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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Why do you want a one nightstand?
Ok, I was wondering.....In my experience, no matter what the relationship consisted of, (friends, lovers, Buddies) I find that the first time you have sex with them is usually the worst.....Now, Im not saying its bad, just the worst sex you will both have together.....Now, we all know sex becomes better though time with someone....The more comfortable you are the more you open up, and relax, and we all know where that leads to......
My question....Why do guys/girls want one night stands ?
There are all kinds of relationships, and maybe your not looking for a wife/hubby, but its just not safe anymore to  around...and If you had the choice between, getting laid one night and having the worst sex you can with that person, or finding someone who wants the same as you, and have better sex every time you meet....Why not pick the better of the two?..... 
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| March 21, 2006, 15:09 |
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
good point
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| March 21, 2006, 15:13 |
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just4urplsur
58 / male
platte city, Missouri, US
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
QUOTE (nykitten @ March 21, 2006, 15:09)Ok, I was wondering.....In my experience, no matter what the relationship consisted of, (friends, lovers, Buddies) I find that the first time you have sex with them is usually the worst.....Now, Im not saying its bad, just the worst sex you will both have together.....Now, we all know sex becomes better though time with someone....The more comfortable you are the more you open up, and relax, and we all know where that leads to......
My question....Why do guys/girls want one night stands ?
There are all kinds of relationships, and maybe your not looking for a wife/hubby, but its just not safe anymore to around...and If you had the choice between, getting laid one night and having the worst sex you can with that person, or finding someone who wants the same as you, and have better sex every time you meet....Why not pick the better of the two?.....
i have found that some women that are not in a relationship with anyone for a long period of time that all they want is just a quick encounter. no matter what women say they want ( need ) a sexual partner every now and again just to keep their passion for sex alive. I dont care how many toys or gadgets you have there is just nothing like the real thing.( its kind of hard to be on all fours with one hand on a toy.) but thats just my opinion 
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| March 21, 2006, 15:24 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
QUOTE (just4urplsur @ March 21, 2006, 15:24) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 21, 2006, 15:09)Ok, I was wondering.....In my experience, no matter what the relationship consisted of, (friends, lovers, Buddies) I find that the first time you have sex with them is usually the worst.....Now, Im not saying its bad, just the worst sex you will both have together.....Now, we all know sex becomes better though time with someone....The more comfortable you are the more you open up, and relax, and we all know where that leads to......
My question....Why do guys/girls want one night stands ?
There are all kinds of relationships, and maybe your not looking for a wife/hubby, but its just not safe anymore to around...and If you had the choice between, getting laid one night and having the worst sex you can with that person, or finding someone who wants the same as you, and have better sex every time you meet....Why not pick the better of the two?.....
i have found that some women that are not in a relationship with anyone for a long period of time that all they want is just a quick encounter. no matter what women say they want ( need ) a sexual partner every now and again just to keep their passion for sex alive. I dont care how many toys or gadgets you have there is just nothing like the real thing.( its kind of hard to be on all fours with one hand on a toy.) but thats just my opinion
Childs play! 
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| March 21, 2006, 15:26 |
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Re: Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
QUOTE (just4urplsur @ March 21, 2006, 15:24) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 21, 2006, 15:09)Ok, I was wondering.....In my experience, no matter what the relationship consisted of, (friends, lovers, Buddies) I find that the first time you have sex with them is usually the worst.....Now, Im not saying its bad, just the worst sex you will both have together.....Now, we all know sex becomes better though time with someone....The more comfortable you are the more you open up, and relax, and we all know where that leads to......
My question....Why do guys/girls want one night stands ?
There are all kinds of relationships, and maybe your not looking for a wife/hubby, but its just not safe anymore to around...and If you had the choice between, getting laid one night and having the worst sex you can with that person, or finding someone who wants the same as you, and have better sex every time you meet....Why not pick the better of the two?.....
i have found that some women that are not in a relationship with anyone for a long period of time that all they want is just a quick encounter. no matter what women say they want ( need ) a sexual partner every now and again just to keep their passion for sex alive. I dont care how many toys or gadgets you have there is just nothing like the real thing.( its kind of hard to be on all fours with one hand on a toy.) but thats just my opinion
There he goes again! Is this "experience" talkin? You might wanna revise your profile to say.... "want to be treated like a Medieval whore!"
I'm awful, I know, sorry  
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| March 21, 2006, 15:27 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
I understand variety is the spice of life, but the more comfortable I am with someone....The more they get out of me!
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| March 21, 2006, 15:28 |
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Re: Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
QUOTE (nykitten @ March 21, 2006, 15:28)I understand variety is the spice of life, but the more comfortable I am with someone....The more they get out of me!
*nods in agreement*
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| March 21, 2006, 15:29 |
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just4urplsur
58 / male
platte city, Missouri, US
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Re: Re: Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
QUOTE (MoonHowler @ March 21, 2006, 15:29) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 21, 2006, 15:28)I understand variety is the spice of life, but the more comfortable I am with someone....The more they get out of me!
*nods in agreement*
very true but if you are not interested in getting into a relationship with someone thus a one night stand . ps. i think im going to change my damn pic 
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| March 21, 2006, 15:33 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
QUOTE (just4urplsur @ March 21, 2006, 15:33) QUOTE (MoonHowler @ March 21, 2006, 15:29) QUOTE (nykitten @ March 21, 2006, 15:28)I understand variety is the spice of life, but the more comfortable I am with someone....The more they get out of me!
*nods in agreement*
very true but if you are not interested in getting into a relationship with someone thus a one night stand . ps. i think im going to change my damn pic
hehe
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| March 21, 2006, 15:36 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
Yes, Im sure there are people out there, who don't want the "relationship" per say, however, You can have JUST a sexual relationship .....
And back to the age old delima......Have your intentions out there from the beginning!.....If your up front, and you both just want sex , what is wrong with that?.....
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| March 21, 2006, 15:53 |
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doneff
41 / male
Sayreville, New Jersey, US
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
I guess its not a matter wheather is one night stand or long term relationship ... I've foung to be much easier to find one night stand than to find someone u can feel comfortable with... and u know that most of the time men thinks with their penis, you make the conclusion
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| March 21, 2006, 16:43 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple
Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
I think there are many factors that go into this. How is your relationship with your current partner, or the lack of a partner, other than Mr/ms righty and lefty. Your job. Maybe your on the road more than at home? Even how much your drinking or other things. And they say beer make you smarter, it made Budweiser. LOL It may be that your partner may not want to have the type of sex that you want. I think it's more of our back to the cave man/women animalistic nature. That need to propagate, even when we know that in all probability a child will not be the outcome. As you know there is only two species of animals that will have sex , just for sex. Man and Chimpanzee. For some it may be just braggin rights's, that notch in the belt, or to add that spice to life. To others it may the challenge of not getting caught by the partner. Who knows for sure????
OK there's my 3 cents worth.
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| March 21, 2006, 17:34 |
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tomboy6978
46 / male
Florissant, Missouri, US
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Re: Why do you want a one nightstand?
well to me if it was even worth it i would look for lots of things in common just incase it could lead into something more but like i say a relationship is the way to go not a one night stand thats just a waste of time
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| March 21, 2006, 18:08 |
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