please dont give me the dumb answers

seems no matter what i do in that sort of thing, never seems to work. Is it them or me? I've come to figure out..its them. They don't like what I can do for them, etc.. they can suck their own dick.. if that's possible! HA!
Ain't life grand?!

lol
wasnt trying to refer me giving good bj's.. but hey.. since its out in the open.. sure.. i've been told i know what im doing with that sort of thing.. so but yeah.. anyhoo.. that wasnt my main concern: bj's that is.. ha
you crack me up ol man..

taking out the garbage

they do make walkers that has those little baskets in them too.. you know, those 4 legged walkers... yeah... thats what you've got.. admit it.. so bend over bitch and take the damn garbage!

  QUOTE (naughtybutterfly @ January 14, 2006, 18:09)


Seriously? Just pay attention to him. Guys like to be needed and loved and made to feel were special, oh and stand up for us when your friend and family are doggin' us. Don't expect us to think like you either. If you expect for something to get done they way you want it done take the time to tell um what your thinking! That's a good start

dont expect anything about me to change...

make me feel like I'm a luxury in your life and not a nessessity....

show me you appreciate me, and as much as I encourage a "bonus" morning romp now and again, that's not the appreciation I'm taking about...

personally I find I can keep a man happy by not hitting on him or his woman, and never touching his dog, beer, or truck with out invitation.

  QUOTE (bikerchick69 @ January 14, 2006, 19:02)


It's got to be then my dear. Remember it takes two the tango. Life is more then the ability to give a good BJ...Ok not much more, but if that's all there interested in you don't need um anyway

dont expect anything about me to change...

make me feel like I'm a luxury in your life and not a nessessity....

show me you appreciate me, and as much as I encourage a "bonus" morning romp now and again, that's not the appreciation I'm taking about...

personally I find I can keep a man happy by not hitting on him or his woman, and never touching his dog, beer, or truck with out invitation.

  QUOTE (DEye @ January 14, 2006, 18:35)


very true but this is a two way street we as men must do the same

You can't KEEP anyone happy...they have to do that...If you are both happy, and accepting of life, in general, you may indeed go a long way together, if a person isn't happy with themselves...nothing anyone else can do will cure it. Many are not, and many have good reason...best to be with someone because you want to, not because not need to.

art, communication and poetry...with a pisces! and your husband didn't like to talk about anything???.......I am pisces...and my partner had damn sure be willing to talk! 'cause thats one of the things we do best! one of 'em anyway one of the most communicative and creative signs of the zodiac.

Well, I was going to let Jack answer this one, but I can't help myself!

I agree with Handyman69, it is a two way street. I have been down the one way, dead end street one too many times. It never works. If you are not happy, then you surely can't make anyone else happy.


Now, I am on that two way street! Personally, I don't think it is difficult to keep Jack happy. I tell him everyday, many times a day, that I love him..and truly mean it (not something many people can do). I also let him now how attractive he is...it's the little things. It's letting him know that I think of him all the time. I don't know if he expects this from me, it's just something that I feel is important to let him know. I want him to know that I appreciate him...just for being himself!

Most guys want to know that they are appreciated, loved, wanted and needed...emotionally and physically. Communication is another thing that is important. I want Jack to know that he can tell me anything...his desires, fantasies, and whatever else he feels is important to him.

So, there is really no one simple answer to this question. It just depends on the guy and what he feels is important to him.

Jill

how much can you do before you get into a relationship with a guy? I mean.. you can only do so much that will keep them coming back to you and I don't have a knack for that, that's a given-I'll be the first one to say I don't, although... the little things... does that count for anything?

art, communication and poetry...with a pisces! and your husband didn't like to talk about anything???.......I am pisces...and my partner had damn sure be willing to talk! 'cause thats one of the things we do best! one of 'em anyway one of the most communicative and creative signs of the zodiac.

Baby Him!

So, guys, at the end of the what women want is this: equal pay, fair treatment, respect, patience, sensitivity, passion and a genuine effort at understanding who they really are.

and you dont have a girlfriend or a wife????

