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how much is too much?
This was something I've kinda wondered being a lot of people now meet through the internet for all sorts of good stuff. Although this one particular thing keeps me wondering how people would go about it.
Lets say, you met the girl/guy of your dreams and you end up getting married.. whatever, you picture the happily ever after ending.
Do you (and/or how long would you) continue to do your internet fun(s) even if you include the other half, set some sort of limitations if you want to call it that, or do you skip out on the internet fun(s) altogether??
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| January 14, 2006, 22:16 |
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Re: how much is too much?
Personally, if your happy, why take the chance of screwing up what you have. Even limitations can be exceeded by one or the other. The tempation of what if could be too great and ruin everything.
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| January 14, 2006, 22:51 |
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Re: how much is too much?
depends on the "funs"... intimate shit then my opinion is stop. (big surprise to some of the married girls here huh?) but if its just playing chess with or inocent pen pal type stuff why stop?
but I'm guessing it's the Naughty stuff you're talking about so.. one vote on it's over with a significant other.
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| January 15, 2006, 07:37 |
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littlecock
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Re: how much is too much?
Well if she really was the girl of my dreams i would have to say it would STOP all together and we would devote ourself to each other.......
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| January 15, 2006, 08:00 |
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darkmark666
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Re: how much is too much?
Well, I think that bein' on here is fun in and of itself, and It depends on how seriously you take all of it, too...If you are sincerely on here (or any other site)to meet someone, and nothing more, then after that I would guess your goal would be met, and maybe you would have no more use for it, I however consider it in large part to be fun and games...and generally harmless! I would stick around. I have been single and dating since joining and would probably spend a little less time on here if I was in anything very serious(I would be making that person a priority) but, I would not want to entirely stop by any means...it satisfies a part of me.....
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| January 15, 2006, 08:22 |
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darkmark666
52 / male
millville, New Jersey, US
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Re: how much is too much?
I suppose, though, you might not want to run the risk of bumping into someone else that you end up developing a dialog with...and consequently...temptation?...But, thats a risk that we run everyday...at work...school...grocery store...everywhere, anywhere, and if we stray then they weren't "The One", we weren't "The One", or , in the case of some of us...maybe there is no..."ONE"?...nothin' lasts forever  
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| January 15, 2006, 08:32 |
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ElDeablo
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Scottsdale, Arizona, US
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Re: how much is too much?
If/when you truly found the right person you'll be to busy for your friends and family let alone 'us'.
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| January 15, 2006, 08:53 |
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Re: how much is too much?
I didnt think biker chicks liked dreamy guys always thought they wanted bad boys 
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| January 15, 2006, 08:57 |
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Re: how much is too much?
I'm guessing that when you do meet that someone...you'll know the answer. You may quit, expand or gradually subside but, either way..,you'll know.
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| January 15, 2006, 09:08 |
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Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 15, 2006, 09:08)I'm guessing that when you do meet that someone...you'll know the answer. You may quit, expand or gradually subside but, either way..,you'll know.
I agree with you Kuryous1! Jack and I met online, as most of you know. When I met him, all contact with others stopped. I had no interest in getting to know anyone else. As we grow together as a couple, we found ourselves here.  Meeting new people and experiencing new things together. So, it is pretty much a personal choice. And as Kuryous1 said, you will know.
 Jill
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| January 15, 2006, 09:51 |
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Re: how much is too much?
Wow!...Thanks!
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| January 15, 2006, 11:30 |
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Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 15, 2006, 11:30)Wow!...Thanks!
See, you don't get "slammed" everytime! 
Jill
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| January 15, 2006, 12:12 |
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Re: how much is too much?
True, but, your sweet people as is BC and everyone else. Besides, I have big shoulders...I'm serious about this thread...It's a personal choice that is already resolved once you find that special person....Hopefully. 
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| January 15, 2006, 12:26 |
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Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (jd39l @ January 15, 2006, 08:57)I didnt think biker chicks liked dreamy guys always thought they wanted bad boys
Bad boys are great, as well as dreamy guys although far as i've experienced I get along better with the inbetweens. Not too much of a bad boy but does things his own way.. and not too much of a dreamy guy thinking everything's about him.
