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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Personal Space?
You ever have people enter your personal space,wait maybe this is worded in a way that can be twisted more then one way..I can think of a few members I would really like to enter there personal space butt..
The way I first meant was Someone entering your safe space yunno the invisible Ora that surrounds us,that invisible shield that wards off bad breath,BO and other unwanted interactions .Some guy walked up to me yesterday and stood like 6 inches from me and started to chat away like nothings wrong.I had to be exactly where i was to conduct business,but was very disturbed at the close encounter.Does this bother anyone else when this happens? 
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| April 18, 2012, 16:02 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Personal Space?
It is disturbing when someone does that. I will back up or ask the other person to do so if they are that close to me.Sometimes it can't be helped. If you are in a subway and its just crowded you are just stuck with being packed in like a can of sardines. It happens while standing in lines a lot.I hate when I'm in line and someone is so close they are just about or some they are touching me. I have many times told people to back off. I'm not nice about it either. I figure if you are doing that then you're rude so I don't need to be nice about telling you to back off.
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| April 18, 2012, 16:15 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Personal Space?
yea large packed areas like subways freak me out, im a wide open spaces kinda guy,Yanno giving us a glimps at your inner self is really cool you have nice eyes,have a great day
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| April 18, 2012, 16:21 |
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Re: Personal Space?
Hell yeah. Or then when you back up and they move forward toward ya. Pisses me right off!
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| April 18, 2012, 16:29 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Personal Space?
The concept of personal space is very variable and strongly influenced by your surroundings.
Someone raised in the city will have a personal space of a few inches at most but for someone from the country it could easily be several feet!
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| April 18, 2012, 17:04 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Personal Space?
Yea I would be the few feet guy,your right dude I would move then they would invade again, 
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| April 18, 2012, 17:26 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Personal Space?
Mo one violates my personal space. I have clotsraphobia, I do not allow it, and aviod it. When grocery shopping, I gowhen its least busy. Will not go in an isle, where too many people are in, so I dont have to walk aroind them.Will go to another isle, then go back later.back in the day, loved crowds. That was then. Do not ANYONE too close to me, unless were are really "liking" each other. Heh heh heh. Stop it perve, you are killing me.
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| April 18, 2012, 17:33 |
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prophet18
36 / male
clarksville, Tennessee, US
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Re: Personal Space?
I have a huge personal space issue. I won't go grocery shopping until after ten in the pm to avoid people.
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| April 18, 2012, 17:44 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (prophet18 @ April 18, 2012, 17:44)I have a huge personal space issue. I won't go grocery shopping until after ten in the pm to avoid people.
I use to stay up all night and go at 6am when they first opened. Later, I would go 9am-10am, get in and get out. And, I can be very sensitive about my personal space being invaded. I can get right down violent if in a crowded place and people are totally oblivious and inconsiderate. If stepping on me, or throwing up an elbow, it is time for someone to go home.
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| April 18, 2012, 18:05 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (prophet18 @ April 18, 2012, 17:44)I have a huge personal space issue. I won't go grocery shopping until after ten in the pm to avoid people.
That does work well to, If i have to got to walmart I have to go late cause seems like walmart draws in inconsiderate people.What sucks for me is my business makes me mingle with every sort you can imagine.some days I get home grab my favored booze hide the car in the garage and lock myself in
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| April 18, 2012, 18:13 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (onehornee @ April 18, 2012, 18:13) QUOTE (prophet18 @ April 18, 2012, 17:44)I have a huge personal space issue. I won't go grocery shopping until after ten in the pm to avoid people.
That does work well to, If i have to got to walmart I have to go late cause seems like walmart draws in inconsiderate people.What sucks for me is my business makes me mingle with every sort you can imagine.some days I get home grab my favored booze hide the car in the garage and lock myself in
Move over, I am thirsty. 
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| April 18, 2012, 19:38 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Personal Space?
Speaking of drinking, just made another batch of egg nogg. Tweeked it with a little touch of cinnamon. Oh my gosh, time to put on a mouth condom, cause fixing to have a mouth orgasm. 
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| April 18, 2012, 20:06 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (perveman @ April 18, 2012, 20:06)Speaking of drinking, just made another batch of egg nogg. Tweeked it with a little touch of cinnamon. Oh my gosh, time to put on a mouth condom, cause fixing to have a mouth orgasm.
Perve did you just age 7 years?
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| April 18, 2012, 21:35 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 18, 2012, 21:35) QUOTE (perveman @ April 18, 2012, 20:06)Speaking of drinking, just made another batch of egg nogg. Tweeked it with a little touch of cinnamon. Oh my gosh, time to put on a mouth condom, cause fixing to have a mouth orgasm.
