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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Turn ons for women?
At this point in your life, what turns you on? What do you look for in a perfect man ,in and out of the sack ? Do you like a pretty boy or ruggedly handsome , atheletic or just built like a big teddy bear? Soft perfect hands, or work hardened and scarred? Also what is your biggest turn on when you first meet, and what gets you purring in bed, where you can't get enough?
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| September 5, 2012, 23:58 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Turn ons for women?
Good luck!
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| September 6, 2012, 01:36 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Turn ons for women?
You've not figured it out either huh ?
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| September 6, 2012, 02:54 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Turn ons for women?
I've answered this many times. My biggest turn on is definitely a mans mind. I am old enough to know that all the other stuff means nothing if the guy is to stupid , boring or nasty to be in a relationship with. Looks change, even sex can change or go away. But you have to be able to spend time with a person and enjoy their company.There are personality traits that I enjoy.Besides someone that is intelligent I love a sense of humor. Also a certain amount of self confidence and independence. I never liked guys who kissed my ass. I want a guy with his own opinions and not afraid to voice them even when we disagree.
Obviously the sex has to be compatible. You can't be a person that loves sex everyday and be with with someone who thinks once a month is just fine. Even if you can handle that for a while, it would take a toll of the relationship at some point.I personally have always had the best sex lives when I'm with a person that is open minded and not afraid to voice what they want as well as me being comfortable enough to know I can voice what I want. I always believed you should not have to censor yourself in the bedroom. You can request or say anything and not be afraid of being judged. Then be able to talk about if both or either are comfortable trying that request or not.Even language should be discussed. If one partner really enjoys "talking dirty" for example and the other partner feels uncomfortable either saying or hearing it then it can be an issue. It's important to be able to talk to your partner about all these things and hopefully get to a place that makes you both happy. I like the way it was described the the Fifty Shades books. You kind of have your lists. You have your "must haves", "would likes", "deal breakers" to do and not to do.
I am extremely lucky in that I feel I have found the person that turns me on more than anyone I've ever met. What's really great is he can even do it from hundreds of miles away. He understands that turning me on starts in my mind.He just finishes me off with my body.He has a great mind and knows how to and frequently does tease me for sometimes hours and at times days.
As for appearance of course there are things that I find attractive in men but I really don't consider looks as a factor for the most part. I find that if someone starts off looking great then I get to know them and my mind actually makes them look better or worse depending on how much I like them.I can honestly say that I have gotten to know people online including Kam and knew I wanted to be with him before I even knew what he looked like.Its just a bonus that I happen to think he is attractive. lol I have to admit a great smile and great eyes are hard to resist and he has both.
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| September 6, 2012, 16:52 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Turn ons for women?
So, you're wet?
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| September 6, 2012, 22:50 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Turn ons for women?
QUOTE (kamarel @ September 6, 2012, 22:50)So, you're wet?
YES!
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| September 7, 2012, 00:56 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Re: Turn ons for women?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ September 7, 2012, 00:56) QUOTE (kamarel @ September 6, 2012, 22:50)So, you're wet?
YES!
Huh. How 'bout that.
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| September 7, 2012, 01:46 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Turn ons for women?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ September 5, 2012, 23:58)At this point in your life, what turns you on? What do you look for in a perfect man ,in and out of the sack ? Do you like a pretty boy or ruggedly handsome , atheletic or just built like a big teddy bear? Soft perfect hands, or work hardened and scarred? Also what is your biggest turn on when you first meet, and what gets you purring in bed, where you can't get enough?
Good luck indeed. Ask 10 women and you'll get 1000 different answers!!
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| September 7, 2012, 08:37 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Turn ons for women?
I've asked a 1000 women and got only 10 answers, maybe I need a new approach
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| September 8, 2012, 07:43 |
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