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| January 15, 2006, 15:21 |
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Re: how much is too much?
I was just kinda wondering what you guys all thought about that sort of thing though, the question I had to start the thread. So thanks for the input. Kinda makes you think what's really important and not so important.
That'd be my case too, if I had interest in someone and I'd be putting more time into him, and stop with the others, especially the naughty 'fun'. But like DM said too... this sort of fills me as I don't have much time or chances, i should say, to go out whenever, wherever I please as I've got a child to think about. So it sort of fills the void that leaves me empty being my friends are out and about while I'm at home doing the mother duties.
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| January 15, 2006, 15:26 |
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darkmark666
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Re: Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ January 15, 2006, 15:21) QUOTE (jd39l @ January 15, 2006, 08:57)I didnt think biker chicks liked dreamy guys always thought they wanted bad boys
Bad boys are great, as well as dreamy guys although far as i've experienced I get along better with the inbetweens. Not too much of a bad boy but does things his own way.. and not too much of a dreamy guy thinking everything's about him.
So, that would be, like,...Bad dreamy guys?
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| January 15, 2006, 15:57 |
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Re: how much is too much?
Or would it be dreamy bad guys...
 
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| January 15, 2006, 16:06 |
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Handyman96
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Re: Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 15, 2006, 09:51) QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 15, 2006, 09:08)I'm guessing that when you do meet that someone...you'll know the answer. You may quit, expand or gradually subside but, either way..,you'll know.
I agree with you Kuryous1! Jack and I met online, as most of you know. When I met him, all contact with others stopped. I had no interest in getting to know anyone else. As we grow together as a couple, we found ourselves here. Meeting new people and experiencing new things together. So, it is pretty much a personal choice. And as Kuryous1 said, you will know.
Jill
WOW  I'm glad to see the the online thing can lead to happiness and that it worked for you and Jack ...maybe it will for me one day....I hope ...by the way if you dont mind me asking ...did you two meet here at this site?
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| January 15, 2006, 16:27 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (Handyman96 @ January 15, 2006, 16:27) QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 15, 2006, 09:51) QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 15, 2006, 09:08)I'm guessing that when you do meet that someone...you'll know the answer. You may quit, expand or gradually subside but, either way..,you'll know.
I agree with you Kuryous1! Jack and I met online, as most of you know. When I met him, all contact with others stopped. I had no interest in getting to know anyone else. As we grow together as a couple, we found ourselves here. Meeting new people and experiencing new things together. So, it is pretty much a personal choice. And as Kuryous1 said, you will know.
Jill
WOW I'm glad to see the the online thing can lead to happiness and that it worked for you and Jack ...maybe it will for me one day....I hope ...by the way if you dont mind me asking ...did you two meet here at this site?
Yes, it can. We always tease each other when commercials come on for dating...saying that shit never works! No, we didn't meet here. It was on one of the first ones...more popular ones. When we run into you in chat sometime, we can tell you...don't want to get into any trouble posting it here. ( to Chazzy )
Don't be , you are on a great site and I am sure that you will meet someone great here. You've made an awesome start by posting in the MBs! It let's us get to "know" you through your posts. One thing I can tell you for certain, is that you will find her when and where you least expect it! And you will be talking just like the people on those dating commercials!!! There is no way to describe it when you find it...you'll just know!
Jill
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| January 15, 2006, 16:46 |
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Re: how much is too much?
DM and Levi.. or it could very well be a nerd someday..? Just think of that.. a nerd driving a harley. But I'm not too crazy about a nerd who 1-would have tape on their glasses 2-their hair slicked back with over-coated hairgel and 3-having to worry about suspenders while trying to rip off their clothes
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| January 15, 2006, 17:38 |
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littlecock
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Re: Re: how much is too much?
QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ January 15, 2006, 17:38)DM and Levi.. or it could very well be a nerd someday..? Just think of that.. a nerd driving a harley. But I'm not too crazy about a nerd who 1-would have tape on their glasses 2-their hair slicked back with over-coated hairgel and 3-having to worry about suspenders while trying to rip off their clothes
Brutal...I'm just a nerd on a Harley...... 
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