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sexslave2
63 / male
Naugatuck, Connecticut, US
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Sexual attraction
Hi everyone......
I am curious... what personality and physical traits do you desire in a sexual partner ? The spectrum of desire is infinite.
Where do your desires lay?
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| June 23, 2012, 01:17 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
I could never give you a list like 6' and blue eyes etc...
I have had relationships with men of every shape size ethnic background you can imagine. For me if it was a quick I just am in the mood for a fuck and not going to have a relationship I might go for the so called " hot guy ". Mostly because that's all I would have to work with at first.
But in a true "partner" I have to have someone that is interesting to me. If they can't get my mind going my body wont get going either. I love intelligent , funny men. I don't mean funny in the sense that they can't ever be serious but I want them to be able to laugh and not take things to serious when things deserve to be laughed at and we can laugh together.The man that can play with me all day or even over several days and have me so worked up by the time I see him that I am ripping his clothes off are my favorite. That takes intelligence and a love and understanding of women to be able to accomplish. Who wouldn't want that. The one thing I could never put up with is a man who doesn't practice good personal hygiene. I would think that would be the same for most people.
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| June 23, 2012, 02:48 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
It depends on how drunk I am.
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| June 23, 2012, 03:06 |
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sexslave2
63 / male
Naugatuck, Connecticut, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
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| June 23, 2012, 03:26 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
i guess it is just attraction, i my self , i like my types and not someone how looks starved, and the wife like older guys she say so ... i guess it whats your taste.
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| June 23, 2012, 03:37 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
Breathing melts my butter. Or, if it walks, talks, crawls, and has not been dead for more than a week, good to go.
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| June 23, 2012, 13:42 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Sexual attraction
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 23, 2012, 03:06)
It depends on how drunk I am.
. Hopefully drunk enough that you dont realize its the ole pervevin the house. Oh perve, you are even killing them in the nose bleed seats.
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| June 23, 2012, 13:48 |
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thechunkyone
35 / male
elizabeth, New Jersey, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
physical mmm well i like them all really. i prefer somewhere near my age though, and i like someone i can respect and get respect back. trust is another important thing.
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| June 24, 2012, 02:30 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Sexual attraction
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ June 23, 2012, 03:06)
It depends on how drunk I am.
You prefer Crown Royal right?
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| June 25, 2012, 00:42 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Sexual attraction
She needs to be confident, in who she is,but sweet at the same time, smart and funny, laughs easily,enjoy new experiences ,or is quick to smile.Age means nothing ,but she should be able to drink legally,and not in a seniors home,and if she's into me ,then I'm into her.She needs to look after herself,but not always be dressed to kill, maybe wear my shirt around the house,and I'm a sucker for long curley hair,an hour glass figure, and cleavage.
As far as chest size it doesn't really matter,because as a wise man once said..." once you've seen one set ,you want to see them all" Sexual attraction for me is more mental than physical, if we are in a crowd and she looks across the room at me and smiles, and I can see in her eyes that she thinks I'm attractive, even after being with each other for a while ....now thats hot
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| June 29, 2012, 20:02 |
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JenTX
47 / female
East, Texas, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
If we are talking that straight biological response, its the smile that does it for me. Someone who smiles for real, the kind that lights up their whole face and makes their eyes sparkle.
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| June 29, 2012, 20:38 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
Sybian you make a really good point.Its easy to have a strong attraction when the relationship is new. But when you are involved for a while and you can look at that person from across the room and still feel like you wish everyone would go away just so you can be with that person or maybe you just forget the others are even there, then it is a great type if sexual attraction.
I feel like I'm missing something or forgot something whenever I have to leave Kam.I don't mean the " he completes me" stuff because I believe I'm complete on my own. It's more like something you just want with you all the time like when you were a kid and had a favorite blanket or something that just made you feel good, comfortable and
secure. You also what to be there to make that person feel the same.
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| June 29, 2012, 20:44 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Re: Sexual attraction
QUOTE (MnJTX @ June 29, 2012, 20:38)If we are talking that straight biological response, its the smile that does it for me. Someone who smiles for real, the kind that lights up their whole face and makes their eyes sparkle.
