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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Sometimes I see Posts that really make me think.I have been paying closer attention to the signals I send out Without knowing it.Unspoken communication has always fancinated me,Even though I am still pretty clueless As how to interpret some incoming signals from females, I am trying to get a handle on this.Anyone Ever pay attention to this?Do you have any pointers your willing to share?For me this Is an ongoing study.
This weekend when I was at Menards there seemed to be more suitable females(girls I would Like to bed) then usual,So i thought I would Play with Eye contact,And Was surprised at what signal I was sending and receiving all these years without knowing it..The green light smile, What a concept,,lol
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| April 25, 2012, 14:10 |
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Menards, the home and hardware store? Let me tell ya something that not exactly a secret. Women do find places like Lowes, Ace hardware, Menards a good place to meet men . The men there are assumed not to be afraid of work and DIYer's are usually a good lot. Doesn't mean we (women)are hanging out there exclusively to pick up a man, but if we are there anyway, we tend to have a more positive reaction to men than at a bar.
They say up to 93% of communication is body language and facial cues. Which easily explains why it can be so difficult to impress someone online with just some typed text.
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| April 25, 2012, 14:17 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
How hot are the womane at Menards?
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| April 25, 2012, 15:45 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
I dont have a clue about ladies body language, or females, never will. I do love watching a nice rear end sensiously walking away. So, I am an animal, sue me.
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| April 25, 2012, 16:28 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (Chazzy @ April 25, 2012, 14:17)Menards, the home and hardware store? Let me tell ya something that not exactly a secret. Women do find places like Lowes, Ace hardware, Menards a good place to meet men . The men there are assumed not to be afraid of work and DIYer's are usually a good lot. Doesn't mean we (women)are hanging out there exclusively to pick up a man, but if we are there anyway, we tend to have a more positive reaction to men than at a bar.
They say up to 93% of communication is body language and facial cues. Which easily explains why it can be so difficult to impress someone online with just some typed text.
Yes I Am really having my Eyes opened into an unknown form of communication to most.Here I was looking at learning a new spoken language,but I think i will put some time into shedding more light on this body language thing and post interesting stuff here,in hopes you ladies will confirm ,coach or correct what I am learning.And maybe myself and other guys will have more rewarding relationships with the lovers in our lives..It should be Noted That Most women have the upper leg on men with understanding body language.. 
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| April 25, 2012, 16:38 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 25, 2012, 15:45)
How hot are the womane at Menards?
Well they were very sexy ,But They don't hold a candle to you Kiss..Onehornee is a===>  lol .Careful I have placed you on a pedistal dont fall off and Bust your 
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| April 25, 2012, 16:46 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Step 2 of the attraction process is the smile..She delivers one or more fleeting smiles. This is a quick half smile that is intended to give a prospective man the green light to make an approach. Unfortunately, many men are not responsive to these signals, leaving the woman feeling that he's not interested in her.How many times can I look back and recall this senario,All to many.I have had some regrets regarding lost prospective lovers from my shortsighted misunderstanding.I tested this out on my menards girls also As the smile message was received it has to be successfully returned Which I think comes natural for me as I tend to be approachable, my problem was I tend to be shy with new people and when I received the the signals and recognized them Sometimes The shyness effects my body language sent back.Then leaving you Busted.Even tho I am trying to learn lets not forget Im still responding to her Body language.And don't want to leave the start something you don't finish syndrome everywhere I go lol..
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| April 25, 2012, 17:08 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Okay, I don't know. I smile a lot. I think I may tend to be most expressive with my eyes. Through my eyes, I easily express interest, anger, or contempt.
And thanks, but don't put me on too high of a pedestal. I get a little clumsy sometimes, and don't want to have too far to fall.
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| April 25, 2012, 17:26 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 25, 2012, 17:26)Okay, I don't know. I smile a lot. I think I may tend to be most expressive with my eyes. Through my eyes, I easily express interest, anger, or contempt.
And thanks, but don't put me on too high of a pedestal. I get a little clumsy sometimes, and don't want to have too far to fall.
LOL don't worry I'll break your fall.I agree Someones Eyes can really speak there intentions,mood and receptiveness ,Eye contact Is one thing I really use when first meeting someone.As for the smiling,Yea I tend to smile alot too.sometimes I'll see something stupid,and get uncontrollable grins,place hands on cheeks and remove grin to avoid pain . I seem to be attracted to people that arent afraid to smile..
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| April 25, 2012, 19:16 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
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| April 25, 2012, 19:23 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Talk: He approaches and attempts to make small talk, using cliches such as, 'Haven't I seen you somewhere before?' and other well-worn lines that are purely intended to break the ice. I think I'm ok with this part as Sometimes I talk to much,and one liners are a dime a dozen,I will likely just come up with something off the cuff,hopefully not stupid :P
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| April 25, 2012, 19:29 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Maybe I better post this without my 2 cents worth so other guys and gals might benefit from it as i read it..then we can pick it apart after... 
