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schoolboy976
41 / couple
oak harbor, Washington, US
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open relationships
I got a question for all you swingers out there. My girl happens to be very open about her sex life, so open that she wants to swing. I have known my girl for awhile and I do have a certain level of worrie about this. She said she wont do it if I dont want to, and she also said if I do agree to do this that she will only do it with me around. She kinda got me convinced that it will be fun. I am scared to see my reaction when it actully goes down though. Please advice, tips, whatever you can lend to give me help on what to expect if I go through with this?
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| April 14, 2004, 17:55 |
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Re: open relationships
just do it ($.05 to Nike)...
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| April 15, 2004, 03:00 |
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Re: open relationships
I've heard of one main "rule" that I think is worth some thought , " Never give the third party(new person/people more attention than your partner/spouse." By the way,You two hafta be the cutest couple I've ever seen !!!
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| April 15, 2004, 13:56 |
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Re: open relationships
The Truth. If either of you has any reservations at all about swinging , open relationships, or sex with other partners, then you shouldn't do it, Period. It WILL ruin your relationship if you are not in PERFECT agreement on this subject and still act on it.
If you both decide that another partner is a "good addition," then by all means get one and have fun. Just make sure that you both know the rules, such as "do we all have to meet", "do I have a say in her partners," and "can she veto my partners."
Know the rules, be in agreement, have a ball.
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| April 15, 2004, 19:35 |
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Nomad33
47 / male
Dekalb, Illinois, US
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Re: open relationships
Open relationship = a dead relationship. Swinging destroys relationships.
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| January 24, 2010, 09:08 |
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Re: open relationships
I think you both need to be in 100 % agreement and comfortable with this. If either of you have reservations or doubts, I think that it wouldn't be good.
I'd suggest meeting these potential "partners" in a social setting. More than once if necessary. Get comfortable with them. I think most " swingers " understand that not everyone is comfortable with doing that the first meeting.
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| January 24, 2010, 16:00 |
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Re: open relationships
I know that if i was that in love with my man, i wouldn't want to see him touching or being touched by another woman.
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| January 24, 2010, 17:52 |
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Re: Re: open relationships
QUOTE (Nomad33 @ January 24, 2010, 09:08)
Yeah, it sure can.... swinging and swapping, open relationships are only for good strong relationships.
Probably not something a troubled couple should consider.
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| January 30, 2010, 01:57 |
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Chris1979
42 / couple
Staffs, England, UK
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Re: open relationships
Go 4 it!
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| February 3, 2010, 16:22 |
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Re: open relationships
When in doubt ( even the sligtest), don"t do it.
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| February 3, 2010, 21:40 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: open relationships
If your going to do it, build up to it first. Try a threesome with another woman. If that goes well, try it with a guy. If you can get past those types of situations and not feel weird or offended, then swinging will be a piece of cake. If not, then one night of either man/woman extra will show you the way to your own salvation or piece of mind and vice-versa... 
Oh, and I can't stress this enough. Talk about it to each other afterwards. Yours or her hang-ups need to be aired before you go any further or feelings will get hurt...
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