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lilcriccitt
49 / female los angeles, California, US
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New here, and need help fast
I am in desperate need here. I have been bi curious for years. I will be getting married soon and my fiance doesn't know yet. So before I get married I have to explore and be explored by a sexy woman . I even get hot just thinking about the possibility. It ashame too, becaue when I have sex I am thinking of how it would feel to have a womans touch, and tounge all over my body. Somebody please help me I can't deal with these sexual desires I need to get a woman fast
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January 4, 2006, 19:19 |
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Re: New here, and need help fast
QUOTE (lilcriccitt @ January 4, 2006, 19:19)I am in desperate need here. I have been bi curious for years. I will be getting married soon and my fiance doesn't know yet. So before I get married I have to explore and be explored by a sexy woman . I even get hot just thinking about the possibility. It ashame too, becaue when I have sex I am thinking of how it would feel to have a womans touch, and tounge all over my body. Somebody please help me I can't deal with these sexual desires I need to get a woman fast
Have you discussed your desires with your other half at all...you might be surprised by his reaction... I know what you mean though...the thought is such a huge turn on...isn't it...
Jill
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January 4, 2006, 19:24 |
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lilcriccitt
49 / female los angeles, California, US
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Re: New here, and need help fast
I mentioned it to him long ago, and he said no. Actually he yelled it. He said if he was to let me do that, I might not want to be with him anymore. I guess he feels that way because it has happend to a couple of people he knows.
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January 4, 2006, 20:09 |
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Re: New here, and need help fast
You don't need a woman fast, you need to marry slower....
How is your compatability with him sexually (and non sexually) otherwise? Is he more conservative about sex in general than you are?
This is just a POV from someone who does take marraige so very seriously as a lifetime commitment, making one work can be extremely difficult if you enter the marraige with doubts....but if you are really ready to recite and accept the vows of "till death do us part", and devote yourself to building a strong marraige and a good life....then your bi/les curiosities would seem to be a small, not-so-significant part of your life that you could easily live with through private fantasies, and not a major overwhelming need that causes you so much anxiety.
Is it the thought of a missed opportunity for sexual experimentation, or that a major commitment is frightening, or you're having a few doubts about who you are about to make this commitment to.
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January 4, 2006, 22:10 |
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Re: Re: New here, and need help fast
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 4, 2006, 22:10)You don't need a woman fast, you need to marry slower....
How is your compatability with him sexually (and non sexually) otherwise? Is he more conservative about sex in general than you are?
This is just a POV from someone who does take marraige so very seriously as a lifetime commitment, making one work can be extremely difficult if you enter the marraige with doubts....but if you are really ready to recite and accept the vows of "till death do us part", and devote yourself to building a strong marraige and a good life....then your bi/les curiosities would seem to be a small, not-so-significant part of your life that you could easily live with through private fantasies, and not a major overwhelming need that causes you so much anxiety.
Is it the thought of a missed opportunity for sexual experimentation, or that a major commitment is frightening, or you're having a few doubts about who you are about to make this commitment to.
DITTO
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January 4, 2006, 22:15 |
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hardrock1955
69 / male McGaheysville, Virginia, US
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Re: New here, and need help fast
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January 4, 2006, 23:22 |
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darkmark666
52 / male millville, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: New here, and need help fast
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 4, 2006, 22:10)You don't need a woman fast, you need to marry slower....
Couldn't have said it better!
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January 5, 2006, 07:08 |
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Re: New here, and need help fast
Chazzy stated it very well as always! We couldn't agree with her more! Best of luck to you!
Jill
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January 5, 2006, 10:44 |
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