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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Wondering If I Still Have It
Last night, I was asked to perform at a Music Festival that raises money for people (not just women) that are coming out of abusive relationships. I haven't played live in about 5 years and acts come from all over the Northeast and Canada to play at this event. Needless to say, I'm a bit nervous.
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May 23, 2014, 12:30 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ May 23, 2014, 12:30)Last night, I was asked to perform at a Music Festival that raises money for people (not just women) that are coming out of abusive relationships. I haven't played live in about 5 years and acts come from all over the Northeast and Canada to play at this event. Needless to say, I'm a bit nervous.
Go for it, after you pick that first note you we'll be off and rolling, I got faith man.
OCB
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May 23, 2014, 13:41 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
It was what you were born to do...Talent doesn't just disappear, it refines with time , practice, and experience.
You have something to say, and they want to hear it, and like a chosen few....you say it so very well.
You are also a Man who dislikes abusive behaviour, they chose a fitting performer.
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May 23, 2014, 14:34 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Thanks Guys, I always appreciate your support. Actually, I'm proud to be a part of it. I've attended this event before and there's all kinds of players there. I'm just concerned that people are gonna say "What's that old guy doin here
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May 23, 2014, 14:55 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Just don't fall down and hit your head. I know a couple of people who have down that lately.
Then, they would really think you were an "Old" guy!
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May 23, 2014, 16:18 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ May 23, 2014, 16:18)
Just don't fall down and hit your head. I know a couple of people who have down that lately.
Then, they would really think you were an "Old" guy!
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May 23, 2014, 16:44 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ May 23, 2014, 16:18)
Just don't fall down and hit your head. I know a couple of people who have down that lately.
Then, they would really think you were an "Old" guy!
Yeah but I ejected outta my saddle with grace and poise, it wasn't the perfect dismount, nor a perfect landing, but this "old guy" got back in the saddle.
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May 23, 2014, 17:13 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
You will do great Free! Just wish we were closer to see you.
and Sy try and stay in the saddle!
Ma
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May 24, 2014, 03:46 |
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
if you're wondering if you still have it then you must. for those that don't wonder keep playing until they rust...
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May 24, 2014, 05:47 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Free, seriously . . . Take a listen to who the yougins are listening to these days, Stones, Skynard , Eagles . . . Because those 'old guys' still got it. You totally got this!!
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May 24, 2014, 12:36 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Again, you guys are the best and I thank you! I found out 2 more things about this yesterday. First, a good friend of mine, old band mate and a great player has agreed to sit in with me. He made me laugh when he said "what better way to find out if we still have the 'magic' than to play in a bunch of drunk people?". Second,I found out from the promoter that the whole event is going to be streamed live in high quality online. I'm not sure how that's gonna work because there's 2 stages playing simultaneously, 1 inside and one outside. I chose to play outside.
Since my buddy has agreed to sit in with me, I will say this: Jen, I will do "Handle With Care". And Kiss? I'm gonna put your theory to the test about my song "Everything Is You". I still have your email that says "Free? That song could get you laid". Details to follow after the show.
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May 24, 2014, 13:38 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
So if you have a song that Kiss figured may get you laid, perhaps you should have titled this thread,
"Wondering if I Can Still Get It "..That being said, how would it sound in a Gravely voice and a Canadian accent ?
My friend when you feel the trepidation before your performance, and if you take a moment...The hands you feel on your shoulders, will be ours.
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May 24, 2014, 14:19 |
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Of course you still have it...and even if you don't you can count on the Canadians to be very polite about it...
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May 25, 2014, 11:27 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 25, 2014, 11:27)Of course you still have it...and even if you don't you can count on the Canadians to be very polite about it...
Yah ...Sorry about that !!
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May 26, 2014, 01:59 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Well I want to know how it went, did you wet your pants or puke or anything. OCB
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May 26, 2014, 16:02 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
It's still a few weeks away. Lots of time to rehearse and put together just the right set list.
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May 27, 2014, 11:52 |
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JenTX
47 / female East, Texas, US
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ May 24, 2014, 13:38)Again, you guys are the best and I thank you! I found out 2 more things about this yesterday. First, a good friend of mine, old band mate and a great player has agreed to sit in with me. He made me laugh when he said "what better way to find out if we still have the 'magic' than to play in a bunch of drunk people?". Second,I found out from the promoter that the whole event is going to be streamed live in high quality online. I'm not sure how that's gonna work because there's 2 stages playing simultaneously, 1 inside and one outside. I chose to play outside.
