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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
I had a discussion with my best friend and had to laugh a little.We remembered talking about how when we were 16 and sitting on the beach we made a list of what the perfect guy was. Okay so we are a bit older and a bit wiser (I hope).
I remember in the book series "Fifty shades of Grey" the guy tells the women to make their list of deal breakers.He has his list as well.
In a way I think we all kind of do that. The only thing is I don't think most of us have it in writing or even thought about it in terms of a "List of deal breakers".
So back to my conversation with my friend. She had said she hates when her men (going to use the nicer words here) pass gas in front of her. Her way of making sure that never happens is to tell them right at the start in a somehow casual conversation that she could never have sex with a guy that does that. She tells them it is an immediate turn off and even once turns her off permanently.So far it has worked for her. I have to admit that I think most women would use that if it would work, me included. You guys all seem to think it's okay and I don't know of any women that find it a turn on. Especially if you do it in public. And if your friends join in as a game then you should just not expect to get laid for months! lol
So back to the list... SO do you have a list? It doesn't have to be just a sexual list. For instance I have to be a guy that is definitely into good hygiene.If you are not into showering and brushing your teeth I could not be with you. I happen to be turned on by good smells so if you wear a great cologne it's a bonus.My list also has to include a great kisser. If you can't kiss well, chances are you suck (not in a good way) in bed.I also want someone that treats me well but isn't a pushover. I don''t like wimpy men. I like a guy that has his own opinion and will voice it even if he doesn't agree with me.I have to say I think my deal breakers include families as well. I want my kids at least to like him if it will be a long term relationship and I hope to get along with his.I have been lucky and have found most of the things I have been listing. I would never be with an alcoholic or drug attic again. I will never be with an abusive man again.Oh, and no married men . Those are definite deal breakers.I wouldn't care how mush someone swears they would change.Other than that I really can't think of anything that is an absolute deal breaker at this point except obvious things like if he is in jail or something else that would stop most people.
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June 18, 2013, 14:51 |
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ashkats
65 / couple crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
I'm sure we all do , mine is liars and thieves and un promptness.kinda like the bikers code...
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June 18, 2013, 15:38 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
She has to be well mannered in public.
She'd have to have the mindset that with my life and responsibilities ...plans change at a moments notice, and I'd do the same for her in return.
She would have to be understanding of some of my baggage...we all have some.
She would have to be my best friend.
....and she'd have to be very forgiving......I fuck up alot.
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June 18, 2013, 19:11 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Deal Breakers; Assholes, and Shitheads
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June 18, 2013, 20:18 |
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 18, 2013, 20:18)
Deal Breakers; Assholes, and Shitheads
You need to quit holding back and say whats on your mind. You're gonna get an ulcer.
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June 18, 2013, 21:24 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 18, 2013, 21:24) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 18, 2013, 20:18)
Deal Breakers; Assholes, and Shitheads
You need to quit holding back and say whats on your mind. You're gonna get an ulcer.
Trust me ....that was directed in my general direction.
Like I said..I fuck up alot.
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June 18, 2013, 21:49 |
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Samib
72 / female Somewhere, Maryland, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Deal breakers: abusive people, men that think because I am female I am stupid or second class, people that think they can tell me what to do. I am strong willed and determined and I know what I want.
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June 18, 2013, 23:05 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
must haves and this is really a 2-way for me He must have it for me, but must also be a person that I can have it for in return:
respect - for them-self, me and others
passion - for life, love and happiness
honesty & trust - complete
sense of humor - tainted & wry is fine, but I love to laugh
and a hot truck or muscle car doesn't hurt either - just as a bonus!
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June 19, 2013, 01:17 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 18, 2013, 21:49) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 18, 2013, 21:24) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 18, 2013, 20:18)
Deal Breakers; Assholes, and Shitheads
You need to quit holding back and say whats on your mind. You're gonna get an ulcer.
Trust me ....that was directed in my general direction.
Like I said..I fuck up alot.
Did you think I didnt know that? She would never talk about me that way.
Oh, wait. Yes she does. She has. And come to think of it, she's said far worse about me. "Asswipe" comes to mind!
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June 19, 2013, 01:34 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 01:34) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 18, 2013, 21:49) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 18, 2013, 21:24) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 18, 2013, 20:18)
Deal Breakers; Assholes, and Shitheads
You need to quit holding back and say whats on your mind. You're gonna get an ulcer.
