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Pet peeves
Ok I am a very patient person and will never yell at you if you piss me off... I'm a socially awkward person so flirting is a struggle for me... So I understand guys having issues talking to girls.... But it is NEVER ok to come up to a girl who has not shown interest in you at all and dry hump her at a club while she's dancing with her best friends... Especially if you are hard..... If I want it done you'll know !... Needless to say last Saturday with my best girlies was a bust!
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| August 26, 2014, 19:11 |
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bigjack3599
31 / male
Central, California, US
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Re: Pet peeves
some people am i right. its a shame that if you're a sexy fuckable girl trying to have fun with friends you have to deal with rude ass holes
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| August 26, 2014, 20:11 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Pet peeves
QUOTE (misslauren1993 @ August 26, 2014, 19:11)Ok I am a very patient person and will never yell at you if you piss me off... I'm a socially awkward person so flirting is a struggle for me... So I understand guys having issues talking to girls.... But it is NEVER ok to come up to a girl who has not shown interest in you at all and dry hump her at a club while she's dancing with her best friends... Especially if you are hard..... If I want it done you'll know !... Needless to say last Saturday with my best girlies was a bust!
Your socially awkward ??......Flirting is a struggle for you ??.....Thats not what I've observed here !!
There is no reason for a ....so called man....and I use the term loosley, to treat a lady like that , particularley when it's univited, and a dumbass like that would be clueless to the fact that he had ruined your evening.
I hate rude behaviour in a man, and I see it more often now than I care too.
Little boys like that, dry hump a young lady like yourself because deep down, he knows...He would otherwise, never have a shot at you....next time a gentle knudge to his little tiny package with a well placed knee, may send him packing.
Your personal space is yours to protect, and a real man would wait for an invitation...and real men that have something to offer ,... don't dry hump.
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| August 26, 2014, 23:15 |
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Re: Re: Pet peeves
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ August 26, 2014, 23:15) QUOTE (misslauren1993 @ August 26, 2014, 19:11)Ok I am a very patient person and will never yell at you if you piss me off... I'm a socially awkward person so flirting is a struggle for me... So I understand guys having issues talking to girls.... But it is NEVER ok to come up to a girl who has not shown interest in you at all and dry hump her at a club while she's dancing with her best friends... Especially if you are hard..... If I want it done you'll know !... Needless to say last Saturday with my best girlies was a bust!
Your socially awkward ??......Flirting is a struggle for you ??.....Thats not what I've observed here !!
There is no reason for a ....so called man....and I use the term loosley, to treat a lady like that , particularley when it's univited, and a dumbass like that would be clueless to the fact that he had ruined your evening.
I hate rude behaviour in a man, and I see it more often now than I care too.
Little boys like that, dry hump a young lady like yourself because deep down, he knows...He would otherwise, never have a shot at you....next time a gentle knudge to his little tiny package with a well placed knee, may send him packing.
Your personal space is yours to protect, and a real man would wait for an invitation...and real men that have something to offer ,... don't dry hump.
Why can't more men be like you... The sad thing is a guy that my friend knew from college was dancing with us and after I walked away to go back to the bar he came up and told me that he had a talk with the guy... He called himself donkey kong bc he destroys the pussy.......ugh it was disgusting.... I sat and drank the rest of the night bc I felt violated and my friends didn't want to leave so I sat with the purses while they danced and let men dry hump them .... I have self respect I am a lady and will be treated like one
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| August 26, 2014, 23:34 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Pet peeves
them leg humpers......remember back to the days of my youth, it works both ways, some of the ladies can be just as bad. but to dance with a guy with a boner, well the wife said she sit too. we use to go to cedar lake to swim, it was a picnic park, had a big raft, always a crowd lots of Chic's, swim out and theirs some guy up there with a stiff. you almost want to push him in.had one gal at the football game once, grab my elbow, just about down her pants it goes, don't remember who she was , think it as a Friends sister.was listening to my bros, all bragging her up , look at that ass and boobs, I don't know I thought she looked like a poodle with the hair do. had another one, at the roller rink, deaf as a post, think they came from the deaf school. but here I am , shes latched to my elbow and your rubbing snatch again, and I got wheels on my feet going around and round
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| August 27, 2014, 00:32 |
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Re: Pet peeves
yeah, it does suck when a guy thinks he's "king shit" at a bar, seen many a man get his ass kicked by a jealous boyfriend for just that. what's worse is when he get's his ass kicked by a bunch of women. (not that there's amything wrong with a woman defending herself)
but i also have to sort of agree with Ashkats, it goes both ways. when i was younger, and wasn't working the night shift, i would go to the local bar to check out whatever band was playing. i'm not much of a drinker, and i don't dance. it's kind of embarrassing when you're a shy perswon to begin with, and you find yourself getting pulled out on the dance floor by a bunch of women. and then have them get upset when you don't really have any moves. i mean I've insisted that i don't dance, because i can't. lol but what really bothers me is whensomeone offers to buy me a drink, and i'm either done drinking for the night, or am not ready, i'll politely say "no thanks", and they insist, and buy me one anyway. if i'm not ready for it, or am done for the night (and i do kow when i've had enough, and will stop drinking, or switch to a soda), and someone still wants to buy me a drink, if it's not Soda, it will go untouched, it's thier money to waste after i've told them i am through for the evening.
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| August 27, 2014, 04:46 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Pet peeves
Sorry about the dry humping.
Fido The Dog
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| August 27, 2014, 10:36 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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I use to go with the ole lady and watch them all bouncing around the floor, but never went leg humping on any of them. didn't think I needed to back when I was in my late 20 or so. what cam around went around and there was plenty. 
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| August 27, 2014, 14:03 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Pet peeves
Some people just don't get where the line should be. I have seen many women step over a line as well. I think more so these days because women have more of a men mentality that years ago. Women are not brought up to be the shy wall flower. We are taught to be assertive and some women think that means be like some guys are in clubs.
Once when I was about 7 or 8 months pregnant I had a guy at at rest area on the parkway get very pushy with me. He kept telling me how he was into pregnant women and how he loved having sex with pregnant women etc.I remember thinking "I can't get into a physical fight because I pregnant" so i looked around for a cop and was prepared to scream as loud as possible if the need was there.That guy followed me all the way back to my car.
Another time some guy grabbed my ass in a club.By the way, why would anybody think that was appropriate at any time? Anyway the guy that grabbed me soon realized how stupid that was. I was there with my husband and the club was owned by a ex boyfriend and still friend, and the head bouncer was my husbands cousin. That head bouncer also was a former Green Beret and linebacker for the Cincinnati Bangles. They all saw what happened and before I could even say anything that head bouncer had the guy by the collar OFF THE GROUND, and very calmly put the guys face facing me and said "APOLOGIZE TO MY COUSIN!" I thought the guy was going to have a heart attack. He did apologize and was not so gently deposited out side the club after that .
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| August 27, 2014, 14:28 |
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Re: Pet peeves
Don't get me wrong I invite it when I want it but for a guy to come up and do that without me even giving him an invitation is just ridiculous.... My friends didn't understand why it upset me..... Which only made me more upset with the fact that they didn't understand.... If a guy wants to buy me a drink that's one thing by to come up to me and violate my personal space I'm going to have a problem with you....
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| August 27, 2014, 20:02 |
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bigjack3599
31 / male
Central, California, US
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your friends are probably just jelly
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| August 27, 2014, 20:19 |
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