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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
Have you ever taken your time before sex to explore each others bodies(more then oral sex )Women have dramatically more nerve sensors for experiencing touch than men, making them more sensitive to touch sensations.this can with practice bring way more levels of pleasure to her during foreplay,and this works both ways she can do wonders touching you also.Myself I have always been in awe of a well toned female body,I work in a technical field and have very strong hands,with good dexterity and have over the years gotten good at this one.If you haven't try'ed playing this for all its worth go for it.And hey use it to your advantge,wait till she is on sensual cloud 9 to tell her you spent 9 grand on a boat.well if you want sex maybe way till you fun evening is over and get her a nice  first
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| April 25, 2012, 19:42 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
When I was around 20 I was involved with a older women that was VERY comfortable with her body,and she taught me the importance of patience and softley touching her body..she also told me that her bodies sensitivity changed from week to week,one day her breasts were sensitive the next they were not.Then later in the month she didn't want foreplay at all, and it taught me to read her body language before, during, and even after sex.I have matured now and I still find it interesting how I can not respond to a young lady that just lays there, usually from being nervous,I now find it so distracting it doesn't matter how gorgeous she is,if she doesn't respond to my touch in the first ten minutes,or so, I become totally disinterested.
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| April 26, 2012, 00:34 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
I heard ya on that Syb. Was "friends", with this much younger black lady. When I finally "hit" it, talk about dead. Just made an excuse, and de-mounted. But hey, she had that "other" talent (we all know what I am talking about), that far made up for the horizontal momba. 
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| April 26, 2012, 01:07 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
I'm keeping my mouth shut.
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| April 26, 2012, 01:22 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 26, 2012, 01:22)
I'm keeping my mouth shut.
Does That mean you dont kiss and tell.. Gotta like that,or perhaps You dont wish to expose a vonerability,that could be good too.. 
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| April 26, 2012, 01:28 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 26, 2012, 01:22)
I'm keeping my mouth shut.
Thanks ...I owe you one.
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| April 26, 2012, 19:17 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
I am very sensitive in general. I also know that ever time can be different. There are the times when I just want to FUCK !. But by far most times I think its the whole thing that adds to the experience from the teasing all day to the kiss at the end of the night when you go to sleep. Kam and I were just talking about this last night.
We both like to try new things often.Yesterday was definitely one of those nights.After we finished he asked how I felt about what he was doing. He obviously knew it made me orgasm really hard actually, several times,but he also knew that there was a moment of frustration before that point. That's where touch and messing a bit with your mind comes into play. He's very good at it.He found that getting me frustrated then touching me or even talking to me in certain ways gets me to have a more intense orgasm.
Blindfolds work well because you use your other senses to "tune in".Funny how different we can all be though. When I am having sex I kind of zone out. I don't think about anything.Where as Kam starts thinking about thing to do to me. I'm on auto pilot, I don't plan in my head what I'm going to do at that moment. Of course I have had in my head ideas of what I've wanted to do or a fantasy I wanted to try.But I get lost in the moment. I think its a great thing.
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| April 26, 2012, 19:30 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
Detached sex can sometimes be very intense ,no issues of the day to enter your mind,When i worked nites We had an agreement If one was really horny the other could just initiate and go from there, At times we were like freaky animals,more intense no stress,just mindless Banging,Agree with changing the touching up don't want same old expected routine
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| April 26, 2012, 20:05 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 26, 2012, 01:22)
I'm keeping my mouth shut.
Is anyone buying this?!... 
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| April 26, 2012, 23:47 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 00:34)When I was around 20 I was involved with a older women that was VERY comfortable with her body,and she taught me the importance of patience and softley touching her body..she also told me that her bodies sensitivity changed from week to week,one day her breasts were sensitive the next they were not.Then later in the month she didn't want foreplay at all, and it taught me to read her body language before, during, and even after sex.I have matured now and I still find it interesting how I can not respond to a young lady that just lays there, usually from being nervous,I now find it so distracting it doesn't matter how gorgeous she is,if she doesn't respond to my touch in the first ten minutes,or so, I become totally disinterested.
