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Advice on attactment
What happenes, if you meet someone on here you really like. And then you meet for real, and you find that you like them even more, and they live far away? Or what if you feel that way, and they dont? What do you do if you get attatched to someone? Im so scared that might happen, because I know so many guys want the " no strings attatched " sex. I want to be able to give that, without feeling attatched to them, or without wanting them to be with me forever or something. What does one do if that happenes?
It hasnt happened to me yet...but I want to avoid it, if the guy only wants the " no strings attatched " thing. I aim to please,but at the same time,I dont want to end up hurt.
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| December 10, 2005, 22:23 |
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Re: Advice on attactment
Attach.....yeah I cant spell.
Why cant I spell that word?
Wierd... 
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| December 10, 2005, 22:24 |
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Re: Advice on attactment
Take things slowly at first..alot of people are completely different in person than one the comp.Be sure you hold on to your heart before giving it away only to have it crushed later on. Really get to know the person WELL !!!!
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| December 10, 2005, 22:31 |
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Re: Advice on attactment
Good advice. Thank you so much. <3
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| December 10, 2005, 22:44 |
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nykitten
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Pawling, New York, US
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Re: Advice on attactment
I have learned that hoenesty and communication are the key to any friendship or relationship...I think its mainly up to you to figure out what they want, either by reading their profiles and getting to know them a bit thru e mails and chat.......We were all born with a womans intuition (obviosly not the men) and I think if you go with that, you should know whether or not they are right for you......
However it sounds to me that you might be looking for something a bit more stable than a "no strings" relationship...., To me, any kind of "no string" relationship opens yourself to getting hurt in the end......Remenber we can't turn our feelings off and on when we want to!...
So my advice is to take things slow, and really get to know the person.....It couldn't hurt...Hell you just might walk away with a great friend!.....And always listen to your heart!......And try to always be honest with them and yourself!....
The far away thing..... ...Fathest I have ever traveld to be with someone was about five hours to get there ( dumb blonde, got lost! or shall I say stupid Mapquest!) and 3 to get home!....(much better!).....And for myself, well I can say it was well worth it, and look forward to doing it again!..... 
Good luck to you!  .....Hope you find what your looking for! 
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| December 11, 2005, 05:05 |
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Re: Advice on attactment
Definately take your time! Don't rush into meeting anyone. Do as the others said, chat/e-mail, talk on the phone...then make the decision after you know more about what the person is really about. That is how I met my Jack. We meet online. We got to "know" each other before we actually met. It took us a while before we actually decided to met and when we finally did, we have been together ever since. That was over two years ago. We were married this past August, still newlyweds...YEEHAW!   But, it is very possible to find someone that you click with online. Just know the difference between lust and love! Best of luck to you!
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| December 11, 2005, 05:16 |
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absix
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Web Naughty
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Re: Advice on attactment
Great advice!!!
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| December 12, 2005, 00:54 |
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Re: Advice on attactment
Thank you so much. I will take it slow, and try not to go to fast. 
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| December 12, 2005, 12:08 |
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