And there is no such thing as a stupid question!

  QUOTE (nykitten @ January 6, 2006, 05:28)


My ideer of an Open Marriage is when your wife dosen't have sex with you anymore, so your 'open' for someone else. Or maybe it could be because your dick isn't in her, so she open?

And there is no such thing as a stupid question!

Personally, I think it's when the spouse gives you permission to play without the other!.....Sooooo, Your guys aren't considered and " open Marriage "......

  QUOTE (DEye @ January 6, 2006, 06:10)


But wouldn't that be considered cheating???

  QUOTE (nykitten @ January 6, 2006, 05:27)


Oh we are definately not an open marriage ...I have no doubts there. I just think it is interesting how a lot of people say that they have an " open marriage " but their partner would probably be pretty pissed if they knew what the other was up to...that is for the ones that are hiding this site from their "loved" one...

Jill

My understanding of "open" marriage is one in which either partner may have sex outside of the partnership, although normally with approval of the spouse. I have never heard of one that works in the long term, usually because one partner or the other spends all of their time screwing someone other than the spouse, and the spouse sits home pining just as in any normal relationship.

I have a hard time considering what I do on this site to be cheating, as nobody actually has a chance of getting beyond the "game" stage. I am monogamous, but playful. Websex isn't cheating any more than the hugs we exchange with our friends, it is just masturbation.

I realise this may not hold true for others.

  QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 6, 2006, 06:23)


You right I do feel like I'm getting cheated out of what's left of my sex life

  QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 6, 2006, 06:23)


You right I do feel like I'm getting cheated out of what's left of my sex life

I guess my sex life is ok , not great , what I miss is a LOVE life.

  QUOTE (hardrock1955 @ January 6, 2006, 08:29)


Both at the same time is asking alot my friend

We have seen on a lot of profiles Married ( open marriage )...Can someone please enlighten me on exactly how it is an open marriage if your partner doesn't even know that you belong to this site or what exactly you do here??? I am not trying to be an airhead here...but apparently, my meaning of open marriage is completely different. Just wondering...

Jill

  QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 6, 2006, 05:21)


I wasn't the least bit interested in adult personals or online cyber relationships, my husband encouraged me in this direction.(He just wanted me to find a hobby so that I wouldn't annoy him while he plays his marathon online computer game "Battlefield" that is hopelessly addicted to) I would not be here, or have online contacts at all that he didn't know about, cuz I suck at lying....and I mean I really SUCK SUCK SUCK at it! I suck so bad at it, I won't even think about trying....

  QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 6, 2006, 05:21)


I wasn't the least bit interested in adult personals or online cyber relationships, my husband encouraged me in this direction.(He just wanted me to find a hobby so that I wouldn't annoy him while he plays his marathon online computer game "Battlefield" that is hopelessly addicted to) I would not be here, or have online contacts at all that he didn't know about, cuz I suck at lying....and I mean I really SUCK SUCK SUCK at it! I suck so bad at it, I won't even think about trying....

I agree with cktc open marriage should mean you are open about everything you think say and feal.Insted.... (In this day and age to means you can cheat on your sig. other just as long as she/he knows it.I would love to have what I consider am open marriage .insted hear I am on this web. lol thank ok I LOVE TO TALK TO PEOPLE

Warren and I do not have an "open" marriage. We are married period. We play together, outside of those bonds, but always together. We can take it or leave it. There's no sneaking around, no jealousy, no "well, I like him" or "Well, I like her" if the other parner does not like them.
If we are going to play with another couple, we have to like them enough to want to be friends with them, or nothing happens. If it's a single person for a 3some .gif">, same thing. If it's a guy or a girl and I don't like him/her, that's it. He has the same veto power.
Fun is the point of the whole thing. We don't play because there is something missing between us, we play because we enjoy sex , and having a lot of it, whether it's just us or, three people or 4 people.

  QUOTE (pepper @ January 15, 2006, 10:22)

I agree with Pepper 100%....and NaughtyButterfly things will improve for you the right man is out there for you maybe just around the corner.....or just alittle trip west on I80

  QUOTE (nykitten @ January 6, 2006, 05:28)



There are no stupid questions, only stupid people. *nods*

  QUOTE (Handyman96 @ January 15, 2006, 11:40)

Oh really? Is that am invo. lol or what. lol just kidding

  QUOTE (naughtybutterfly @ January 15, 2006, 13:05)

well i do go to Reno twice a week maybe we could have coffee one morning?

  QUOTE (hardrock1955 @ January 6, 2006, 08:29)


Both at the same time is asking alot my friend

  QUOTE (DEye @ January 6, 2006, 08:48)

I don't think its asking a lot. That is what true love is....knowing the difference between the love and the sex. belive me there is a big difference.Love is a choice good or bad

  QUOTE (DEye @ January 6, 2006, 06:10)


But wouldn't that be considered cheating???