Perve did you just age 7 years?
. Hmmm. Not that I noticed. Why do you ask?
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| April 18, 2012, 22:55 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (perveman @ April 18, 2012, 22:55) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 18, 2012, 21:35) QUOTE (perveman @ April 18, 2012, 20:06)Speaking of drinking, just made another batch of egg nogg. Tweeked it with a little touch of cinnamon. Oh my gosh, time to put on a mouth condom, cause fixing to have a mouth orgasm.
Perve did you just age 7 years? . Hmmm. Not that I noticed. Why do you ask?
Have you always been 61?
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| April 18, 2012, 23:14 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Personal Space?
Must be some sort of glitch in the system. Maybe WN is starting to have some of the problems simular to yahoo. Have not been able to send paics or vids for months, all my outgoing mail goes directly to my drafts, and it shows some sort of spam. What are you saying I look like I am over 60 Kiss?
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| April 18, 2012, 23:29 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Personal Space?
Maybe Its a computer glitch in WN? After all, everyone knows Yahoo is having problems, as in mine. Months ago, it (Yahoo) stopped sending my pics and vids. Now, some others said when mailing me, are getting failure notices. I try to send now, and it goes to my drafts, and receive some sort of spam message. This, is a violation if my personal space. And why Kiss, do I really look like I am over 60? And who else is "always" whatever age, for more than a year?
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| April 19, 2012, 12:19 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Personal Space?
Wow. Thats curious. I posted again, as I did not see my post yesterday, so I about repeated it. Hmmmm? Just shows there could be a computer glitch?
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| April 19, 2012, 12:23 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Personal Space?
For whatever reason people don't invade my personal space,even when I go into crowded cities.Everyone says that i look like a cop,but perhaps it's because I just need a shower.Who cares as long as they leave me alone.I also know that most women have to invite you into their 5 foot perimeter,and that sometimes can be challenging reading the body language,and subtle hints,....but they are very ,very, clear when your not welcome.
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| April 20, 2012, 02:46 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 20, 2012, 02:46)For whatever reason people don't invade my personal space,even when I go into crowded cities.Everyone says that i look like a cop,but perhaps it's because I just need a shower.Who cares as long as they leave me alone.I also know that most women have to invite you into their 5 foot perimeter,and that sometimes can be challenging reading the body language,and subtle hints,....but they are very ,very, clear when your not welcome.
I would expect more to stay out of mine,I agree if you let a woman invite you into there space instead of just barging in your reception is way better.One time i tripped coming into an office and landed on my knees face about 2 inches from a receptionists crotch.man was that an embarrassing invasion of personal space. ..dohhhh 
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| April 20, 2012, 13:05 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (onehornee @ April 20, 2012, 13:05) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 20, 2012, 02:46)For whatever reason people don't invade my personal space,even when I go into crowded cities.Everyone says that i look like a cop,but perhaps it's because I just need a shower.Who cares as long as they leave me alone.I also know that most women have to invite you into their 5 foot perimeter,and that sometimes can be challenging reading the body language,and subtle hints,....but they are very ,very, clear when your not welcome. I would expect more to stay out of mine,I agree if you let a woman invite you into there space instead of just barging in your reception is way better.One time i tripped coming into an office and landed on my knees face about 2 inches from a receptionists crotch.man was that an embarrassing invasion of personal space. ..dohhhh
"Tripped".... RIGHT!
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| April 20, 2012, 14:11 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 18, 2012, 23:14) QUOTE (perveman @ April 18, 2012, 22:55) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 18, 2012, 21:35) QUOTE (perveman @ April 18, 2012, 20:06)Speaking of drinking, just made another batch of egg nogg. Tweeked it with a little touch of cinnamon. Oh my gosh, time to put on a mouth condom, cause fixing to have a mouth orgasm.
Perve did you just age 7 years? . Hmmm. Not that I noticed. Why do you ask?
Have you always been 61?
He was born that way.
