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cybersex journal...
For some, it's a regular part of their lives.
But for others, it's an elusive dream, maybe some participation here will help those who aren't "gettin' cyber lucky" see what they are doing, or not doing that's causing them to miss out....
So would you be interested, and willing, to share in as much detail as possible, and as often as possible, your cybersex experiences? Also, describing how you find your online friends, what makes you choose someone as a cybermate, and what makes you "pass" on someone else? Do you start slow,"getting to know" them with emails, then progress, or go online and hunt among the herds of strangers whenever you're in the mood?
.....just looking for anything you can offer on the subject !!!!
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| January 3, 2006, 02:34 |
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nykitten
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Re: cybersex journal...
Cybersex is not a huge part of my life...As a matter of fact, there has only been One person I have done it with...(oh and I still do it with him)......My partner for cybersex has been in my life for over a year and a half, but he is much more than just a cyber affair!.....I guess I have been very lucky..... 
However, when it comes to meeting someone for that....I would have to say that I look for the same things I would as if I was going to have a "relationship" with someone...(and for those of you thinking you don't want a relationship , its not that kind.....It can be a simple as liking them as a friend)
I have found all of my good friends on line, but believe me, I have spoken to many, and only gravitated to a few....I actually find the forums a great place to understand the people who post...Too bad others don't take advantage of that....To be honest, they are the only people I talk to in here (and as all women, I get tons of mail, and YES, I can write them back, I choose not to)...
How do I chose someone from all these people.....Like I said....I have found a few friends in the forum, that through their responses, I could tell that they think like me, and I like what they have to say!...I will read all of my e mails but I refuse to answer any that are plain rude.....If they want a piece of meat, then they need to find someone else!
Reading someones profile will help the men know at least if they are interested in cybersex ....If its not on the profile, and you want to know, Hey ask!......However doesn't mean that you will get the answer your looking for.....And There are ways of asking that aren't rude!.....If you don't ask, you will never know!....BUT...if your told no...then its NO!...That's when we get pissed!....
Its simple, be yourself, and have some confidence!....However there is a big line between confidence and cockiness!.....and when you cross that line, you will end up having cybersex alone!... 
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| January 3, 2006, 06:20 |
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Re: cybersex journal...
Very well said Kitten! As always, you are right on! Now, if we could just get some of these knuckleheads to read! I know of one fella on here that is boarderline stalker...creeps me out. And he will not back down...got to the point to where we just ignore him.  I know that you have crossed paths with him as well. Very pushy guy...   I don't imagine that he is going to get many responses to his approach.
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| January 3, 2006, 08:32 |
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Re: Re: cybersex journal...
QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 3, 2006, 08:32)Very well said Kitten! As always, you are right on! Now, if we could just get some of these knuckleheads to read! I know of one fella on here that is boarderline stalker...creeps me out. And he will not back down...got to the point to where we just ignore him. I know that you have crossed paths with him as well. Very pushy guy... I don't imagine that he is going to get many responses to his approach.
Oh yeah...know the stalker type... geez, if we reject them, it must be because we're frigid, dried up, cold hearted manhating bitches! Cuz it sure couldn't be because they are self righteous bastards trying to hide thier numerous insecurities with a mask of false superiority?????
Anyway, talking about cybersex ....
I've found two very worthwhile online friends, one I've been with for over three years, he's very open minded, hardcore dirty guy with an occasional surprising streak of romance, he's adorable, handsome and built like a dream...the other guy, I've known for almost 2 years, he's very intelligent,(major hot turn on!!) and our sense of humor runs into the same vein of "sick", we're both extremely comfortable sharing any thought or fantasy, without any fear of judgment...and he's also a real hot lookin ' doode too... I'm greedy that way...I want my time spent on a quality experience with exceptional people, and not just with someone who has a dick and cus up a dirty talking storm.....
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| January 3, 2006, 12:42 |
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xhibiton
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Re: cybersex journal...
When I've ended up doing this, I've tried not to press, making sure of where things are going before I really commit. I've actually ended up making some good friends that way; in other cases, it was people I already knew but things drifted into a certain direction one time, and... 