:-)
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| June 30, 2012, 09:45 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
I'm reminded of something I tweeted awhile back, my own quote, "If all women want is a man with a sense of humor, then why is my door still on its hinges?.."
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| July 1, 2012, 14:43 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Sexual attraction
QUOTE (wandering5tar @ June 30, 2012, 09:45) QUOTE (MnJTX @ June 29, 2012, 20:38)If we are talking that straight biological response, its the smile that does it for me. Someone who smiles for real, the kind that lights up their whole face and makes their eyes sparkle.
:-)
. Lol
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| July 1, 2012, 17:08 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Sexual attraction
QUOTE (GentleGiant388 @ July 1, 2012, 14:43)I'm reminded of something I tweeted awhile back, my own quote, "If all women want is a man with a sense of humor, then why is my door still on its hinges?.."
. Great point GG. May sound icky, but have you ever noticed, the fatter the wallet, the better looking the eye candy? Just saying.
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| July 1, 2012, 17:11 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
Wow, some cynical answers. Not every fat wallet has great eye candy. Besides I blame the person with the wallet if that's all they chose.
I have a friend that is extremely wealthy and happens to be funny, smart and beautiful. She happens to be with a hot model at the moment but it took her years to open up to him. She was married to an average looking guy and dated average looking guys. She was never comfortable with the "Young hot stud" with no brain cells. She happen to finally give into this guy (after a lot of convincing) expecting a little fun then he would be out the door. He happened to have a brain and sense of humor so she has shockingly been in a relationship for several years now.However the age difference still bothers her at times. Not every body with money is shallow.
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| July 2, 2012, 04:02 |
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Jerry2010
82 / male
Burlington, Ontario, Canada
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Re: Sexual attraction
meet me in red room
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| July 7, 2012, 11:02 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Sexual attraction
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ July 2, 2012, 04:02)Wow, some cynical answers. Not every fat wallet has great eye candy. Besides I blame the person with the wallet if that's all they chose.
I have a friend that is extremely wealthy and happens to be funny, smart and beautiful. She happens to be with a hot model at the moment but it took her years to open up to him. She was married to an average looking guy and dated average looking guys. She was never comfortable with the "Young hot stud" with no brain cells. She happen to finally give into this guy (after a lot of convincing) expecting a little fun then he would be out the door. He happened to have a brain and sense of humor so she has shockingly been in a relationship for several years now.However the age difference still bothers her at times. Not every body with money is shallow.
Well said Newbs.....although I still have a few brain cells left..age don't mean shit BTW
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| July 7, 2012, 16:54 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
I was watching, the other day, a television program about a woman who finds dates for eligible bachelors. it was kind of like, that one on cable for rich guys, anyway. She took her client to Grand Central Station to see what turns this guy's head. He couldn't give her a straight answer, but she caught on when he searched the crowd of women coming off of the trains into New York. I thought it interesting that there are things about guys and girls that make us stop and look. For me, a woman with short, boy-cut, almost buzz-cut, gets my attention right away. I prefer a confident woman, and most women who cut their hair that way are what I'm looking for. Women with long hair, in my studies, tend to use their hair to hide behind it like a mask, peering out behind the mane with shy eyes. I've gone out with a lot women, short and long haired, but the hair cut definitely stops me in my tracks, that and nationality.
Lately I've found myself staring at women who are of any nationality; black, hispanic, asian, indian, etc,... A lot of them come around my area for the sand and surf in the summer. God, I could get into a lot of nasty accidents in the car if I drove the strip any time soon... 
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| July 7, 2012, 21:54 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Sexual attraction
I tend to stay on the athletic side ,so I'm Attracted to Slender or athletic figures or someone that keeps themselves in shape.The first thing is her Eyes,then her Neck.Then the way she carries herself.I love a shapely ass and nice legs very much,but A flat belly and sexy shoulders really captivate me too.Her body movements and behavior towards me can really elevate the attraction.
Honestly Iv'e had A ladies personality suck my rite in before,I had'nt noticed her until she approached me and began talking,her warm friendly nature,her eyes,body language along with conversation opened my eyes to spur of the moment attraction,and spawned a desire for more from her..
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| July 8, 2012, 01:11 |
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