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well.. here we go..
Just wanted to let you guys know...
Apparently I messed things up pretty bad... don't know how entirely but last night I think I may have lost one of the bestest friends I've had in a long time. He's got feelings for another girl which is fine.. I want him to be happy, and if she can read this... Please.. don't lose your chance. He's a good guy, all the way around, inside and out.. you don't know what you're missing if you don't try things out with him. He could make any girl happy and I know it's not going to be me. I'm not one to compete for a guy as it's not worth it. I had stepped down from it, but went the wrong way with it, with a few drinks. I think I knew from day one when I first seen him that I was never to have him because I too did not feel any sparks that some of you speak of or had with someone. It's all in the timing. We get along great otherwise... and it's actually killing me right now to type all this out.
Just want you guys to know that, and ... i dunno... just going to be hard for me right now so I might just be taking a break from here and get back into the real world as I've been kinda missing out.
It's great to talk to all you guys and such, you all make me laugh and I love it. There are just some things around here that I want to get done right, that I can do within my reach. Hopefully I can get my friend back someday, as it's not true friendship if you don't have a few disagreements.. only makes it stronger. But.. only time will tell.
All my love,
BC69
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| March 4, 2006, 15:41 |
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QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ March 4, 2006, 15:41)Just wanted to let you guys know...
Apparently I messed things up pretty bad... don't know how entirely but last night I think I may have lost one of the bestest friends I've had in a long time. He's got feelings for another girl which is fine.. I want him to be happy, and if she can read this... Please.. don't lose your chance. He's a good guy, all the way around, inside and out.. you don't know what you're missing if you don't try things out with him. He could make any girl happy and I know it's not going to be me. I'm not one to compete for a guy as it's not worth it. I had stepped down from it, but went the wrong way with it, with a few drinks. I think I knew from day one when I first seen him that I was never to have him because I too did not feel any sparks that some of you speak of or had with someone. It's all in the timing. We get along great otherwise... and it's actually killing me right now to type all this out.
Just want you guys to know that, and ... i dunno... just going to be hard for me right now so I might just be taking a break from here and get back into the real world as I've been kinda missing out.
It's great to talk to all you guys and such, you all make me laugh and I love it. There are just some things around here that I want to get done right, that I can do within my reach. Hopefully I can get my friend back someday, as it's not true friendship if you don't have a few disagreements.. only makes it stronger. But.. only time will tell.
All my love,
BC69
WOW, Where to start?.... 
You are a true friend to all of us BC, and to think anything differently is ridiculous!...Your" "friend" knows that your heart is in the right place!.... Even though we ALL do stupid things, and lucky enough some of us can lighten the severity by using the old dumb blonde crap, all in all, a true friend always knows your true intentions......And if not, sadly to say they weren't a true friend to begin with..... 
There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication and trust.....You have heard me say that a thousand times..... However, always have your true intentions out on the table, and never be afraid to tell a friend how you feel.....They will know if you truly want to see them happy!......Trust me!.....
Time heals all wounds......He will find his way back if it was meant to be!......All things happen for a reason!....What that reason may be right now, who knows, but one day, you will understand!.....
Just remember, girlfriends come and go, friends are there for a lifetime if you allow it!
I hope you will be back soon, as for you are a huge part of this family!.....And to see you go would be very sad!....
Just do yourself a favor, and learn from this lesson!......Thats what makes getting older worth it!....We become so much wiser, and we learn to do things for the better!... 
I will miss you tremendously!......And I'm sure your "friend" will too!.... 
If there is anything I can do for you, Please don't hesitate to ask!......No matter what it is!..
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| March 4, 2006, 16:11 |
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KEEP ON KEEPIN ON SWEETHEART..!!! 
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| March 4, 2006, 16:18 |
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we all love you BC.. sometimes shitty things have to happen for the greater good. don't doubt yourself, you're an excellent girl and did exactly what you needed to for you. don't ever be sorry for that.
that's all I have to say about this in here.
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| March 4, 2006, 17:47 |
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BC - We love you and truly hope you do not stay away long. And honestly - not all relationships start out with sparks. In fact, I was not at all interested in my husband until fate brought us into a wonderful friendship which then led to more. As NYK said a true friend forgives and forgets - and everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) happens for a reason. I strongly believe that.
I send you my love and hugs and hope you are able to recover quickly!
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| March 4, 2006, 18:16 |
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