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NCOutlaw53
71 / couple
Mt Airy, North Carolina, US
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Starting to think this site is a scam
Joined this site to find a female for a threesome and have sent emails and flirts to search matches and haven't received any responses at all. This is making me start thinking this site is a scam.
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| January 30, 2015, 02:29 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
trust me it's not. when i first joined, long before i got asked to be a moderator, i was a "free member". it took quite a bit of effort, but i personally have met a few people from the site. a former member and i started out with a few hook ups,and it developed into a great friendship . i can honestly tell you, if you put some time and effort into this, it does work. you're a new member. give it some time. it took me a year and a half to meet her, but during that time i have developed quite a few other online friends here. 
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| January 30, 2015, 10:23 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
indeed, and most of these ladies have heard everthing us guys can dream up already, and it don't happen over night. and I too have been on here for years. 
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| January 30, 2015, 15:41 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
It has been slow here for the last few days....People have lives, and responsibilities, etc....
There has also been somewhat of a problem for the last while with the "Chat" rooms, but they are working on it.
I also believe that there is a problem with mobile devices not being compatible with this site, which may be another huge problem.
I have met some of the hottest, kindest, most exciting women here.....and once they get to know you, which may take some time..You'll log in daily.
They're kind of addictive.
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| January 30, 2015, 16:32 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male
State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
I wish I had a nickle for every time Ive heard comments like this over the years. This isn't WalMart. And because no one has responded to you doesn't make the site a scam. There are real people here, with real personalities and real feelings. Just like going to a bar or a party to meet someone. It doesn't mean anyone is going home with you.
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| January 30, 2015, 20:37 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ January 30, 2015, 20:37)I wish I had a nickle for every time Ive heard comments like this over the years. This isn't WalMart. And because no one has responded to you doesn't make the site a scam. There are real people here, with real personalities and real feelings. Just like going to a bar or a party to meet someone. It doesn't mean anyone is going home with you.
I bet you say that to all the boys...
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| January 30, 2015, 21:10 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
How long did it take you to find your mate? A week?
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| January 30, 2015, 21:38 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
Free I'm about to say something that might make you go into shock so prepare yourself....I agree with you 100%
Why do so many people think they are going to put a post up or send a few emails out and that will get them the thing they have been fantasizing about for a life time.
As for me, I have been busy with the man I met on here over 4 years ago. Oh wait, that can't be because this is supposed to be a scam. I better tell him because we have sure spent a lot of time together for people who could not have really met on here.
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| January 31, 2015, 00:00 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
So there's two posts from a couple of real women on this sight with enough cleavage between the two of them too make a Tibetan Monk wanna give up his belief system for a week.
I,ve had the pleasure of knowing them for many years and I can honestly say neither one has ever scammed me.
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| January 31, 2015, 01:35 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ January 30, 2015, 20:37)I wish I had a nickle for every time Ive heard comments like this over the years. This isn't WalMart. And because no one has responded to you doesn't make the site a scam. There are real people here, with real personalities and real feelings. Just like going to a bar or a party to meet someone. It doesn't mean anyone is going home with you.
If any of you have ever cruised for action in WalMart and seen the "Roll Back" selection available there.....You will realize how truly wise our friend Free is.
It seems when guys don't get any action they point the finger and scream ...Lesbian, Married, Her Loss,....or Scam.
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| January 31, 2015, 01:51 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
It seems to be human nature to blame anyone and everything for our own faults and mistakes. We don't like to think the fault can be our own. But until we look in the mirror and be truthful with our self things wont change.
We have seen and heard the same thing over and over yet others seem to get a lot of response. Don't you wonder why? Example of this is four men on here that seem to have no problem getting women to talk to them and answer them when they send emails. Kam, Free, Syb, and Wandering5tar. There are more but I'll use these guys as an example. If other guys took a clue from them they would get many more responses. The main things that I feel make them so "endearing" for lack of a better word at this moment, is they don't try to hard to impress us,they are just being them and they are above all respectful to us and each other.They also don't send us texts that say "Wanna fuck?" and expect us to answer "YES!" (Exception to that is Kam but that's because he and I have been in a relationship for over 4 years.) They also never get stupid with us in the chat rooms and they are not rude to others when we are chatting with them.This really is not rocket science. It's simply going back to the basics that most of us had learned from our parents. Be nice, polite, NO MEANS NO, be respectful, be open minded,make an effort if you want something. (Making an effort does not me becoming a stalker!)
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| January 31, 2015, 20:57 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
one other thing you should know about this site, most of the ladies here (and men) dislike members that join, and immediately begin crying when they send out a few feeler messages and don't get felt back in response, especially when they start whining within a week of joining the site. it takes some time and effort. shoot, even Syb's sheep were unresponsive too his advances at first... 
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| February 1, 2015, 07:47 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ February 1, 2015, 07:47)one other thing you should know about this site, most of the ladies here (and men) dislike members that join, and immediately begin crying when they send out a few feeler messages and don't get felt back in response, especially when they start whining within a week of joining the site. it takes some time and effort. shoot, even Syb's sheep were unresponsive too his advances at first...
