|
| AUTHOR |
MESSAGE |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Fact?......or not!
"opposites attract"
Are you attracted to, or have most of your relationships been with someone who is very much the "opposite" of you, or with someone you have a whole lot in common with?
|
| December 26, 2005, 07:41 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
Almost always been opposite...they're always the good girl and I was the bad boy...
 
|
| December 26, 2005, 08:45 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
As for Jack and I, we are a combination of both! He have a lot in common, but we also have a lot of opposites. We actually balance each other out. For instance, he is always late...I am always 5 minutes early...but when we are together, we are right on time.  
|
| December 26, 2005, 08:51 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (Jacknjill143 @ December 26, 2005, 08:51)As for Jack and I, we are a combination of both! He have a lot in common, but we also have a lot of opposites. We actually balance each other out. For instance, he is always late...I am always 5 minutes early...but when we are together, we are right on time.
Dang it... *We have...
|
| December 26, 2005, 08:52 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
I believe it's different with each person but, I'd have to say that yeah, I do love those who are opposite of me..... 
|
| December 26, 2005, 10:19 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ December 26, 2005, 10:19)I believe it's different with each person but, I'd have to say that yeah, I do love those who are opposite of me.....
Yeah....it seems that too much in common can really narrow your world down, and a large range of differences can bust it wide open...
|
| December 26, 2005, 11:04 |
|
darkmark666
52 / male
millville, New Jersey, US
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
somewhere in the middle, yep... although, I have had some pretty good sex with people I could'nt stand because they were so opposite me in their belief system that I almost felt like a fox in the henhouse! kinda like sexual espionage. good relationships, though, definately depend on having enough in common to like each other and each others world, but, enough differences to expose each other to new ideas and passions.
|
| December 26, 2005, 11:45 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 26, 2005, 07:41)"opposites attract"
Are you attracted to, or have most of your relationships been with someone who is very much the "opposite" of you, or with someone you have a whole lot in common with?
For me it verys from close to being like me to total opp.
|
| December 26, 2005, 12:12 |
|
nykitten
54 / female
Pawling, New York, US
|
Re: Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (darkmark666 @ December 26, 2005, 11:45)somewhere in the middle, yep... although, I have had some pretty good sex with people I could'nt stand because they were so opposite me in their belief system that I almost felt like a fox in the henhouse! kinda like sexual espionage. good relationships, though, definately depend on having enough in common to like each other and each others world, but, enough differences to expose each other to new ideas and passions.
Couldn't have said it better myself!.... 
|
| December 26, 2005, 15:21 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (nykitten @ December 26, 2005, 15:21) QUOTE (darkmark666 @ December 26, 2005, 11:45)somewhere in the middle, yep... although, I have had some pretty good sex with people I could'nt stand because they were so opposite me in their belief system that I almost felt like a fox in the henhouse! kinda like sexual espionage. good relationships, though, definately depend on having enough in common to like each other and each others world, but, enough differences to expose each other to new ideas and passions.
Couldn't have said it better myself!....
Yep, very well said...again. Boy, we agree with him a lot! And we are still breathing to boot!
|
| December 26, 2005, 18:06 |
|
bignasty
53 / male
Elko, Nevada, US
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 26, 2005, 07:41)"opposites attract"
Are you attracted to, or have most of your relationships been with someone who is very much the "opposite" of you, or with someone you have a whole lot in common with?
Not for me I get involved with bad girls that only like my money or my stuff or the way I look thats a big reason for the tatoos not just because people think they are cool but more of a protest in art I want the ladies to like and love my mind frist
|
| December 28, 2005, 03:54 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (bignasty @ December 28, 2005, 03:54)
....I want the ladies to like and love my mind frist
Hey..for some of us....it Is the mind that we need, love and desire. Even when I was young, I had a thing, a real strong thing for smart men. I was never taken in by wavy hair, striking eyes, or tight ass nor was I ever attracted to a dumb, rude, jerk...regardless of what he looked like...
|
| December 28, 2005, 04:46 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (bignasty @ December 28, 2005, 03:54) QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 26, 2005, 07:41)"opposites attract"
Are you attracted to, or have most of your relationships been with someone who is very much the "opposite" of you, or with someone you have a whole lot in common with? I love art as for you BN so far I love everything about you even the bad boy side 
Not for me I get involved with bad girls that only like my money or my stuff or the way I look thats a big reason for the tatoos not just because people think they are cool but more of a protest in art I want the ladies to like and love my mind frist
|
| December 28, 2005, 07:40 |
|
User no longer registered.
|
Re: Re: Re: Fact?......or not!
QUOTE (Chazzy @ December 26, 2005, 11:04) QUOTE (Kuryous1 @ December 26, 2005, 10:19)I believe it's different with each person but, I'd have to say that yeah, I do love those who are opposite of me.....
Yeah....it seems that too much in common can really narrow your world down, and a large range of differences can bust it wide open...
I think if you both love each other, have alot in common and are both a little bit intelligent, there is nothing that can stop you from achieving anything, but if you have nothing in common, all you wind up doing is arguing, and hating eachothers decissions and you accomplish nothing.
|
| December 28, 2005, 11:45 |
|
hardrock1955
69 / male
McGaheysville, Virginia, US
|
Re: Fact?......or not!
my wife of 20 years and I had a little ..but not much in common, unless you count that she liked to have someone to bitch at and accuse of doing things  I met someone I truly fell in absolute love with , and she felt the same about me , we had a hell of a lot in common, except drinking , she would get totally wiped out , on drink as well as other things ,then cheat, I couldnt handle that. now she is gone . so ,little in common, we stayed together 20 years, a lot in common, 4 years. take from it what you will 
|
| December 29, 2005, 20:38 |
|
|