I don't believe that it's so much what a man needs but what a relationship needs......Communication, trust, and honesty are three things needed to make any relationship work.....If you are being honest, and you both know each others intentions before hand, then they're no surprises...They should be able to tell you what exactly they want and expect from you!...As you should be able to do the same...You need to truly listen to what your partner says as well...If they are telling you they aren't interested in marriage, than don't think in ten years your going to change that in them!....Never expect someone to change for you!.......

Baby Him!

  QUOTE (nykitten @ January 16, 2006, 13:49)



we teach others how to treat us , what we accept is what we get

Ok I've been worning on this one for a long time and this is how to keep us happy. One through Ten:
ONE- We want you to understand that we don't give a shit about clothes,all
right? Yours OR ours. All we need is one pair of tennies and one pair of
church shoes. That's it.
TWO- Don't talk to us while the television is on, all right? Very simple:
Television is off, we talk. Television is on, we don't talk.
THREE- When you're behind the wheel of a car, if you want to get
aggressive, that's fine, but don't give somebody the finger and expect
me to defend your honor when Steroid Lad comes over swinging a pair
of nunchucks, all right?
FOUR- Would it kill you to watch 'The Godfather' with me for the
fifty-seventh time?
FIVE- Hey I'm sorry, but some of us see a beautiful sunset and think, "You
know, I betcha my accountant is boning me up the ass."
SIX- You go see Nell by yourself, all right? I met enough chicks like that
at The Drink when I was single.
SEVEN- Have a sense of humor. Without a sense of humor, a relationship
lasts about as long David Duke at a Black Panther meeting.
EIGHT- Work out your job-related anger before we have sex . Just because
Helmut, the office boy, brought you the *cup* of lima bean consomme
instead of the *bowl* of lima bean consomme from Soup Plantation, I don't
want to end up in the friction burn groin ward at Cedars-Sinai, all right?
NINE- Don't ask us to cry. As much as you say you want us to cry, you
don't really want us to cry. You hate it when we cry. I've tried crying
in front of my wife. She enjoyed it for about thirty seconds and then
started thinking, "Why in the fuck did I marry this hamster?"
TEN- be patient. Hold us. Love us unconditionally. Help us out of this
testosterone-induced fog we dwell in and lead us into the light. Or if
that's asking too much, how's about a big sloppy blowjob once in a while?
Now I'll be the first to admit that my advice on women is about as reliable as an M-16 in the mud, but this is what I kinda sorta, maybe think women want from men.

ONE- Foreplay is not a privilege; it is a birthright.
TWO- If you take her out to a fancy restaurant, don't try to subtly steer
her away from the lobster, Diamond Jim.
THREE- Quit blowing smoke up women's asses about the sanctity and power
they possess as lifegivers and come up with some decent affordable child
care. That way, maybe poor single mothers can go to work and get off
welfare and we won't have to listen to any more assholes in Congress
blathering about orphanages.
FOUR- Equal work for equal pay. Look around you at work, guys. Look at...
say Carl, the brain-dead jackoff in the cubicle next to you. You could
kill Carl, couldn't you, because he's a slacking, worthless, total idiot.
Now imagine making 30 percent less than Carl. Hellooo....
FIVE- This is very important: During lovemaking: Don't ask, "Who's your
daddy?" Even as a joke. All right? It's not funny.
SIX- When her mouth moves, pay attention, words could be coming out.
Words are kind of important.
SEVEN- Pass a law that makes it compulsory for all over-the-hill rock
stars to have women their own age in their videos.
EIGHT- Don't ask her if she came. You're a big boy now, Clouseau, you
should know if she came.
NINE- Don't tell her how to merge and she won't tell you to ask for
directions.
TEN- When she catches you cheating on her and cuts off your dick in your
sleep, take it like a man.

So, guys, at the end of the what women want is this: equal pay, fair
treatment, respect, patience, sensitivity, passion and a genuine effort
at understanding who they really are.