Since my buddy has agreed to sit in with me, I will say this: Jen, I will do "Handle With Care". And Kiss? I'm gonna put your theory to the test about my song "Everything Is You". I still have your email that says "Free? That song could get you laid". Details to follow after the show.
You are gonna do great. You've still got it. And remember to smile while you are playing my song.
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May 28, 2014, 04:34 |
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josie74
50 / female London, England, UK
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
I check in from time to time on your pages and I think you stull have it and should share it around more freely xx
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May 31, 2014, 17:56 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (josie74 @ May 31, 2014, 17:56)I check in from time to time on your pages and I think you stull have it and should share it around more freely xx
Hi Josie!
He's got it and it is only getting better. However, he doesn't share with everybody.
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May 31, 2014, 18:08 |
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Re: Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ May 31, 2014, 18:08) QUOTE (josie74 @ May 31, 2014, 17:56)I check in from time to time on your pages and I think you stull have it and should share it around more freely xx
Hi Josie!
He's got it and it is only getting better. However, he doesn't share with everybody. sure he does, but most gotta get past me first! lol (i have the link to his YouTube if any one wants to see what he's all about, ask me for it!)
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June 1, 2014, 05:49 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
I havent put anything on youtube in quite a while. It's all on my reverbnation page. And Kiss is right, I dont share everything I do with everyone. I dont want to be like a kindergardener wanting my latest finger painting to be put on the refigerator. It's like anything else, some are good, some are ok and some are forgettable. But the last one I thought was really pretty good
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June 1, 2014, 14:41 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Free did you have your big night yet. OCB
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June 9, 2014, 20:44 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (oldcowboy666 @ June 9, 2014, 20:44)Free did you have your big night yet. OCB
Not yet. It's the 28th. I'm going to have it video taped and I'll post it on youtube
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June 9, 2014, 20:47 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
cool look forward to it, OCB
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June 9, 2014, 21:51 |
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KINKYINTHEFALLS
56 / male wild and wonderful, West Virginia, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Is it going to be up this way?
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June 9, 2014, 23:35 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (KINKYINTHEFALLS @ June 9, 2014, 23:35)Is it going to be up this way?
Yep, Transit Road in Depew
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June 10, 2014, 00:27 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Just went through the first rehearsal. Considering the fact that we're doing 3 covers and 9 of mine that my buddy hadn't heard before, I think it went fantastic. 2 more rehearsals before the show. It's T minus 11 days before the show, so I'm forgetting about all the legal, business and personal bullshit that I've been going through and focusing on this little event!
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June 18, 2014, 00:45 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Sorry I have been MIA for most of this. Free as you know I have a lot of friends that are professionals in the music industry and I can't think of any that don't get a bit nervous before a live show. I have a friend in the Jazz hall of fame and still see him post on his page from time to time that he gets nervous.That just means you care enough to worry about it. It has nothing to do with if you "Still have it". Those who do "have it" know it's not something you lose.It's something inside. I always wished I was as talented as some of the people I know. I guess I have my talents but it definitely is NOT in the music world.Music is part of you. I had a friend tell me once it isn't really about if other people enjoy it, although that is a bonus to be able to share something so important to him.He still plays all the time after all these years and is lucky enough to get paid for it but as he said he does it for the love of it and would do it weather they paid him or not.Think of it like those who sing in the shower....They sing because they love it? But many of them (me included) would get paid NOT to sing in public. But it doesn't mean they shouldn't sing. You are fortunate enough that people want to hear you, so get out there and kick ass!By the way, if they ever need someone to clear the place out... I don't charge much and one note from me and the place would clear out fast.
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June 18, 2014, 03:35 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
...........unless of course you had a shower on stage, then most guys wouldn't care what you sounded like.
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June 18, 2014, 04:35 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Now I even have a date for that day. Never saw that comin.
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June 18, 2014, 19:28 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 18, 2014, 19:28)Now I even have a date for that day. Never saw that comin.
Well shit!! Good for you man .
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June 18, 2014, 21:07 |
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JenTX
47 / female East, Texas, US
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 18, 2014, 19:28)Now I even have a date for that day. Never saw that comin.
It's about time!
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June 18, 2014, 23:35 |
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 18, 2014, 19:28)Now I even have a date for that day. Never saw that comin. a date? or a groupie? lol (we'll start calling 'em Freebies)
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June 19, 2014, 03:00 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ June 19, 2014, 03:00) QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 18, 2014, 19:28)Now I even have a date for that day. Never saw that comin. a date? or a groupie? lol (we'll start calling 'em Freebies)
Now that's just funny!
