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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Oral Sex
If some does not offer. do you ask or initiat?
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| September 30, 2014, 16:57 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Oral Sex
It's always tricky raising these difficult subjects. You don't want to be too subtle or they might not get the message, but equally you don't want to come on too strong.
After all, there's no need to ram it down someone's throat...
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| September 30, 2014, 18:07 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male
State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Oral Sex
I would give first and then expect to receive.
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| September 30, 2014, 21:04 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: Oral Sex
both. but itend to ask first, the first time.
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| October 1, 2014, 01:12 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Oral Sex
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ September 30, 2014, 16:57)
If some does not offer. do you ask or initiat?
I slowly work my way down, and I figure the lifting of the hips , and the grabbing the back of my head is an invitation.
Also, if she turns her head sideways, and my dick gets ear sex...I take that as a refusal.
If I feel she is interested, and sexually open minded...I'll just flat out ask her over dinner....All women being complex individuals ,and different from each other, require a different approach each time to the subject....but I find once it's given, there is usually a enthusiastic response.
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| October 1, 2014, 14:13 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Oral Sex
I will initiate many times but sometimes I think its like a contest of who gets to do it first. I also know if he wants me to give him a blow job he has no problem asking because he knows I love doing it and I have never had to ask him to start. I have had to ask,... okay BEG him to stop many times.He sometimes has to be reminded that I have to stop cumming long enough to get my heart rate to slow down so I don't wind up having a heart attack. It sounds funny but because I cum so much it is something we do have to think about . There are many times he will kind of step back and ask if I'm okay.
When I was much younger and first started to really learn about oral I remember those guys that would shove my head onto their cocks and try to hold me there until I gagged. I always wondered how they figured that would get any women to be like " Wow that really gets me hot!" I would tell them the only things accomplished with that are A) They pissed me off. B)That there was a good chance I would throw up on their cocks if they tried that again.
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| October 4, 2014, 04:44 |
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JLee3D
57 / female
Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Re: Oral Sex
agree with Newbs on that last part
I like to give and receive but have one rule if you hand pushes my head onto your cock, I am not responsible for my teeth! Most men GET that. And how about 69, honestly NOT my thing, if I am giving I want to be able to see the pleasure on his face and completely indulge him, and when I am receiving I wNt to loose myself in ecstasy , that and I tend to clench my teeth when I am excited and do not want to hurt anyone 
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| October 6, 2014, 02:35 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Oral Sex
JLee we seem to be a lot a like. I don't like the 69 thing either. I do not think when someone is going down on me and if I have to worry about biting someone that can turn out badly! Kam has been trying to get me to be able to stay focused by playing with me while I am giving him a blow job but I always have to stop when I am about to cum so I don't hurt him. I just tend to really get into giving him a blow job then want him to make me cum or even just masturbate after I give him a blow job. I'll have him explain it he is better at explaining than I am.lol
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| October 6, 2014, 05:02 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Oral Sex
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ October 6, 2014, 05:02)JLee we seem to be a lot a like. I don't like the 69 thing either. I do not think when someone is going down on me and if I have to worry about biting someone that can turn out badly! Kam has been trying to get me to be able to stay focused by playing with me while I am giving him a blow job but I always have to stop when I am about to cum so I don't hurt him. I just tend to really get into giving him a blow job then want him to make me cum or even just masturbate after I give him a blow job. I'll have him explain it he is better at explaining than I am.lol
Explain? Its all about making you cum. Even when your trying to make me cum. The stories I tell. Fantasies I create. Fingering you while you lips, teeth and tongue are wrapped around my cock. Are all designed to to get and keep you excited.
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| October 8, 2014, 23:05 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Oral Sex
QUOTE (kamarel @ October 8, 2014, 23:05) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ October 6, 2014, 05:02)JLee we seem to be a lot a like. I don't like the 69 thing either. I do not think when someone is going down on me and if I have to worry about biting someone that can turn out badly! Kam has been trying to get me to be able to stay focused by playing with me while I am giving him a blow job but I always have to stop when I am about to cum so I don't hurt him. I just tend to really get into giving him a blow job then want him to make me cum or even just masturbate after I give him a blow job. I'll have him explain it he is better at explaining than I am.lol
Explain? Its all about making you cum. Even when your trying to make me cum. The stories I tell. Fantasies I create. Fingering you while you lips, teeth and tongue are wrapped around my cock. Are all designed to to get and keep you excited.
I understand Kam....but her point was....When she has an orgasm, she turns into a bighter.
I'm still reading that post with my legs subconciously crossed.
Your a braver man than I am my freind.
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| October 9, 2014, 04:36 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Oral Sex
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ October 9, 2014, 04:36) QUOTE (kamarel @ October 8, 2014, 23:05) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ October 6, 2014, 05:02)JLee we seem to be a lot a like. I don't like the 69 thing either. I do not think when someone is going down on me and if I have to worry about biting someone that can turn out badly! Kam has been trying to get me to be able to stay focused by playing with me while I am giving him a blow job but I always have to stop when I am about to cum so I don't hurt him. I just tend to really get into giving him a blow job then want him to make me cum or even just masturbate after I give him a blow job. I'll have him explain it he is better at explaining than I am.lol
Explain? Its all about making you cum. Even when your trying to make me cum. The stories I tell. Fantasies I create. Fingering you while you lips, teeth and tongue are wrapped around my cock. Are all designed to to get and keep you excited.
I understand Kam....but her point was....When she has an orgasm, she turns into a bighter.
I'm still reading that post with my legs subconciously crossed.
Your a braver man than I am my freind.
She doesn't bite. She's just afraid of biting. Working her past her fears when she loses control.
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| October 9, 2014, 09:49 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Oral Sex
I think the only reason I have not bitten is because you make me think, or I should say you bring me back to a place where I am actually thinking about my bodies reactions and having SOME self control. I know I clamp my teeth down when I am not giving you a blow job. I have always just kind of went to a different place during sex. I don't think, I react. I don't control it or think about it.I believe that is why I have always been someone who can have multiple orgasms .It's easy to let your body take over and just let it happen. Self control has never been a strong suit of mine.Now you have trained me for lack of a better word to pay attention to the moment and show SOME control. As you know many times I stop when I get close to cumming and then continue after I cum. Up until pretty recently I always stopped when I would cum.I was shocked when I was able to continue with out stopping when it happened.
And Syb, Kam has the patience of a saint.He has gotten me through some phobias and continues to work through some more with me. It's amazing how things in your life creep up to fuck with you (Not in a good way) sometimes. He keeps trying to get me through it. I have to admit that sometimes it amazes me how I react to somethings even though I know I should have no fear anymore but can't let it go. He just put a strap on my wrist and it freaked me out to the point I was a second away from a full blown panic attack. It's so stupid because I know that he would never hurt me but I still react that way. It wasn't even tightened or tied to anything.To be honest I get pissed at myself when that shit happens.But I keep thinking I will get past it some day. I have been really lucky to find someone I can trust.
Jlee If I want the guy to hold my head or pull my hair he will know it. If I am forced, that is a whole different story and that is a brave guy because if someone forces me to do anything anymore, I promise he wont have to worry about being able to force another women by the time I'm done with him. Those days are far behind me.
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| October 11, 2014, 07:06 |
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Re: Oral Sex
Thought oral sex was when ya talked about it. Ya know, like cyber.
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| October 12, 2014, 04:20 |
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