Trust me ....that was directed in my general direction.
Like I said..I fuck up alot.
Did you think I didnt know that? She would never talk about me that way.
Oh, wait. Yes she does. She has. And come to think of it, she's said far worse about me. "Asswipe" comes to mind!
Well that makes me feel a wee bit better....
How is it we get to see the inside of the dog house so often ?
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June 19, 2013, 03:39 |
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
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June 19, 2013, 11:53 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
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June 19, 2013, 14:06 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
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June 19, 2013, 15:46 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (JLee3D @ June 19, 2013, 15:46) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
Ladies? No, that would just be Chazzy and Kiss. They're the WN Female Gestapo. But ya didnt hear it from me!
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June 19, 2013, 17:22 |
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IcanCu
62 / male Lake County, Ohio, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 17:22) QUOTE (JLee3D @ June 19, 2013, 15:46) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
Ladies? No, that would just be Chazzy and Kiss. They're the WN Female Gestapo. But ya didnt hear it from me!
Ha! Do they both have mirrored sunglasses and handcuffs? I sure hope so!!
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June 19, 2013, 20:34 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 17:22) QUOTE (JLee3D @ June 19, 2013, 15:46) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
Ladies? No, that would just be Chazzy and Kiss. They're the WN Female Gestapo. But ya didnt hear it from me!
So we are not Ladies?
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June 19, 2013, 21:54 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 19, 2013, 21:54) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 17:22) QUOTE (JLee3D @ June 19, 2013, 15:46) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
Ladies? No, that would just be Chazzy and Kiss. They're the WN Female Gestapo. But ya didnt hear it from me!
So we are not Ladies?
No, My Dear. I meant that it's not "all" the ladies here, just you two ladies.
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June 19, 2013, 22:01 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 19, 2013, 21:54) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 17:22) QUOTE (JLee3D @ June 19, 2013, 15:46) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
Ladies? No, that would just be Chazzy and Kiss. They're the WN Female Gestapo. But ya didnt hear it from me!
So we are not Ladies?
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June 19, 2013, 22:29 |
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oldcowboy666
74 / male bennett, Colorado, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
my gal must rope or head or heal
be will to stay the woods over night
have gold visa in my name
water ski topless
help gut an elk without puking
look good in wranglers of not
pesters you to sit around the camp fire and light farts
OCB
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June 20, 2013, 02:10 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 22:01) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 19, 2013, 21:54) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 17:22) QUOTE (JLee3D @ June 19, 2013, 15:46) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 19, 2013, 14:06) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 19, 2013, 11:53)Because pussies and tits define absolute power. And we aint got em.
Thats right ..."THEY" hold the key to the playground.
All I can say is the Ladies here have taught you boys well!!
Ladies? No, that would just be Chazzy and Kiss. They're the WN Female Gestapo. But ya didnt hear it from me!
So we are not Ladies?
No, My Dear. I meant that it's not "all" the ladies here, just you two ladies.
Careful Free you are setting yourself up! It is clear there are a select few ladies who keep you boys in line, no doubt, but just because you strap on a pair of brass balls, swing a whip & ride a cowboy doesn't mean you aren't a lady, in fact it means you are ONE HELL OF A LADY!
And there are a few of them on here!
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June 20, 2013, 13:12 |
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Not to worry JLee. I tend to be the official WN whipping boy. Its just that some have more Frequent Flogger miles than others. Wait till Chazzy's back to her old self. You'll see what I mean!
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June 20, 2013, 13:20 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 20, 2013, 13:20)Not to worry JLee. I tend to be the official WN whipping boy. Its just that some have more Frequent Flogger miles than others. Wait till Chazzy's back to her old self. You'll see what I mean!
Right about now Chazzy's probably seeing things a little better...
Your on your own buddy ,I've never heard of you.
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June 20, 2013, 14:33 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
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June 20, 2013, 21:28 |
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Chazzy doesnt scare me. She's a pussy cat. Kiss on the other hand carries an empty wine bottle for a weapon. And she bites too.
