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just4urplsur
58 / male
platte city, Missouri, US
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To what lengths would you go?
Everyone has at least one of these stories i know. So enlighten us all and let us know to what lengths you have gone to to get laid . 
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| March 31, 2006, 18:59 |
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Re: To what lengths would you go?
Funny you should ask this question, I have been working on one now for a bit over two years and still have not gotten to firts base, although see is so Hot and fun to be with, I sometimes think she is just using me and I am starting to wear down, I am starting to think I should forget it and move on, Its starting to seem like I'll be to old and have to use viagra before I get anywhere with her. 
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| March 31, 2006, 20:17 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (hothands @ March 31, 2006, 20:17)Funny you should ask this question, I have been working on one now for a bit over two years and still have not gotten to firts base, although see is so Hot and fun to be with, I sometimes think she is just using me and I am starting to wear down, I am starting to think I should forget it and move on, Its starting to seem like I'll be to old and have to use viagra before I get anywhere with her.
Why not just ask her what you need to know ....That way you will know for sure if your wasting your time.... 
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| March 31, 2006, 20:20 |
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Re: Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (nykitten @ March 31, 2006, 20:20) QUOTE (hothands @ March 31, 2006, 20:17)Funny you should ask this question, I have been working on one now for a bit over two years and still have not gotten to firts base, although see is so Hot and fun to be with, I sometimes think she is just using me and I am starting to wear down, I am starting to think I should forget it and move on, Its starting to seem like I'll be to old and have to use viagra before I get anywhere with her.
Why not just ask her what you need to know ....That way you will know for sure if your wasting your time....
I should have done that but I knew the answer would have been no, I thought by taking it slow that we would get to know each other better and build a bond of trust between us, its a tough situation because we are both married, I know she dates other guys but I do not know to what extent.
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| March 31, 2006, 20:35 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (hothands @ March 31, 2006, 20:35) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 31, 2006, 20:20) QUOTE (hothands @ March 31, 2006, 20:17)Funny you should ask this question, I have been working on one now for a bit over two years and still have not gotten to firts base, although see is so Hot and fun to be with, I sometimes think she is just using me and I am starting to wear down, I am starting to think I should forget it and move on, Its starting to seem like I'll be to old and have to use viagra before I get anywhere with her.
Why not just ask her what you need to know ....That way you will know for sure if your wasting your time....
I should have done that but I knew the answer would have been no, I thought by taking it slow that we would get to know each other better and build a bond of trust between us, its a tough situation because we are both married, I know she dates other guys but I do not know to what extent.
As usual, a gentleman who has hope for passion!......Such a shame people don't take the time to figure out what they have, until it's too late!.....You know Hothands, I believe all things happen for a reason!.....I'm sure there is the "perfect" mate out there for what you need!.....As always it comes when you least expect it!.....
Just always have your intentions known from the beginning!.....Saves a lot of heartache in the end!....And I'm sure you know in your heart what you need to do next with the person your with now!......Good luck to you ! 
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| March 31, 2006, 20:53 |
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Re: To what lengths would you go?
easier said than done... your intentions can stealthily change without the slightest hint, then pounce upon you both with a surprise attack of profound confusion.
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| March 31, 2006, 21:08 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 31, 2006, 21:08)easier said than done... your intentions can stealthily change without the slightest hint, then pounce upon you both with a surprise attack of profound confusion.
Then you weren't true to your intentions from the beginning!
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| March 31, 2006, 21:13 |
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Re: Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (nykitten @ March 31, 2006, 21:13) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 31, 2006, 21:08)easier said than done... your intentions can stealthily change without the slightest hint, then pounce upon you both with a surprise attack of profound confusion.
Then you weren't true to your intentions from the beginning!
so what happens when you 'accidentally' meet someone.. actually try brush them off several times yet they keep coming back... you find yourself blindly bantering with them about anything and everything mostly out of politeness to start.. eventually you realize they make good company.. but still honestly you dont see them as anything more than just that... next thing you know months have past and you find yourself looking forward to the little talks about nothing with them... a few more weeks/months go by... you find yourself missing the way her eyes smile when she laughs... a year.. you lose sleep thinking of stupid little things like "why she doesnt like seafood" just because you cant turn your brain off... my intentions went from politely get rid of her to i physically dread saying good night/good bye
i was 100% true to my intentions and clearly stated them the entire time. they change and we have as much control over it as we do the wind.
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| March 31, 2006, 21:31 |
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Re: To what lengths would you go?
A 12 pack and some good smoke about covers it...works for me !!!
  
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| March 31, 2006, 21:34 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 31, 2006, 21:31) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 31, 2006, 21:13) QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 31, 2006, 21:08)easier said than done... your intentions can stealthily change without the slightest hint, then pounce upon you both with a surprise attack of profound confusion.
Then you weren't true to your intentions from the beginning!
so what happens when you 'accidentally' meet someone.. actually try brush them off several times yet they keep coming back... you find yourself blindly bantering with them about anything and everything mostly out of politeness to start.. eventually you realize they make good company.. but still honestly you dont see them as anything more than just that... next thing you know months have past and you find yourself looking forward to the little talks about nothing with them... a few more weeks/months go by... you find yourself missing the way her eyes smile when she laughs... a year.. you lose sleep thinking of stupid little things like "why she doesnt like seafood" just because you cant turn your brain off... my intentions went from politely get rid of her to i physically dread saying good night/good bye
i was 100% true to my intentions and clearly stated them the entire time. they change and we have as much control over it as we do the wind.
That sounds like a genuine friend!.....
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| March 31, 2006, 21:39 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (nykitten @ March 31, 2006, 21:39)
That sounds like a genuine friend!.....
at this point.. that'd be the one thing that would crush me more than anything else ever could... "just friend". I'd rather say goodbye for the last time I think. 
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| March 31, 2006, 21:51 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: To what lengths would you go?
QUOTE (boredcountryboy @ March 31, 2006, 21:51) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 31, 2006, 21:39)
That sounds like a genuine friend!.....
at this point.. that'd be the one thing that would crush me more than anything else ever could... "just friend". I'd rather say goodbye for the last time I think.
The only relationships that last are the ones that start out like that!......
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| March 31, 2006, 22:00 |
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Re: To what lengths would you go?
BCB, NYK is right, the best long term relations ships are those that begin as friendships!! I had no interest in being romantically involved with my Mr. Right. However, after spending a lot of time talking about nothing and everything, and then going away for a weekend - I realized he was all I could think about and that I had fallen in love. Shocked me and really shocked him when I told him, come to find out he had loved me for a long time.
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| March 31, 2006, 23:43 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: To what lengths would you go?
Adding sex to a friendship will one of two things. Either it's going to solidify the relationship or it's going ruin it. I've seen it go both ways.
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| April 1, 2006, 01:22 |
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naughtyandnasty
54 / couple
blythe, California, US
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Re: To what lengths would you go?
I was 17 and she told me she would suck it if i ran onto the football feald and "drop'em".....so I got laid twice that night ,,her and a nother girl I knew.......  
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