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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
OK I'm going to catch hell for this one from the guys but some ladies have talked to me here and i feel i most help in the best way i know and that to tell all so here i go...
1. Utter the One Word That Drives Him Nuts
As lovey-dovey as pet names make him feel, they still don't compare to the electrifying rush your man gets when his name crosses your lips. "Just hearing it is an aphrodisiac," "It ratchets up his desire because the message you send is 'It's you I'm thinking about and no one else.' And men need to hear that - it's tied to their primal urge to beat out all the competition."
However, just blurting out his moniker as often as possible isn't going to do it for him. You need to make it count. For instance, when you're feeling sexy in a public setting, like in a dark bar, drop it into conversation in surprising spots and pause for a beat or two,
Or try another trick when he's putting the moves on you: Just kind of coo his name to draw his focus entirely on to you.
2. Reach into His Pocket for the Keys
Well, more than just the keys. The lesson is this: "Never underestimate the power of an unexpected touch,"Just by stimulating his nerve endings when he's not prepared for it, you create a positive physical connection that leaves your man wanting more." Even better, your guy subconsciously gets hooked on those mini-moments of excitement and craves them when you're not around.
From now on, be on the lookout for opportune moments to touch him "accidentally." For example, don't ask him for his keys...glide your hand into his pocket and slowly take them out. Don't ask him to pass the salt...reach across him, letting your breasts rub against his arm. Don't walk past him in a crowded bar...press your rear into his gear. These sneak attacks work like a charm.
3. Keep Him Out of the Loop
The funny thing about men is that telling them less about your life makes them long for you more. So as much as you might want to share the minutiae of your bitchy workplace or your take on the latest Grey's Anatomy plot twist, hold back. "The hard truth is that from his end, that information is overwhelming and boring," "Men don't have the capacity to endure great amounts of detail. That's one reason why they don't give you the play-by-play of their lives."Edit your small talk and you'll make a discovery: He listens more closely."
So to hook him in, when you're chatting, give him the conclusion of the conversation first. For instance, "I got the job" or "I saw your buddy Mark," and then stop and wait. You've gotten his attention, now let him draw out the details he's dying to know from you.
4. Make Small Changes for Big Results
There's a catch though: If you want to snag his immediate interest, the change has to be guy-visible. "To activate his desire, it has to be a departure from your everyday look," Maybe take a break from your jeans routine and strut around in a miniskirt. Wear a noticeably higher heel. Or ditch your bra for a day and put a little extra bounce in your step.
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| March 21, 2006, 19:16 |
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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
5. Compliment Him the Right Way
Just because men don't fish for flattery (when was the last time you heard a guy ask, "Honey, do my pecs look small in this shirt?"  doesn't mean they don't love ego stroking. "More than anything, men desire the feeling of being desired," When a man hears praise from his partner, it reinforces that she's attracted to him, which further intensifies his feelings for her.
But there's a trick to buttering up your guy right. You see, men are super sensitive to gushing. It makes them want to gag and run far away. So when you give him props, stick to this tip: The more obscure and exclusive the praise to him, the more genuine it feels.
6. Give Him a Sensory Flashback
Think about when you first fell for your guy. What reminds you both of that time (aside from the conniption fit you had every time the phone rang)? Figure it out and you've found the secret to conjuring up that new-love rush. "When he experiences something that he associates with falling in love with you, those intense, sensual memories trigger a positive physical reaction and generate instant longing, To get your guy in the moment, revive an old brand of perfume, visit a favorite place from your shared past or reinstate an early dating ritual. Oftentimes, you won't even need to say anything, These sensory connections are so strong that he'll be transported back instantly.
7. Check Out His Competition
Lust works in bizarre ways. Get this: If you want to renew your man's passion for you, slyly capture the eye of another guy. "Men do become more attentive and turned on by their partners when they see them being desired by other men,To stoke your guy's interest, trail a yummy waiter with your gaze or flash a flirty smile at one of his friends when you know he's watching you. And it never hurts to make an extra bit of effort with your appearance when you know you'll be in a situation where other men will admire you. Just the possibility of other guys eying you all night will definitely make him appreciate that he's the lucky dog who gets to take you home.
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| March 21, 2006, 19:18 |
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HAPPILYHORNY
54 / couple
ALTOONA, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
i like it nasty.... 
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| March 21, 2006, 22:56 |
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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
thxs damn chat wont load.....might be anti virus that i run .....or something 
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| March 21, 2006, 22:59 |
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pepper
56 / female
daytona, Florida, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
so turn it off, hon.
  
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| March 21, 2006, 23:07 |
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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
cant afford to this hard drive has all my pesonal info...ie the bank and stuff
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| March 21, 2006, 23:16 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
well whatever you did to my computer works fine.....
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| March 21, 2006, 23:20 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
Getting back to the first topic. ???????????????????? I'm so confused.
Next topic, Chat. I've yet to get into chat.
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| March 21, 2006, 23:55 |
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absix
40 / male
Web Naughty
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Re: Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ March 21, 2006, 23:55)
We're working on it!!
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| March 22, 2006, 05:14 |
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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
i'll wait thanks abs
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| March 22, 2006, 05:17 |
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absix
40 / male
Web Naughty
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Re: Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
QUOTE (bignasty @ March 22, 2006, 05:17)i'll wait thanks abs
You have a problem entering the chatroom as well? I was referring to funloving 's chat problem?
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| March 22, 2006, 05:27 |
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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
yea as soon as i sign in i get droped
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| March 22, 2006, 05:29 |
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bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
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Re: Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
QUOTE (bignasty @ March 22, 2006, 05:29)yea as soon as i sign in i get droped
but if i use my laptop its fine so most likly its my settings
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| March 22, 2006, 05:30 |
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absix
40 / male
Web Naughty
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Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
I'll PM you because this is off the topic
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| March 22, 2006, 05:35 |
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Re: Re: Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
QUOTE (absix @ March 22, 2006, 05:14) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ March 21, 2006, 23:55)
We're working on it!!
absix you are the beat there is, we are ok all new systems get there little  kinks that need worked out  I know you will get it as quick as you can ..
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| March 23, 2006, 00:47 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: 7 Things that Guys Don't want you to know !
QUOTE (naughtybutterfly @ March 23, 2006, 00:47) QUOTE (absix @ March 22, 2006, 05:14) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ March 21, 2006, 23:55)
We're working on it!!
absix you are the beat there is, we are ok all new systems get there little kinks that need worked out I know you will get it as quick as you can ..
I have full confidence in Absix. I'm patient. 
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| March 23, 2006, 20:36 |
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