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June 20, 2013, 21:35 |
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NRG4U
63 / male Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
I'm not that particular, as long as she agrees I'm always right, cooks my favorite food, never wears clothes, never has pm's, always horny when I am, has boobs that can support a cinder block without sagging, I don't have any deal breakers ....
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June 20, 2013, 22:05 |
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Nothing wrong with that. It all sounds reasonable to me.
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June 20, 2013, 22:08 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
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June 20, 2013, 23:07 |
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Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
You forgot Angelpussy. She thinks that you think she's a bitch!
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June 20, 2013, 23:18 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 20, 2013, 23:18) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
You forgot Angelpussy. She thinks that you think she's a bitch!
How could I forget a set like that ? Well see....I pissed her off, and she wasn't even here.... a perfect record...I rest my case..
And Angelpussy is as far from a bitch as they get.
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June 20, 2013, 23:24 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
If a woman is upset, hold her and tell her how beautiful she is.
If she starts to growl, retreat to a safe distance and throw chocolate at her, gently.
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June 21, 2013, 03:56 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 20, 2013, 23:18) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
You forgot Angelpussy. She thinks that you think she's a bitch!
Now wait a minute I am the Bitch! and damn proud of that!
Ma
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June 21, 2013, 04:17 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 21, 2013, 03:56) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
If a woman is upset, hold her and tell her how beautiful she is.
If she starts to growl, retreat to a safe distance and throw chocolate at her, gently.
Ummmmmmm......you like Hershie's Kisses right beautiful ?
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June 21, 2013, 04:30 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 20, 2013, 23:18) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
You forgot Angelpussy. She thinks that you think she's a bitch!
Did I mention names ??U my dear are in for a severe ass whipping
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June 21, 2013, 06:08 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:24) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 20, 2013, 23:18) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
You forgot Angelpussy. She thinks that you think she's a bitch!
How could I forget a set like that ? Well see....I pissed her off, and she wasn't even here.... a perfect record...I rest my case..
And Angelpussy is as far from a bitch as they get.
I take it the set u refer to are my eyes !! U have not pissed me off (yet) Your big brother is old and as his address confirms in a constant state of confusion.
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June 21, 2013, 06:14 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (angelpussy4u @ June 21, 2013, 06:14) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:24) QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 20, 2013, 23:18) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 20, 2013, 23:07) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 20, 2013, 21:28)You would think they are afraid of Kiss and Chazzy. I think they just love the abuse. In a loving way of course.
So are you guys saying that having someone that will kick your ass on a daily basis is a deal breaker for you ?
If kicking my ass was a deal breaker for me, I would have been out of here the first time I said " whatever " to Kiss , and she isn't talking to me right now anyways , the first time Chazzy threatened to bedazzle my saddle. the first time Newbs raised an eyebrow at me when I was talking , and should have been listening, the first time I threatened to wear chaps around Ma, and the first time Jen said "I never trust a cowboy who says , trust me "....and JDLEE....I'm on the fence about what sets her off, but I figure me, pissing her off ...may be inevitable.
For me, it's when they stop talking...abuse or not....thats when I duck and run.
You forgot Angelpussy. She thinks that you think she's a bitch!
How could I forget a set like that ? Well see....I pissed her off, and she wasn't even here.... a perfect record...I rest my case..
And Angelpussy is as far from a bitch as they get.
I take it the set u refer to are my eyes !! U have not pissed me off (yet) Your big brother is old and as his address confirms in a constant state of confusion.
I dont get it.
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June 21, 2013, 13:21 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Are Syb and Free really in a battle to see how many women they can piss off in one thread?
This might be a first, women getting pissy over who is the bigger bitch. Just wanted to add that there is plenty of competition ladies.Just so you guys understand, we women tend to see it a bit different than you think and many of us wear the "bitch" title as a badge of honor. That does not mean you can call us that. It really is a "we can say it and maybe we will let you say it under the right circumstances" kind of thing.
I would say that the only thing that might save you two(Free and Syb) at this point is a truck load of really good chocolate sent to each woman you offended. I can get the entire list and forward it to you guys but in the mean time you can start with me. I will email you the address shortly.
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June 21, 2013, 14:08 |
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 21, 2013, 14:08)Are Syb and Free really in a battle to see how many women they can piss off in one thread?
