I know some of you guys are married, but there's alot more of us that are not or used to be. If ya havent been, do you want to? And if you were, would you do it again? Personally, I dont think I would.

My ex applied for an annulment and actually got it. So, at least in the eyes of the church, I've never been married

I know some of you guys are married, but there's alot more of us that are not or used to be. If ya havent been, do you want to? And if you were, would you do it again? Personally, I dont think I would.

My ex applied for an annulment and actually got it. So, at least in the eyes of the church, I've never been married

I know some of you guys are married, but there's alot more of us that are not or used to be. If ya havent been, do you want to? And if you were, would you do it again? Personally, I dont think I would.

My ex applied for an annulment and actually got it. So, at least in the eyes of the church, I've never been married

Yes, but I would probably have to wait to have sex until after marriage in case it killed him.

Yes, but I would probably have to wait to have sex until after marriage in case it killed him.

Yes, but I would probably have to wait to have sex until after marriage in case it killed him.

Well, Ma and I will have been married 30 years, this fall. Neither of us ever had been married before, so it was a 1st for us both. We have had our up's and down's, but it is always a work in progress. One thing that we have never done is, fight like little children. We have always been able to talk things out like adults. Our kids even asked us why we never fight like their friends do, so the cops have to show up. I guess if something were to happen and I find myself single again, not sure what I do.

Thanks. Means a lot coming from you.

  QUOTE (funlovingpair @ January 11, 2013, 18:32)


Youre more than welcome. You guys obviously like each other and in many cases, thats just as important, and maybe even more important than loving each other.

  QUOTE (freensleazy @ January 11, 2013, 18:44)


I heard many people say you need to marry your best friend then you have it all. For me, my best friend would have to know how to cook.

  QUOTE (freensleazy @ January 11, 2013, 18:44)


I heard many people say you need to marry your best friend then you have it all. For me, my best friend would have to know how to cook.

  QUOTE (freensleazy @ January 11, 2013, 18:44)


I heard many people say you need to marry your best friend then you have it all. For me, my best friend would have to know how to cook.

I can't say I am against marriage for everyone. I just don't see a purpose for it anymore. In my case I see it as a legal thing or a religious thing. And these days there is no need to get married to get the things you used to marry for.I can't imagine ever getting married again. I don't need a court to verify my commitment, or my partners to me.I certainly couldn't care less what some Rabbi or Priest thinks. I don't need benefits and even if I did you don't need to marry for that anymore.I own my stuff and Kam owns his and if we are going to be together we kind of have it worked out that we keep things the way they are as far as who owns what. If we buy things together it is discussed and we work it out before a purchase.On big purchases I would do that whether we were married or not. I can appoint whomever I decide to be a benefactor of my things and and take care of any legal issues on paper to give each other rights to certain things like medical decisions. We also both have adult children who we consider in our decisions. Other than for religious reasons I don't see the point of marriage anymore for people.It certainly can't make me love Kam anymore than I already do.I never felt I needed someone to complete me. I feel complete whether or not I am in a relationship and I believe Kam feels the same way. He doesn't complete me but he is a great bonus to my life.

To Ma and Pa I salute you for being in a relationship for so long and keeping it together. It does take a lot of commitment to do that.I think the thing that you hit on that so many don't is that you view it as a constant work in progress. So many start a relationship off with fire works and then expect it to stay that way with no work.It's also not a 50%/50% its a 100%/100% commitment.And you have to like each other not just love each other as Free said. I know Kam makes me laugh and just feel so good being around him. I hope and believe he feels the same way about me.

To Kam: I was just thinking about how much I have come to enjoy blueberries lately.

Never again. "Once bitten twice as shy" !!!

I'm more a fan of shacking up

  QUOTE (angelpussy4u @ January 15, 2013, 14:16)




I don't know, I wouldn't mind trying over. This time he can give 200%

  QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ January 15, 2013, 16:10)

I think it would have to be at least 500% for me to even consider it

  QUOTE (angelpussy4u @ January 16, 2013, 01:25)

100 % pain in the ass .........well that's a start !!!!
Well now..... if the both of you want to shack up on a ranch in Canada, with a half decent looking rancher that's 100% a pain in the ass... we can talk about percentages.

Just to warn you...my attention span runs at half speed...thats about a 50 % comprehension rate.

  QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ January 16, 2013, 18:17)
Sounds to me, a little ball busting ging on here. Thats ok, I dont participate in the old war of the sexs. Its all cool kids.

  QUOTE (perveman @ January 16, 2013, 21:14)

These women around here are always breaking my balls...and they know I love it.

  QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ January 19, 2013, 21:31)



what kind of tools are they using?

Ironic that we are discussing ball breaking ,in a thread about marriage..

I wasn't the one that brought it up. But marriage can be as painful.

How about to the first person who fixes me breakfast?

No?! I guess I'll just have to get it myself....