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naughtyandnasty
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blythe, California, US
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What she really means by "No"...
Ever been in a situation where she says, "Oh, nothing..." or "Oh, no, I'm fine, really..." or "Not if you don't want to..."? Okay, what she really means is, "Something," "I'm not fine," and "I want to, even if you don't." And so you do what you want to do, because she said it was alright, or you take what she says at face value, and then she gets upset with you?
Frustrating, right? Well, the reason why she does this is for several reasons, I'll go over the top ones.
#1) She wants *you* to be the one to come up with the decision to please her or read her thoughts without her acting telling you straight out, "I want this." She wants you to be her noble knight and charming prince all on your own, without her nagging or asking outright. Girls like to be wooed, but not from their own force. It comes from the same reason women love spontaneous acts of love like flowers, or surprise visits at work, or even just an evening where you just cuddle her and make her feel special, instead of delving into her fruit and feasting.
#2) She may just want to please you and let you make the decision that would please you most. Believe it or not, but there are plenty of women out there that take just as much pleasure out of pleasing their man and keeping him happy, as she does when he pleases her. She would rather give up something small to make him happy, than take something big and leave him even slightly ruffled. Remember to keep in mind, though, that even the most giving of women want to feel that their efforts of sacrifice are appreciated.
There you go! So even if you can't read her thoughts completely or understand her subliminal messaging, you can at least keep these tips in mind and use them as a small guideline in those treacherous situations.
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| March 31, 2006, 05:50 |
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Re: What she really means by "No"...
There are dozens & dozens of things that women say and they mean the complete opposite... The best one I've heard was "I see you as a very good friend, almost a soul-mate"....however, 3 days later she made a complete scene because I told her -as very good friends do- I liked her best friend... we ended up fucking in a hotel the same night... "very good friend" my ass....
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| April 6, 2006, 04:46 |
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Chupacabra
44 / male
north Al, Alabama, US
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Re: What she really means by "No"...
Men are from Mars and woman are from venus covers a lot of those situations to.If you have not read read it.It reaiiy is a great educational book.
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| April 7, 2006, 20:32 |
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Re: What she really means by "No"...
actually Women for me are easy two Reed probably because I have 2 sisters
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| May 16, 2006, 17:36 |
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