This might be a first, women getting pissy over who is the bigger bitch. Just wanted to add that there is plenty of competition ladies.Just so you guys understand, we women tend to see it a bit different than you think and many of us wear the "bitch" title as a badge of honor. That does not mean you can call us that. It really is a "we can say it and maybe we will let you say it under the right circumstances" kind of thing.
I would say that the only thing that might save you two(Free and Syb) at this point is a truck load of really good chocolate sent to each woman you offended. I can get the entire list and forward it to you guys but in the mean time you can start with me. I will email you the address shortly.
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June 21, 2013, 14:26 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ June 21, 2013, 14:26)
Yes, START WITH NEWBIE!
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June 21, 2013, 15:29 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ June 21, 2013, 14:08)Are Syb and Free really in a battle to see how many women they can piss off in one thread?
This might be a first, women getting pissy over who is the bigger bitch. Just wanted to add that there is plenty of competition ladies.Just so you guys understand, we women tend to see it a bit different than you think and many of us wear the "bitch" title as a badge of honor. That does not mean you can call us that. It really is a "we can say it and maybe we will let you say it under the right circumstances" kind of thing.
I would say that the only thing that might save you two(Free and Syb) at this point is a truck load of really good chocolate sent to each woman you offended. I can get the entire list and forward it to you guys but in the mean time you can start with me. I will email you the address shortly.
Well said New!! Bitch is only surpassed by Queen Bitch - what honestly we all strive to be. And for the record chocolate is not enough for me, it should be GOOD Dark Chocolate, Wine & Jewelry!! I know I am high maintenance, a requirement when I stepped up my game to become a Diva Bitch. I will say you ladies inspire me - you handle these boys so well, I am in amazing company, that was obvious very quickly.
Syb - really I am not easy to piss of, I am pretty laid back. I mean my jewlery does double as a weapon, I can handle a 357Mag or shotgun without a thought, and can go shot for shot of whiskey with most men but really I am just the girl next door.
(incidentally I don't drink whiskey anymore it has to do w/ a wine bottle and an asshole, perhaps Kiss and I are related)
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June 21, 2013, 16:21 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Damn.....I hear twigs snapping behind me again.
Besides I can outrun any of you young ladies...with my hands tied behind my back, and my pants around my ankles.
Yah.. thats actually happened..
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June 21, 2013, 22:39 |
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GG317
60 / male Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
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June 22, 2013, 01:03 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ June 21, 2013, 22:39)Damn.....I hear twigs snapping behind me again.
Besides I can outrun any of you young ladies...with my hands tied behind my back, and my pants around my ankles.
Yah.. thats actually happened..
Is that a challenge? Because it sure sounds like one and I am certain we could oblige!
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June 22, 2013, 18:58 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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June 23, 2013, 03:20 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Deal Breaker; If you don't know when to shut the hell up!
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June 23, 2013, 04:11 |
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GG317
60 / male Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
Maybe I didn't say that one right, but I'm not looking for a woman who's in shape per say. I'm looking for a woman who's willing to try to become in shape. I've dated women with...say Brooke Elliot's body style. She's a plus style actress and that's great, but what I should have said was, "I'm looking for a woman who doesn't get winded walking from the car to the house and vice versa."
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June 23, 2013, 12:39 |
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JLee3D
57 / female Assume the Position, New York, US
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Re: Re: Do you have a list of deal breakers or must haves?
QUOTE (GG317 @ June 23, 2013, 12:39)Maybe I didn't say that one right, but I'm not looking for a woman who's in shape per say. I'm looking for a woman who's willing to try to become in shape. I've dated women with...say Brooke Elliot's body style. She's a plus style actress and that's great, but what I should have said was, "I'm looking for a woman who doesn't get winded walking from the car to the house and vice versa."
As a full size gal myself it has taken me a very long time to get comfortable with my body. I have accepted that I will not likely ever be even a size 10 again but still strive to improve. But exercise at any size is important for self worth if nothing more. I had gotten very sedentary when my marriage was spiraling downward, as he did nothing either. Just walking made me feel better physically and emotionally, then I added TaeBo and mind body soul came alive again. I may not look any different from the scale's perspective but others have noticed the change for the better. (It's called happiness) So my point in all this GG is I don't think people are offended by your list and they shouldn't be because you statement was not shallow as some might perceive
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June 24, 2013, 19:42 |
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