Thats a fact !!....But they eventually saw my charm.
..And Newbs...I'm flattered you'd include me into that list of fine men, and I was more than complimented by your words.
I take my hat off to you.
Thanks
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| February 1, 2015, 16:22 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male
State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
NCOutlaw, I apologize if my remark seemed a bit snarky, but this is a great site. As you can probably tell by all of the above remarks from all of my friends, we're a pretty tight knit group and we look out for our own and we always welcome new members with open arms. Maybe you'll find what you're looking for, maybe you wont. Just remember, it isn't mail order. Best of luck to you, Sir.
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| February 2, 2015, 02:30 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ February 2, 2015, 02:30)NCOutlaw, I apologize if my remark seemed a bit snarky, but this is a great site. As you can probably tell by all of the above remarks from all of my friends, we're a pretty tight knit group and we look out for our own and we always welcome new members with open arms. Maybe you'll find what you're looking for, maybe you wont. Just remember, it isn't mail order. Best of luck to you, Sir.
it'll be easier when the chat gets fixed, hopefully soon.
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| February 2, 2015, 03:28 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
  
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| February 2, 2015, 23:10 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ February 1, 2015, 16:22) QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ February 1, 2015, 07:47)one other thing you should know about this site, most of the ladies here (and men) dislike members that join, and immediately begin crying when they send out a few feeler messages and don't get felt back in response, especially when they start whining within a week of joining the site. it takes some time and effort. shoot, even Syb's sheep were unresponsive too his advances at first...
Thats a fact !!....But they eventually saw my charm.
..And Newbs...I'm flattered you'd include me into that list of fine men, and I was more than complimented by your words.
I take my hat off to you.
Thanks
You are very welcome Syb. Honestly all the regulars are basically the same. Please understand that we as a group get along pretty well. We don't always agree on things and we don't all have an attraction to each other. This site allows us to talk about sex and maybe meet people if we choose, but you have to understand that you can also just meet interesting people that you might not have ever met without it. We live so far apart from one another yet have become friends. Even if I never got to meet Kam I think I would have been happy with the site. Meeting Kam was just a huge bonus in my life.
Just as a side thought....Has anyone ever tried to figure out how many long term relationships started on this site?
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| February 3, 2015, 02:57 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male
State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 3, 2015, 02:57) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ February 1, 2015, 16:22) QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ February 1, 2015, 07:47)one other thing you should know about this site, most of the ladies here (and men) dislike members that join, and immediately begin crying when they send out a few feeler messages and don't get felt back in response, especially when they start whining within a week of joining the site. it takes some time and effort. shoot, even Syb's sheep were unresponsive too his advances at first...
Thats a fact !!....But they eventually saw my charm.
..And Newbs...I'm flattered you'd include me into that list of fine men, and I was more than complimented by your words.
I take my hat off to you.
Thanks
You are very welcome Syb. Honestly all the regulars are basically the same. Please understand that we as a group get along pretty well. We don't always agree on things and we don't all have an attraction to each other. This site allows us to talk about sex and maybe meet people if we choose, but you have to understand that you can also just meet interesting people that you might not have ever met without it. We live so far apart from one another yet have become friends. Even if I never got to meet Kam I think I would have been happy with the site. Meeting Kam was just a huge bonus in my life.
Just as a side thought....Has anyone ever tried to figure out how many long term relationships started on this site?
Actually Newbs, I remember several from the old days. In some cases, it seemed like they found what they were looking for, and split. You and Kam are the only ones that I can think of that stuck around
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| February 3, 2015, 12:21 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
hardrock and wildflower still show up once in a while.
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| February 3, 2015, 16:17 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Starting to think this site is a scam
I guess you can say Kam and I have a bit of a different way of seeing things than many couples. I have found that once in a relationship the majority of women don't want their man talking about sex or video sexting. Kam and I still agree that it is harmless as long as we are honest with each other and the people we play with if we choose to play. I can't tell you how many times I have gotten texts from people trying to "Rat him out" and they are shocked when I tell them I am very aware of his play time. The other things I get are people saying we are full of shit and there is no way we tell each other what we do. Or they don't believe we are in a real relationship.I haven't changed my views since I came on here and neither has he. We don't try to change each other. I trust him, he trusts me. We both know where each others comfort levels are.We live in different states. if either of us wanted to fuck around it wouldn't be hard to do. I just don't have the patience for jealousy crap. I never have. It is rare that am jealous of anyone or anything.So when we became a couple we continued to do what each of us felt comfortable with. I have not "played" with anyone in ages but it is a choice not a demand from him. He plays when he wants to and that's fine. I kind of like when he gets all turned on and I get the benefit when I get there.I can only tell you from years of being online that most couples don't continue on the same sites once they hook up . At least not under the same names.I have seen a few people on here that disappear for a while when they meet someone then come back when they break up.But I have heard that there were quit a few people that met their partner on here and are still together. I think most were before my time on here.
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| February 4, 2015, 02:36 |
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