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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Is it really in his kiss?
I'm sure most of you have heard the song "It's in his kiss". I was just wondering how many of you believe that. I believe that a kiss tells a lot. I know if I kiss a man and he is a terrible kisser chances are (in my case always) it turned out they are not the best lovers either. I also believe a person kisses differently when they love you(Like the song says).It's not something I can really explain but it just feels different and great! I know for me a really good kiss can get me more turned on than almost anything.
I know when someone is a bad kisser, and I can only speak for myself about what I consider a bad kisser, It is a huge turn off.For me it's a guy who tries to jam his tongue all the way down your throat. And a slobber-er is another thing that is a big no no.Or the guys that kiss so hard that their teeth cut into your lips.The worst is a combination of all of the above.
Kissing is a real art form if you ask me. I love when you find that partner who just gets it all right. He knows when to kiss gently or more firm. He knows when to be aggressive or slow and laid back.He know how to use his tongue to tease you in every way you can imagine and then some.Sometimes I can just think about the way I was kissed and get turned on . I really think it's one of the most important part of a sex life.
So what about you? Is it important? What do you like or hate? Do you believe you can tell if your partner loves you by his/her kiss?
Of course not every kiss is sexual and those are important as well . Like the way a mom might kiss her baby. You just know by the way she does it there is a great love there. Verses the way someone might kiss an acquaintance on the cheek as a greeting. 
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| March 8, 2012, 07:48 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Is it really in his kiss?
I remember the first couple were brief and awkward. Then with a few others, it was just natural, with long sessions of intense and passionate kisses.
I never thought about how I kissed? On my 16th birthday, my girlfriend's boyfriend gave me a kiss. It was right in front of her, and he said I was a good kisser. Then he gave me another... okay, now SHE WAS PISSED. .... He tried it again later at a party, when I said no, he threw me in the pool.
I've had that torpedo kiss. I was really surprised. I'd known him a long time and he was married. I didn't expect it....and MAN, what a disappointment.
Biggest disappointment? Knowing someone, and later he lost his kissing ability...sniff..sniff. how does that happen?
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| March 8, 2012, 14:21 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Is it really in his kiss?
Good question Kiss. How does someone who used to be a good kisser go bad? I think its poor information mostly.When on another site we had kissing as the topic for the night. We had asked people to describe their version of "the perfect kiss". I was surprised at how many described what I would call my worst nightmare as far as a kiss would go. Many of the younger guys were all about being real aggressive and would say "I put my tongue as far down her throat as I can get it. " I even heard guys saying they would "lick" the women's face while in a kissing session as they put it. I get that we all have different tastes and some might enjoy that but, from the chats I have had over the years I would say there were very few women that like that. I think something gets lost in the translation when we sometimes say we want the guys to be aggressive. I know for me it is just a firm more passionate kiss not jamming your tongue down my throat. I also don't think some people get that we like it to change at times. I love the slow long kisses as well but it depends on the mood.And biting my lip really means, an occasional nibble not biting it to the point my lip bleeds and I need stitches.lol
So to answer your question I think that when you get a partner that used to be good and somehow is no longer, I think its he had gotten the wrong advice or taken the advice the wrong way.I also think that most bad kissers don't know they are bad. I know I have guided guys into being better kissers. It can be done without insulting them.I do find it odd that we hear of guys being bad kissers but I have rarely heard men say that they have come across women who are bad kissers. I find it hard to believe that would the reality. Maybe it's just that we hold kissing on a higher tier than they do.
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| March 8, 2012, 20:35 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Is it really in his kiss?
In a guys point of view, it's you the woman who judge such things. It's totally dependant on whether the woman likes it. I dated one woman who told me that my kisses were limp and reminded her of a kiss she once received at a funeral, cold and distant. Without changing a thing in technique, I was told by another lady that my kissing was, how did she put it, "Out of this world". So it all depends on women's point of view. We guys can work through just about anything.
Although, there is the sandpaper kiss that can kill any mood she thinks she's putting you in. This is when a woman thinks firm kisses are what a guy needs, so she puckers right up. She puts her lips so scrunched up that they feel like two pieces of an old washboard. Somehow she thinks this is sexy, in a pose, "Yes" but you wouldn't want to touch it with your lips.    
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| March 9, 2012, 04:01 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Is it really in his kiss?
i dont know , i dont kiss, kissing is tooo personal
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| March 14, 2012, 23:30 |
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niceguy29
44 / male
Winnemucca, Nevada, US
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Re: Is it really in his kiss?
If I ever get to kiss a woman again, I'll let you know.
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| March 15, 2012, 05:16 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Is it really in his kiss?
GG,I so hope a women didn't really say the thing you said in the first part of your story regarding your kiss needing a funeral.If ever you come across any one that does something that isn't what you consider to be good whether a kiss or other thing sexual I always hope there is a way to say it better or guide someone through it without saying it in a way that makes someone feel inadequate or deflated. In rare occasion someone may need to be brought down a peg or two and be told a bit harsher that they aren't all that but,I don't get that impression from you.Those are the guys that if you try to tell them what you like or guide them they tell you that they don't need you to because they know how to please a women better than you know your own body and will never masturbate or use a toy as long as they are around.lol
Just curious about the other thing you said. Is there really such a thing as the "sandpaper kiss" and do women really do that? If so I'm thinking you hang out with some odd women. OK , that might just be an oxymoron but you know what I mean.
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| March 15, 2012, 06:00 |
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