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June 19, 2014, 12:05 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Big night on stage, lots of freebies, a date now if only the glass loafer fits. Be in by mid-night. OCB
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June 19, 2014, 13:52 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (oldcowboy666 @ June 19, 2014, 13:52) Big night on stage, lots of freebies, a date now if only the glass loafer fits. Be in by mid-night. OCB
Shit ,musicians only wake up around midnight...it takes an artist 8 hours just to get going.
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June 19, 2014, 14:07 |
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QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 19, 2014, 12:05) [a date? or a groupie? lol (we'll start calling 'em Freebies)
Or call 'em sleazeheads.
Sometimes I did a little PR work on a boyfriend's gigs. I compared it to being a Rodeo Clown. I would wear somethin' a little short, tight with cleavage, zero on a group or two of rowdy girls, make friends, buy them a round or two of shots and set them off. Nothing gets a party going like a a bunch of cute drunk rowdy girls that wanna dance. Then I would hang and dance with a few guys, intergrate them with the drunk rowdy girls and the night would go very well. Yep, I could work a room.
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June 20, 2014, 10:59 |
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 20, 2014, 10:59) QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 19, 2014, 12:05) [a date? or a groupie? lol (we'll start calling 'em Freebies)
Or call 'em sleazeheads. if you called them that, he'd automatically assume they would give him head, and he'd end up with ANOTHER restraining order...
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June 20, 2014, 11:25 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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QUOTE (Chazzy @ June 20, 2014, 10:59) QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 19, 2014, 12:05) [a date? or a groupie? lol (we'll start calling 'em Freebies)
Or call 'em sleazeheads.
Sometimes I did a little PR work on a boyfriend's gigs. I compared it to being a Rodeo Clown. I would wear somethin' a little short, tight with cleavage, zero on a group or two of rowdy girls, make friends, buy them a round or two of shots and set them off. Nothing gets a party going like a a bunch of cute drunk rowdy girls that wanna dance. Then I would hang and dance with a few guys, intergrate them with the drunk rowdy girls and the night would go very well. Yep, I could work a room.
I knew you look familiar!
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June 21, 2014, 02:23 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
This is the big night right? Well do well and make me proud and send a freebie to Colorado. Good kuck man!!!!!OCB
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June 29, 2014, 00:04 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Thanks Man, last night was the night. It started off a bit rough. It was 85 degrees and 90% humidity and I had the sun blistering on my back. I brought 2 of my guitars, one of which was brand new and I hadnt plugged it in yet. Bad move. It didn't work, but we mic'd it up instead. I was a bit nervous because I had't played in front of anyone in a few years, I was a touch hung over and the guitar thing put my blood pressure through the roof. But after the first song, everything was fine. I did mostly originals which were surprisingly well received. When I thought my time was up, the sound guy told me that the next act wasnt there yet and to keep going. I wasnt sure about the song, but I figured "fuck it, just do it" and I did Leonard Cohen's "Halleluiah", and I just let the song take me over. I guess I must have done something right because not only did I get a standing ovation, but when I stepped down, as bathed in sweat as I was, people I didnt even know were hugging me and saying how much that moved them and gave them goose bumps. It was a pretty amazing experience
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June 30, 2014, 01:07 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
FANTASTIC!!!
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June 30, 2014, 02:11 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
I knew you could it. YEAAAAA did you get laid OCB
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June 30, 2014, 12:51 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
(laughing) No, that didn't happen
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June 30, 2014, 13:33 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male London, England, UK
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Did you throw a TV set out of a bedroom window??
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June 30, 2014, 13:43 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
No televisions were harmed in the making of this event.
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June 30, 2014, 14:37 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male London, England, UK
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 30, 2014, 14:37)No televisions were harmed in the making of this event.
So much for Sex, Drugs & Rock'n'Roll...
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June 30, 2014, 14:48 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
See you TOTALLY still got it Free!
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June 30, 2014, 23:52 |
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Freensleazy
65 / male State of Confusion, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
Videos will follow. Its never perfect, but it didn't suck
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July 1, 2014, 00:53 |
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Re: Re: Wondering If I Still Have It
QUOTE (Freensleazy @ June 30, 2014, 14:37)No televisions were harmed in the making of this event. was more worried about busted eardrums, and damaged egos...but it sounds like it went well, congrats my friend!
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July 1, 2014, 03:34 |
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