Ahh the dead Fuck syndrome,I agree Sybian ,If she is that detached maybe there's no hope,you might get more action from your hand,Did i say that out loud.Knew A really beautiful girl in college like that,I was so turned on to have the chance to bed her,only to find out she lay there emotionless like nobody is home,What a shame such a sexy girl vacant during sex,I thought She may had been abused by someone causing this, not sure, Just very sad.. 
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| April 26, 2012, 23:55 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (GentleGiant388 @ April 26, 2012, 23:47) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 26, 2012, 01:22)
I'm keeping my mouth shut.
Is anyone buying this?!...
Now that you Point it out Giant ,I am skeptical too lol
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| April 26, 2012, 23:57 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 23:55) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 00:34)When I was around 20 I was involved with a older women that was VERY comfortable with her body,and she taught me the importance of patience and softley touching her body..she also told me that her bodies sensitivity changed from week to week,one day her breasts were sensitive the next they were not.Then later in the month she didn't want foreplay at all, and it taught me to read her body language before, during, and even after sex.I have matured now and I still find it interesting how I can not respond to a young lady that just lays there, usually from being nervous,I now find it so distracting it doesn't matter how gorgeous she is,if she doesn't respond to my touch in the first ten minutes,or so, I become totally disinterested.
Ahh the dead Fuck syndrome,I agree Sybian ,If she is that detached maybe there's no hope,you might get more action from your hand,Did i say that out loud.Knew A really beautiful girl in college like that,I was so turned on to have the chance to bed her,only to find out she lay there emotionless like nobody is home,What a shame such a sexy girl vacant during sex,I thought She may had been abused by someone causing this, not sure, Just very sad..
You could have just told her to "move", like one guy told me once. I was just getting started. He was lucky I didn't leave, and not come back, in which case he would have missed out on some of the best sex he'd ever had. xxx
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| April 27, 2012, 00:34 |
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Re: Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (GentleGiant388 @ April 26, 2012, 23:47) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 26, 2012, 01:22)
I'm keeping my mouth shut.
Is anyone buying this?!...
I sent a check----
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| April 27, 2012, 00:44 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 27, 2012, 00:34) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 23:55) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 00:34)When I was around 20 I was involved with a older women that was VERY comfortable with her body,and she taught me the importance of patience and softley touching her body..she also told me that her bodies sensitivity changed from week to week,one day her breasts were sensitive the next they were not.Then later in the month she didn't want foreplay at all, and it taught me to read her body language before, during, and even after sex.I have matured now and I still find it interesting how I can not respond to a young lady that just lays there, usually from being nervous,I now find it so distracting it doesn't matter how gorgeous she is,if she doesn't respond to my touch in the first ten minutes,or so, I become totally disinterested.
Ahh the dead Fuck syndrome,I agree Sybian ,If she is that detached maybe there's no hope,you might get more action from your hand,Did i say that out loud.Knew A really beautiful girl in college like that,I was so turned on to have the chance to bed her,only to find out she lay there emotionless like nobody is home,What a shame such a sexy girl vacant during sex,I thought She may had been abused by someone causing this, not sure, Just very sad..
You could have just told her to "move", like one guy told me once. I was just getting started. He was lucky I didn't leave, and not come back, in which case he would have missed out on some of the best sex he'd ever had. xxx
Wish that coulda worked With my experience, but I really think she had something make her that way It was like a switch flipped,Made me feel like a viel of sadness swept over her,At the time I was pretty sure it wasn't me,But  Hope I didnt offend with the dead fuck syndrome remark
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| April 27, 2012, 00:48 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (onehornee @ April 27, 2012, 00:48) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 27, 2012, 00:34) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 23:55) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 00:34)When I was around 20 I was involved with a older women that was VERY comfortable with her body,and she taught me the importance of patience and softley touching her body..she also told me that her bodies sensitivity changed from week to week,one day her breasts were sensitive the next they were not.Then later in the month she didn't want foreplay at all, and it taught me to read her body language before, during, and even after sex.I have matured now and I still find it interesting how I can not respond to a young lady that just lays there, usually from being nervous,I now find it so distracting it doesn't matter how gorgeous she is,if she doesn't respond to my touch in the first ten minutes,or so, I become totally disinterested.
