So...was browsing the site along with several sites on the net and have come to the conclusion that girls dont become playful and open minded until theyre in a relationship with someone. There must be 60 new ads a day in Phoenix by couples looking for a lady to have some fun with and there hasnt been a single post by any female anywhere i can see asking for a couple she can come play with...kinda funny actually. Looks like im gonna have to get a bit more creative to find our 3rd. Thoughts anyone? I seem to remember lots of lady friends in college who loved to experiment with other girls and couples as well...would be shitty to think they would grow out of it!

what really makes it tough is when your not looking, then it makes ya wonder what the hell a 22 yearld chic down in Florida, if flirting with us , makes ya think what the frack she wants with us at 53....

I think it is more a safety thing. As you get older you realize you are not invincible. You tend to feel safer having a partner with you.You also start being more responsible and chose your partners more carefully as well as cutting down on the numbers. In younger days you don't think about long term relationships and all the other issues you start to think about as you get past your teens and early twenties. I believe that is why you see less of a response to your single women looking to get in on a couples threesome .There are still many out there but just not AS many. Good luck in your search.

makes ya think what the frack she wants with us at 53....

I think it is more a safety thing. As you get older you realize you are not invincible. You tend to feel safer having a partner with you.You also start being more responsible and chose your partners more carefully as well as cutting down on the numbers. In younger days you don't think about long term relationships and all the other issues you start to think about as you get past your teens and early twenties. I believe that is why you see less of a response to your single women looking to get in on a couples threesome .There are still many out there but just not AS many. Good luck in your search.

  QUOTE (ashkats @ March 14, 2012, 23:27)


Some women like older guys

  QUOTE (newbie1011 @ March 14, 2012, 23:09)


Damn Jersey...youve got some pretty eyes!

  QUOTE (babycakes @ March 15, 2012, 13:31)
. I'm Methusala, cakes. . Oh ya, the ole perves talkin smack agian.

  QUOTE (perveman @ March 15, 2012, 13:53)


How'd I miss you then??

Thanks Perv. And Kam is fine with me getting complements last I checked.lol

As for why a women would like an older man . Really? I always dated guys older than myself. The only exception is one guy before Kam and then Kam.He loves saying he is younger than I am. But he is the one that is gonna be a grandpa in a few months. lol (sorry had to rub that in a bit)
My ex-husband was 8 years older than I was. As I got older the age difference was not as big as it was when I was younger but I always preferred older men . I had been known to date guys 15 even 20 years older from time to time when I was younger. None long term but I enjoyed their company.Younger guys were into games. I never liked games in relationships. I did date one guy my own age but that was the only one my entire life.At 16 I dated a 22 year old. At 14 through 16 I dated a 22 (24 year old year old when we broke up) as well. I always looked older at that age.Most people didn't know how old I was. I was working and modeling and was done with school by 16 and living on my own at 17. I never got ID'd until I was in my late 20's.At 14 -16 I easily passed for early 20's.I just didn't fit in with kids my age.By the time I was in my 20's I was dated guys late 20's and 30's.

I have a feeling you will be a bit busy meeting my mom, your grandchild that will be being born about then and going to Vegas to meet my sister. How much vacation do you have? lol