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| April 21, 2012, 10:59 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ April 20, 2012, 14:11) QUOTE (onehornee @ April 20, 2012, 13:05) QUOTE (sybianwatcher1 @ April 20, 2012, 02:46)For whatever reason people don't invade my personal space,even when I go into crowded cities.Everyone says that i look like a cop,but perhaps it's because I just need a shower.Who cares as long as they leave me alone.I also know that most women have to invite you into their 5 foot perimeter,and that sometimes can be challenging reading the body language,and subtle hints,....but they are very ,very, clear when your not welcome. I would expect more to stay out of mine,I agree if you let a woman invite you into there space instead of just barging in your reception is way better.One time i tripped coming into an office and landed on my knees face about 2 inches from a receptionists crotch.man was that an embarrassing invasion of personal space. ..dohhhh
"Tripped".... RIGHT!
missed this post,yea sometimes its entertaining just being around me,lol.Geeze was I soooo embarrassed that day,and knowing you have to work closely with her in the future just makes it better and better.lol..Thank god we were both able to let that slide.  .
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| April 30, 2012, 12:35 |
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Re: Personal Space?
Awhile back, when I decided to go back to school for a few semesters I remember thinking how awesome it would be, I wouldn't be a young woman , I thought I would be invisible, surrounded by all those 18-20 year old fresh young beauties.
(Sigh) didn't even occur to me that the instructors, professors, and even career counselors were very eager and happy to interact with women closer to their age. So much personal space invaded.
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| April 30, 2012, 12:51 |
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onehornee
64 / male
69'sDevine, Michigan, US
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Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ April 30, 2012, 12:51)Awhile back, when I decided to go back to school for a few semesters I remember thinking how awesome it would be, I wouldn't be a young woman , I thought I would be invisible, surrounded by all those 18-20 year old fresh young beauties.
(Sigh) didn't even occur to me that the instructors, professors, and even career counselors were very eager and happy to interact with women closer to their age. So much personal space invaded.
I can only Imagine what you good looking ladies go through with this,Im a big gangly strappin ladd so its easy to give the evil look,and keep most at bay but very few these days show respect in this area,I feel for you Sexy ladies in this.My rule with the ladies is stictly invite only,and its easy to see there body language thank you..
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| April 30, 2012, 13:12 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ April 18, 2012, 16:15)It is disturbing when someone does that. I will back up or ask the other person to do so if they are that close to me.Sometimes it can't be helped. If you are in a subway and its just crowded you are just stuck with being packed in like a can of sardines. It happens while standing in lines a lot.I hate when I'm in line and someone is so close they are just about or some they are touching me. I have many times told people to back off. I'm not nice about it either. I figure if you are doing that then you're rude so I don't need to be nice about telling you to back off.
I invade your space all the time
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| April 30, 2012, 22:09 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (kamarel @ April 30, 2012, 22:09) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ April 18, 2012, 16:15)It is disturbing when someone does that. I will back up or ask the other person to do so if they are that close to me.Sometimes it can't be helped. If you are in a subway and its just crowded you are just stuck with being packed in like a can of sardines. It happens while standing in lines a lot.I hate when I'm in line and someone is so close they are just about or some they are touching me. I have many times told people to back off. I'm not nice about it either. I figure if you are doing that then you're rude so I don't need to be nice about telling you to back off.
I invade your space all the time
I love when you are in my personal space. I wish you could be there more often. I'll try to make my plane reservasions soon!
Funny that when I am out at a club I found that most people have said they are afraid to approach me. I tend to send a "back off unless I call you over" kind of stance from what I have been told. I think its from working in bars so many years. I had to be able to handle myself with the guys and never show fear. I worked in many go-go bars and after hours clubs. We had too be very friendly but always let the guys know it was a "look but don't touch" kind of thing.I guess I never lost that.It could be the the fact that I put my heal into a few guys that crossed the line too.
I had a bouncer tell me that I scared him sometimes.He was just scared because some jerk during a bar brawl that the jerk himself started, tried to come behind my bar and hide, and I picked up a bat or a knife I can't remember which right now because we always had both and I just looked at him and said "I don't fucking think so asshole!". But It's not like I actually used it on the guy. He backed off so I didn't have too.
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| May 2, 2012, 04:14 |
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Re: Re: Re: Personal Space?
QUOTE (kamarel @ April 30, 2012, 22:09) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ April 18, 2012, 16:15)It is disturbing when someone does that. I will back up or ask the other person to do so if they are that close to me.Sometimes it can't be helped. If you are in a subway and its just crowded you are just stuck with being packed in like a can of sardines. It happens while standing in lines a lot.I hate when I'm in line and someone is so close they are just about or some they are touching me. I have many times told people to back off. I'm not nice about it either. I figure if you are doing that then you're rude so I don't need to be nice about telling you to back off.
I invade your space all the time
You can both invade mine at will x
I don't really worry too much about personal space unless the person is being agressive with it. Too many hours spent on London Tube Trains kind of makes me immune I think
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| May 5, 2012, 21:35 |
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