Ahh the dead Fuck syndrome,I agree Sybian ,If she is that detached maybe there's no hope,you might get more action from your hand,Did i say that out loud.Knew A really beautiful girl in college like that,I was so turned on to have the chance to bed her,only to find out she lay there emotionless like nobody is home,What a shame such a sexy girl vacant during sex,I thought She may had been abused by someone causing this, not sure, Just very sad..
You could have just told her to "move", like one guy told me once. I was just getting started. He was lucky I didn't leave, and not come back, in which case he would have missed out on some of the best sex he'd ever had. xxx Wish that coulda worked With my experience, but I really think she had something make her that way It was like a switch flipped,Made me feel like a viel of sadness swept over her,At the time I was pretty sure it wasn't me,But Hope I didnt offend with the dead fuck syndrome remark
Thats a totally different thing when a woman has been abused...and if she communicates that fact to you,then there is a level of trust that has to be established.I have had some experiance with ladies that have been treated wrongly by who ever,and sometimes havn't dealt with it,or have dealt with it in their own way,i have found that when treated gently and patiently there is a level of trust that develops,and eventually good things can happen. As men, I don't think we could understand what abused women have gone through,we can only be understanding and patient,and touching and massage starts a road to intamacy both parties inevitably will want...
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| April 28, 2012, 20:07 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
reading all this just gives me ideas lol
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| April 28, 2012, 21:03 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Touching and message...With or w/out blindfold
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 28, 2012, 20:07) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 27, 2012, 00:48) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 27, 2012, 00:34) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 23:55) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 00:34)When I was around 20 I was involved with a older women that was VERY comfortable with her body,and she taught me the importance of patience and softley touching her body..she also told me that her bodies sensitivity changed from week to week,one day her breasts were sensitive the next they were not.Then later in the month she didn't want foreplay at all, and it taught me to read her body language before, during, and even after sex.I have matured now and I still find it interesting how I can not respond to a young lady that just lays there, usually from being nervous,I now find it so distracting it doesn't matter how gorgeous she is,if she doesn't respond to my touch in the first ten minutes,or so, I become totally disinterested.
Ahh the dead Fuck syndrome,I agree Sybian ,If she is that detached maybe there's no hope,you might get more action from your hand,Did i say that out loud.Knew A really beautiful girl in college like that,I was so turned on to have the chance to bed her,only to find out she lay there emotionless like nobody is home,What a shame such a sexy girl vacant during sex,I thought She may had been abused by someone causing this, not sure, Just very sad..
You could have just told her to "move", like one guy told me once. I was just getting started. He was lucky I didn't leave, and not come back, in which case he would have missed out on some of the best sex he'd ever had. xxx Wish that coulda worked With my experience, but I really think she had something make her that way It was like a switch flipped,Made me feel like a viel of sadness swept over her,At the time I was pretty sure it wasn't me,But Hope I didnt offend with the dead fuck syndrome remark Thats a totally different thing when a woman has been abused...and if she communicates that fact to you,then there is a level of trust that has to be established.I have had some experiance with ladies that have been treated wrongly by who ever,and sometimes havn't dealt with it,or have dealt with it in their own way,i have found that when treated gently and patiently there is a level of trust that develops,and eventually good things can happen. As men, I don't think we could understand what abused women have gone through,we can only be understanding and patient,and touching and massage starts a road to intamacy both parties inevitably will want...
Good point Sybian,Looking back Ive been in relationships since I was 16 and i can say with sadness more then half of the 19 woman(Didnt know 2 of them) I have been lucky enough to experience were abused sexually,emtionally and almost always physically,thats Fucked up..not very good odds for the ladies 
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| April 29, 2012, 14:10 |
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