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quickdraw
79 / male
Nothern VA, Virginia, US
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Private Messages
I am constancely sent private messages and I have not gotten any response. I don't known what I am doing wrong. Willsomeone let me know wha Ishould sa onthse response. Sould I benice or nasty.
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| November 2, 2005, 15:47 |
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svedishchef
45 / male
Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
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Re: Private Messages
QUOTE (gadget853579 @ November 2, 2005, 15:47)I am constancely sent private messages and I have not gotten any response. I don't known what I am doing wrong. Willsomeone let me know wha Ishould sa onthse response. Sould I benice or nasty.
Not speaking in complete sentences and lack of a picture I guess would be the first two issues.
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| November 2, 2005, 15:55 |
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Re: Re: Private Messages
QUOTE (svedishchef @ November 2, 2005, 15:55)
Not speaking in complete sentences and lack of a picture I guess would be the first two issues.
be nice you.
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| November 5, 2005, 15:53 |
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Re: Private Messages
This has happened to me also.
I assume that the person is not interested. I am also sure it's the age thing. Younger women seem to be scarred by old guys.
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| November 5, 2005, 16:09 |
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Re: Re: Private Messages
QUOTE (traveler15 @ November 5, 2005, 16:09)This has happened to me also.
I assume that the person is not interested. I am also sure it's the age thing. Younger women seem to be scarred by old guys.
Trust me they are not scared  they are just like us men, they are checking out the whole market for the prime cuts, its just that they are more experienced shoppers than men 
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| November 5, 2005, 19:40 |
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quickdraw
79 / male
Nothern VA, Virginia, US
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Re: Private Messages
I did not proof read the message and I have seen worse. Thank You
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| November 7, 2005, 15:30 |
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Re: Re: Re: Private Messages
QUOTE (hothands @ November 5, 2005, 19:40) QUOTE (traveler15 @ November 5, 2005, 16:09)they are more experienced shoppers than men
more discriminating I would say. Our choice is not as limited and men seem to want 31 year old lesbians rather than 50 year old BBW women.
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| November 12, 2005, 10:36 |
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Re: Private Messages
Don't know if it is the age thing or what but it happens to me too.......
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| November 15, 2005, 13:28 |
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Re: Private Messages
i can't believe someone could ignore you angel! 
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| November 18, 2005, 17:35 |
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hotandready
73 / female
Savannah, Georgia, US
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Re: Private Messages
QUOTE (gadget853579 @ November 2, 2005, 15:47)I am constancely sent private messages and I have not gotten any response. I don't known what I am doing wrong. Willsomeone let me know wha Ishould sa onthse response. Sould I benice or nasty.
You shud be nasty
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| November 19, 2005, 10:45 |
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Re: Private Messages
QUOTE (gadget853579 @ November 2, 2005, 15:47)I am constancely sent private messages and I have not gotten any response. I don't known what I am doing wrong. Willsomeone let me know wha Ishould sa onthse response. Sould I benice or nasty.
Oh geez....a man trying to guess what it is a woman wants.....
It may not be you at all, Svedishchef hits a good point in his own (gotta love it!)smartypants way. There are allot, and I mean allot of members that will not bother with anyone who does not have a photo in their ad.
Another thing, it may be the women you choose to contact...there are a few that are online here all the time, but you'll never see them in chat, on the forum, and as far as I know, rarely answer a message or naughty note...and if these women reap the most benefits from this site as a "spectator", there's nothing wrong with that. Some women have very explicit usernames, ad text and photos, but can be offended by sexual graphic messages (Don't try to figure out why women are this way, call us complicated and complex, or call us contrary and fuckin' silly) Some women who have sexual explicit profiles, are actually sexually explicit women! (and no...sorry...no way in hell to tell one kind from the other without sticking your neck out and taking that chance of a humiliating rejection) Send me a few "samples of your work" and I'll give you my honest opinion about whether it's you that's the problem or if its the delicate and precise balance of brain cells, hormones and chemicals of the complex female mind that's trippin' you up.... I can say confidently, that most women love and respond to humor... if your messages make them laugh, giggle out loud, or at lest grin and smile, you've made a positve impression, and if you can leave an "opening" in the message that is just so easy and comfortable to reply to, she will. Doesn't hurt to really look over those ad texts, and in the photos, maybe just a mention of something, her location, or something you notice in the photo background, may give you a topic for a question or remark that she will feel compelled and even anxious to answer.
These are the type of messages I respond to imediatly... it's difficult to describe them...but I really love it when I open an email, and I'm treated to an outburst of laughter, or see a few keywords there that make it so easy for me to type out a spontaneous reply at that very moment...especially after reading countless "I wanna lick your pussy " or "I wanna fuck your tight ass " messages, I appreciate the one or two unique ones that make me feel like I already know the person already, conversation comes easily and I look forward to chatting, or continued message exchange with them.
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| November 19, 2005, 12:12 |
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