I try to be detailed in the act itself, and like the same from whoever I'm cybering with. This comes mostly from my first cyber experience, and I suppose I'm a bit spoiled from that.
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| January 3, 2006, 14:28 |
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Re: cybersex journal...
Hey Xhibition!!! Just saw the new photos you uploaded!! Like 'em! Like 'em! Like 'em!
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| January 3, 2006, 14:46 |
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nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: cybersex journal...
QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 3, 2006, 14:46)Hey Xhibition!!! Just saw the new photos you uploaded!! Like 'em! Like 'em! Like 'em!
I must agree!.....Very nice!...
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| January 3, 2006, 15:41 |
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Actually, Ive spent alot of time in the chatroom. JackNJill are the sweetest people to talk to. There are some who seem to be exceesive in the rude department but there are alot of nice people who are more than willing to have some very good Cybersex . In fact...Damn they're good! I won't name names but they are fantastic.
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| January 3, 2006, 15:48 |
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QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 3, 2006, 15:48)Actually, Ive spent alot of time in the chatroom. JackNJill are the sweetest people to talk to. There are some who seem to be exceesive in the rude department but there are alot of nice people who are more than willing to have some very good Cybersex . In fact...Damn they're good! I won't name names but they are fantastic.
Why thank you! We enjoy chatting with everyone. We have made a lot of new friends here and can't wait to meet everyone.  We love the message boards, there is so many cool people on there. Hopefully, we can get more folks interested in them.
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| January 3, 2006, 16:01 |
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Re: cybersex journal...
Tanxs....Everyone here are sweet...even those who are quite good at shooting arrows!
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| January 3, 2006, 16:05 |
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QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 3, 2006, 16:05)Tanxs....Everyone here are sweet...even those who are quite good at shooting arrows!
And how do you know about the arrows???
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| January 3, 2006, 16:06 |
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QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 3, 2006, 16:06) QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 3, 2006, 16:05)Tanxs....Everyone here are sweet...even those who are quite good at shooting arrows!
And how do you know about the arrows???
I have a huge target on me and broad shoulders so, it's no problem. I can take it! I've been shot a few times....
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| January 3, 2006, 16:09 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: cybersex journal...
QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 3, 2006, 16:09) QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ January 3, 2006, 16:06) QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ January 3, 2006, 16:05)Tanxs....Everyone here are sweet...even those who are quite good at shooting arrows!
And how do you know about the arrows???
I have a huge target on me and broad shoulders so, it's no problem. I can take it! I've been shot a few times....
Sorry, that one went way over my head! I gotcha now! I thought you were talking about me and my bow...I am a good shot with it, but not the shots you are talking about...don't mind me...
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| January 3, 2006, 16:12 |
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Re: cybersex journal...
No problem.....The wounds heal quickly...As for your bow...I'm sure the ladies are interested.
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| January 3, 2006, 16:18 |
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xhibiton
52 / male
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Re: Re: Re: cybersex journal...
QUOTE (nykitten @ January 3, 2006, 15:41) QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 3, 2006, 14:46)Hey Xhibition!!! Just saw the new photos you uploaded!! Like 'em! Like 'em! Like 'em!
I must agree!.....Very nice!...
Thanks, both of you.  I figured some of the advice y'all were giving on another thread was a good idea.
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| January 3, 2006, 16:29 |
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nykitten
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Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: cybersex journal...
QUOTE (xhibiton @ January 3, 2006, 16:29) QUOTE (nykitten @ January 3, 2006, 15:41) QUOTE (Chazzy @ January 3, 2006, 14:46)Hey Xhibition!!! Just saw the new photos you uploaded!! Like 'em! Like 'em! Like 'em!
I must agree!.....Very nice!...
Thanks, both of you. I figured some of the advice y'all were giving on another thread was a good idea.
Your welcome! ..Paying attention will get you far now a days!..... 
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| January 3, 2006, 16:32 |
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Re: cybersex journal...
Agree 100% xhibition - You look GREAT!! 
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| January 4, 2006, 08:23 |
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xhibiton
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Re: cybersex journal...
Thanks again. 
A guy could get rather full of himself from all this attention. Er, Chazzy, sorry about diverting the thread and all...
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| January 4, 2006, 14:34 |
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