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Perve Update 5-16-13
I just talked to his son. Perve is in the hospital and not doing well at all. It's not likely that he's ever going home, but they're looking for a nursing home for him. His son said he'd keep me informed as to what's going on with him, which I will let you all know when I hear something. For any of you who may have his phone number, dont bother calling it because he cant answer. Sounds like a good time for some prayers
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May 16, 2013, 20:26 |
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JenTX
47 / female East, Texas, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Yes it does.
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May 16, 2013, 20:31 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
everyone needs to get naked in his honor.
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May 16, 2013, 20:56 |
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JenTX
47 / female East, Texas, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
He would love that. lol
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May 16, 2013, 20:57 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
i'm half way there, who's with me?
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May 16, 2013, 20:59 |
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yepper12
73 / male Jeffersonville, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
God bless him I will keep him in my prayers.
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May 16, 2013, 21:59 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Thanks Free, he is in our thoughts and prayers
Ma
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May 16, 2013, 23:15 |
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Re: Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 16, 2013, 23:15)Thanks Free, he is in our thoughts and prayers
Ma
Ma? When he first got here, I thought he was an idiot. And Kiss will verify that. Time went by and we became friends. I really wasnt ready for what I heard today
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May 17, 2013, 02:56 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 17, 2013, 02:56) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 16, 2013, 23:15)Thanks Free, he is in our thoughts and prayers
Ma
Ma? When he first got here, I thought he was an idiot. And Kiss will verify that. Time went by and we became friends. I really wasnt ready for what I heard today
I think we all thought that till we got to know him
Ma
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May 17, 2013, 02:59 |
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ashkats
65 / couple crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
last i know he was talking about cooking hotdogs and feeding the cats
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May 17, 2013, 03:02 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Sorry to hear that....I do really believe living things can die of a broken heart. Unfortunately as much as he tried to laugh things off I think he is someone who has a broken heart. I have seen it happen before. I just hope he realizes there are people that would love to see him well and living life to it's fullest again. But I have a feeling that he is the only one who will decide if he wants to stay here or not.If you talk to his family again please give them my best wishes for him as well.And for once I really wish I knew his real name so I could use it rather than Perve.I think he should know we think of him as a real person not just a screen name.
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May 17, 2013, 06:09 |
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Re: Re: Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 17, 2013, 02:56) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 16, 2013, 23:15)Thanks Free, he is in our thoughts and prayers
Ma
Ma? When he first got here, I thought he was an idiot. And Kiss will verify that. Time went by and we became friends. I really wasnt ready for what I heard today
When he first got here, there were several who knew nothing about him and constantly complained to me about him and did not understand why I would tolerate him, even one who wrote him awful hate messages. I'm grateful that so many showed him patience and warmth, got to really know what a good, good person he is, and you all are truly gold hearted people to make a tremendous difference in this man's life.
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May 17, 2013, 10:04 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Thanx for the update Free. Will keep him in my thoughts.
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May 18, 2013, 09:34 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
I agree with what newbie said. My prayers are with him.
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May 19, 2013, 00:03 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
I adore you for the way you have reached out to Perv offsite, Free.
I know he has cherished the time he has been able to spend with you, Sybie, Kss and a few others. He's told me that before, several times.
I started talking to him as soon as he joined this site, he's a pretty remarkable and selfless man.
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May 19, 2013, 13:06 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
That is how we got to know him more is he sent us a message. I seen a different side to hom talking out of the forums.
Ma
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May 19, 2013, 13:50 |
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Re: Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
QUOTE (Chazzy @ May 19, 2013, 13:06)I adore you for the way you have reached out to Perv offsite, Free.
I know he has cherished the time he has been able to spend with you, Sybie, Kss and a few others. He's told me that before, several times.
I started talking to him as soon as he joined this site, he's a pretty remarkable and selfless man.
Oh please. You adore me for other reasons too!
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May 19, 2013, 13:53 |
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Mooant
41 / male New Britain, Connecticut, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Let Perve know we're hoping he'll be back. I don't pop on nearly enough to fill in that completely random conversation standard that he's set.
