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ok ? with a concerned
Some of you know her....lol I talk about her and to her almost as much as I do my kids.Crystal & her husband have ben together for 11 years....It has taken her this long to realize she and he has nothing in common with each other,much less in interests...I have known this from the beginning and when i tried to say something about it she blue me off not wanting to be reminded of reality.So i left it at that and she has lived her live.We have ben talking about this in a round about way for about a month though but honestly i don't know how to advise her.My ?is this...Being together for 11 years with nothing said or done together why do people allow it to get as fair as 11 years with a kid?She wants to leave but doesn't know how she has ben with him for 11 years and has a boy 10.LOL ya you guessed it...Amber"s boyfriend lol don't tell i sayed it lol....But what should I tell her  I don't even know how to start to help
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| March 10, 2006, 17:50 |
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nykitten
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Re: ok ? with a concerned
How or why people stay together varies...However, somehow a false sense of security falls into place, and they just can't see past their routine.....Most of us in that position are well aware of the fact that we aren't in the best place, and to leave would be best.......Somethings are just easier said than done.......
My advice to you, she is well aware of the situation in her heart......You just need to be there for her when it finally comes out!.....
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| March 10, 2006, 18:22 |
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Yep, I agree with Ms. Kitten again!!! Nothing new there!
Uprooting everything you have come to know is a hard move to make. For anyone, for whatever reasons that they feel they need to leave. It's fear of the unknown that will get to a person. And when she is ready to make that move, just be there for her. That is about all you can do. You can offer advise until you are blue in the face. But when it comes down to it, it is her choice to make. For the time being, just be her friend and lend a should or an ear to her. She will appreciate you just being there to listen!
 Jill
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| March 10, 2006, 18:42 |
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Re: Re: ok ? with a concerned
QUOTE (nykitten @ March 10, 2006, 18:22)How or why people stay together varies...However, somehow a false sense of security falls into place, and they just can't see past their routine.....Most of us in that position are well aware of the fact that we aren't in the best place, and to leave would be best.......Somethings are just easier said than done.......
My advice to you, she is well aware of the situation in her heart......You just need to be there for her when it finally comes out!.....
thankyou I think I knew the answer but i just didn't want to admit it i just feel so helpless
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