep the house picked up for the most part long as they keep the outside looking decent. But yet I'd help out outside as well as they hopefully could do the same inside at times, etc. Kind of a two-way street. Long as I know they're not just slacking off on the couch with one hand on the remote and the other in their pants like Al Bundy would do. (Although some days do require just to plop on the couch and hang out.. with neither doing anything.
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April 24, 2006, 19:37 |
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nykitten
54 / female Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Just wondering
QUOTE (ehocen @ April 24, 2006, 19:26) QUOTE (nykitten @ April 24, 2006, 19:24)Geeezzz, the things we learn after the fact!....
Are you making fun of me?
Not at all, making fun of myself for finding someone who does nothing!...
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April 24, 2006, 19:41 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Just wondering
QUOTE (nykitten @ April 24, 2006, 19:41) QUOTE (ehocen @ April 24, 2006, 19:26) QUOTE (nykitten @ April 24, 2006, 19:24)Geeezzz, the things we learn after the fact!....
Are you making fun of me?
Not at all, making fun of myself for finding someone who does nothing!...
Aha I see
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April 24, 2006, 19:42 |
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penispilot
63 / couple lenoir city, Tennessee, US
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Re: Just wondering
GEEEEZZZZ AROUND MY HOUSE ITS 80-20/ 80 FOR ME 20 FOR HER WHATS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE??????
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April 27, 2006, 08:18 |
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Re: Re: Just wondering
QUOTE (penispilot @ April 27, 2006, 08:18)GEEEEZZZZ AROUND MY HOUSE ITS 80-20/ 80 FOR ME 20 FOR HER WHATS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE??????
Ha! Sucker!! ...anyway...come here and shampoo the carpets while I finish the laundry doode...
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April 27, 2006, 09:40 |
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just4urplsur
58 / male platte city, Missouri, US
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Re: Just wondering
i do i feel that if you both live there then you are both responsible for keeping it clean
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April 27, 2006, 09:53 |
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Re: Just wondering
I know this has nothing to do with house work,but I was just wondering if anyone has heard from Emka and if she was still around?
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April 30, 2006, 12:12 |
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Re: Re: Just wondering
QUOTE (studleydoright @ April 30, 2006, 12:12)I know this has nothing to do with house work,but I was just wondering if anyone has heard from Emka and if she was still around?
I'll message her to make sure everything is alright.
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April 30, 2006, 14:28 |
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Re: Just wondering
Scary but, I've been told by my female friends that I would make someone a wonderful wife......I do all that stuff!
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April 30, 2006, 14:51 |
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