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| April 25, 2012, 19:55 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
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| April 25, 2012, 20:04 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
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| April 25, 2012, 20:13 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
6. Exposed Wrists
An interested woman will gradually expose the smooth, soft underside skin of her wrists to the potential male partner and will increase the rate she flashes her wrists as her interest grows.
7. Sideways Glance Over Raised Shoulder
The Raised Shoulder is self-mimicry of the rounded female breasts. With partially drooped eyelids, the woman holds the man's gaze just long enough for him to notice, then she quickly looks away. This action produces the feeling of peeping in the woman who does it and being peeped at by the man who receives it.
8. Rolling Hips
For childbearing reasons, women have wider hips than men and have a wider crotch gap between the legs. This means that when a woman walks she has an accentuated roll which highlights her pelvic region. Men can't walk like this, so it becomes a powerful sex difference signal. Rolling of the hips is one of the subtle female courtship gestures that has been used for centuries in advertising to sell goods and services.
9. The Pelvic Tilt
Medical evidence shows that a woman in excellent health and most capable of successfully bearing children has a waist-tohips ratio of 70%, that is, her waist is 70% the size of her hips. This gives her what's known as an hourglass figure. Throughout recorded history this is the body ratio that has proved the most dramatic male attention-grabber.
10. Handbag in Close Proximity
Most men have never seen the contents of a woman's handbag and studies show that most men are afraid even to touch her handbag, let alone open it. A woman's handbag is a personal item that's treated by her almost as if it's an extension of her body and so it becomes a strong signal of intimacy when she puts it close to a man.
11. The Knee Point
One leg is tucked under the other and points to the person she finds the most interesting. This is a relaxed position, which also takes the formality out of a conversation and gives the opportunity for a fleeting exposure of the thighs.
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| April 25, 2012, 20:18 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
l2. The Shoe Fondle
Dangling the shoe on the end of the foot also indicates a relaxed attitude and has the phallic effect of thrusting the foot in and out of the shoe. This action unsettles many men without them knowing what is happening.
13. The Leg Twine
Most men agree that the Leg Twine is the most appealing sitting position a woman can take. It's a gesture that women consciously use to draw attention to their legs one leg is pressed firmly against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tone, which, as previously mentioned, is a condition that the body takes when a person is ready for sexual performance.Other leg signals used by women include crossing and uncrossing the legs slowly in front of the man and gently stroking the thighs with her hand, indicating a desire to be touched.
Geez I feel like i'm brad Meltzer decoded lmao
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| April 25, 2012, 20:21 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Lots of info to suck up,but I feel like it may only be the tip of the iceberg,I hope This is useful to someone,I myself am in Awe of how much of this Body language I have had sent in my direction,and never understood.  hopefully next time these are sent your way you can act on it accordingly... 
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| April 25, 2012, 20:26 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Soooooooo........what does it mean when she grabs your ass?
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| April 26, 2012, 00:22 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
When a woman slowly and sensually strokes her thigh, neck or throat it infers that, if a man plays his cards right, he may be able to touch her in these same ways. At the same time, her self-touch lets her imagine what it might feel like if the man was initiating the touch,thats as close as I can come Sybian
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| April 26, 2012, 01:31 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
Oh lol I misread your Question Sybian,lmfao.When she grabs your ass, I think it means Do me baby  
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| April 26, 2012, 02:45 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 00:22)Soooooooo........what does it mean when she grabs your ass?
. Its so obvious. Means the ole perve is going to get LUCKY! (Was that over-kill?)
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| April 26, 2012, 16:55 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
lmao perve,Ass grabing Is Flirting at its most primitive state lol.If she grabs you ass the drags you off by your hair,I think you may want to entertain whatever she has planned 
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| April 26, 2012, 17:12 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 17:12)lmao perve,Ass grabing Is Flirting at its most primitive state lol.If she grabs you ass the drags you off by your hair,I think you may want to entertain whatever she has planned
. Ok, who leeked THAT vid of me, and where is it at now?
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| April 26, 2012, 18:17 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 17:12)lmao perve,Ass grabing Is Flirting at its most primitive state lol.If she grabs you ass the drags you off by your hair,I think you may want to entertain whatever she has planned
I certainly don't like to argue at that point,OH and by the way ladies ears are not handles!
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| April 26, 2012, 19:21 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 19:21) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 17:12)lmao perve,Ass grabing Is Flirting at its most primitive state lol.If she grabs you ass the drags you off by your hair,I think you may want to entertain whatever she has planned I certainly don't like to argue at that point,OH and by the way ladies ears are not handles!
. Pick one: What the hell are ears for, or, whats your point? Oh perve, your mind just works too fast.
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| April 26, 2012, 19:35 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Re: Body Language What am I sending out Anyways!!
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 26, 2012, 19:21) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 26, 2012, 17:12)lmao perve,Ass grabing Is Flirting at its most primitive state lol.If she grabs you ass the drags you off by your hair,I think you may want to entertain whatever she has planned I certainly don't like to argue at that point,OH and by the way ladies ears are not handles!
lmao Sybian,no everyone knows you grab her head with both hands from the back and pull into you  I'm sorry ladies He started it 
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| April 26, 2012, 23:34 |
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