This world needs to hold onto more good souls like him, it helps to balance out the sheer number of assholes out there!
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May 19, 2013, 16:49 |
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QUOTE (Mooant @ May 19, 2013, 16:49)Let Perve know we're hoping he'll be back. I don't pop on nearly enough to fill in that completely random conversation standard that he's set.
This world needs to hold onto more good souls like him, it helps to balance out the sheer number of assholes out there!
Amen, Sir
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May 20, 2013, 02:42 |
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I hope his son has some idea that in cyberworld, his father has so many that love and admire him.
I sure get what flp said, reading what he posted and talking to him by PM you would think he were two different people
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May 20, 2013, 13:34 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Well, Perve called me at some point during last while I was sleeping. Never heard the phone. He left a VM that much of it, I couldnt really make out what he was saying. What I did get was that he's been in the hospital for almost 2 months. He said he has really bad diabetes and gall bladder cancer among other things. Sadly, he also said he doesnt think he's gonna be around too much longer. It was really hard to listen to him saying those words.
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May 20, 2013, 14:15 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 20, 2013, 14:15)Well, Perve called me at some point during last while I was sleeping. Never heard the phone. He left a VM that much of it, I couldnt really make out what he was saying. What I did get was that he's been in the hospital for almost 2 months. He said he has really bad diabetes and gall bladder cancer among other things. Sadly, he also said he doesnt think he's gonna be around too much longer. It was really hard to listen to him saying those words.
I wish could send him a card with all our signatures, or a card individually. Something for him, and his family to see!
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May 20, 2013, 14:34 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Sadly Kiss, he has no family that he speaks with other than his 1 son. Yes, he does have other family, but they havent spoken for years. That's something I just cant wrap my head around
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May 20, 2013, 14:38 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 20, 2013, 14:38)Sadly Kiss, he has no family that he speaks with other than his 1 son. Yes, he does have other family, but they havent spoken for years. That's something I just cant wrap my head around
But, it would make him smile!
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May 20, 2013, 14:40 |
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QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ May 20, 2013, 14:34) QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 20, 2013, 14:15)Well, Perve called me at some point during last while I was sleeping. Never heard the phone. He left a VM that much of it, I couldnt really make out what he was saying. What I did get was that he's been in the hospital for almost 2 months. He said he has really bad diabetes and gall bladder cancer among other things. Sadly, he also said he doesnt think he's gonna be around too much longer. It was really hard to listen to him saying those words.
I wish could send him a card with all our signatures, or a card individually. Something for him, and his family to see!
We have, in the past tried to do something for some of our members. We would create a free webpage that has a questbook to sign to show love and support for those among us that are in true need of it...but sadly, some would show no common sense when signing...offsite family do not need or want to see a quest book with signatures like 'hardcock' or wetsloppycunt'...
Yep, true story.
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May 20, 2013, 15:17 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
I'm sorry I missed all this,.. and devastated.
I thought of him alot while driving down to Vancouver, and thought it wasn't good that he's been gone from us so long, when I get home I'll post something for our strange, beloved, ailing friend..
We miss you Perve.
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May 20, 2013, 15:56 |
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ashkats
65 / couple crystal falls, Michigan, US
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yep do miss him, and being diabetic my self know what its about...but i dont hacve cancer, knock on wood. i was check out twice for all the years i was on actos.
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May 20, 2013, 16:08 |
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catlady
60 / female rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
I got to know perv outside of forums first when he sent me a message, what a sweetheart. Let him know my heart and prayers go out to him. xo
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May 20, 2013, 21:37 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
I will send him a text because thats all I can do right now. But you have my word, I will mention all of you in it. Not as a WN group, but by name
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May 21, 2013, 01:17 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Send him our love also
Ma
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May 21, 2013, 01:45 |
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QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 21, 2013, 01:45)Send him our love also
Ma
Did you think I would leave you out?
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May 21, 2013, 02:08 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 21, 2013, 02:08) QUOTE (funlovingpair @ May 21, 2013, 01:45)Send him our love also
Ma
Did you think I would leave you out?
no i did not but there is a lot of people.
Ma
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May 21, 2013, 03:09 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Free you are so nice to let this man know that people care about him.
Chazzy I wish I could laugh about what you were saying in regard to what people would post but, it is sad that some people are that cold. I understand why you would not start that page due to idiots!
I really hope he lived life with as much fun as he has talked about.Most people forget how to have fun when they become "adults".Maybe as a tribute we can all flash someone in his honor.lol (Please don't get arrested and blame me)
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May 21, 2013, 03:54 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male London, England, UK
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
I haven't been around much lately and was absolutely gutted (means shocked/traumatized) to hear about this.
Just lost an old friend from my cricket club at the weekend to cancer; I guess I'm getting to the age where there are more funerals and less weddings!
Thinking of you Perve, and can't help wondering if they've managed to get you into a pair of pyjamas!!
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May 21, 2013, 08:53 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Ok, I'm going to send the text "card" to him on behalf of everyone. I'll wait until Wednesday to send it because I dont want to leave anyone out. The list of you all that I've put together so far is compiled from folks who posted on the 2 "Perve Update" threads and are in no particular order:
Chazzy
Ma & Pa
Kiss
Jen
Syb
L&H
OOMG
Ash
Yepper
Angelpussy
Catlady
5tar
Newbs
Kam
GG
Again, this list is only from folks that have commented on those 2 threads. If anyone wants to be added, or if anyone knows of someone that should be added, let me know. I'm also going to post this in a separate "stand alone thread".
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May 21, 2013, 13:40 |
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catlady
60 / female rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 21, 2013, 13:40)Ok, I'm going to send the text "card" to him on behalf of everyone. I'll wait until Wednesday to send it because I dont want to leave anyone out. The list of you all that I've put together so far is compiled from folks who posted on the 2 "Perve Update" threads and are in no particular order:
Chazzy
Ma & Pa
Kiss
Jen
Syb
L&H
OOMG
Ash
Yepper
Angelpussy
Catlady
5tar
Newbs
Kam
GG
Again, this list is only from folks that have commented on those 2 threads. If anyone wants to be added, or if anyone knows of someone that should be added, let me know. I'm also going to post this in a separate "stand alone thread".
Thank you so much free for letting him know that he is loved and we miss and that he is in our prayers.
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May 21, 2013, 15:02 |
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QUOTE (freensleazy @ May 21, 2013, 13:40)Ok, I'm going to send the text "card" to him on behalf of everyone. I'll wait until Wednesday to send it because I dont want to leave anyone out. The list of you all that I've put together so far is compiled from folks who posted on the 2 "Perve Update" threads and are in no particular order:
Chazzy
Ma & Pa
Kiss
Jen
Syb
L&H
OOMG
Ash
Yepper
Angelpussy
Catlady
5tar
Newbs
Kam
GG
Dark Shadow
Again, this list is only from folks that have commented on those 2 threads. If anyone wants to be added, or if anyone knows of someone that should be added, let me know. I'm also going to post this in a separate "stand alone thread".
Prayers and best wishes.
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May 21, 2013, 15:14 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
You got it Man. Wasnt sure if you knew him.
No need to thank me folks. I feel fortunate to be able to do it. Perve forged himself a special place here. But I believe that everyone is special in their own way. Even L&H. And boy, is he "special"! Seriously though, I'd do the same thing for all of you as I'm sure you all would as well.
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May 21, 2013, 15:28 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
And besides, this was Kiss's idea, not mine.
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May 21, 2013, 17:01 |
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catlady
60 / female rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
Free are there any updates on sweet perv?
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May 29, 2013, 01:36 |
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Re: Perve Update 5-16-13
No Cat, nothing mmore than I put in the newest thread. I wont be posting any more updates in this thread. It'll all be in the newest one. And Im afraid of the next one I'll post
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May 29, 2013, 01:57 |
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