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Flirting
What is flirting?
For example, can you tell when a person asks you the time just as a reason to interact with you and get your attention or they're just a friendly type of person who really wants to know what time it is?
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| February 25, 2012, 15:36 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Flirting
They probably want to know if its happy hour yet...lol
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| February 25, 2012, 16:02 |
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Re: Flirting
Asking what time it is might also be flirting? No wonder no one ever asks me for the time.
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| February 25, 2012, 16:31 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Flirting
I flirt with my eyes and my smile. It is probably pretty obvious.
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| February 25, 2012, 16:32 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Flirting
Example:. My last post. lol
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| February 25, 2012, 17:10 |
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Kinkitupanotch
54 / male
Fraser Valley, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Flirting
I don't wear a watch. What time is it? 
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| February 25, 2012, 17:20 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Flirting
I don't think I flirt intentionally.I don't even always get it when someone flirts with me. Maybe I am always to wrapped up in whatever I am doing.Funny I always notice when someone flirts with the people I am with. I laugh because all of my kids are the same way. They can have someone right in front of them flirting so obviously yet they rarely if at all notice it, yet they will notice when someone flirts with the other. My two sons flirt really well but I don't think its intentional.I've seen one that flirts with everyone,its just his personality. My oldest gets behind the bar and its like someone turns off the quiet guy and turns on the Mr. Charming.I crack up because even guys come on to my boys. Their girlfriends just sit and laugh. It's a good thing they aren't homophobic.lol Kam has to be one of the biggest flirts I've ever seen.He just does it naturally and it makes me smile when I see him do it.I am starting to think the women at his bank are starting to have a thing for him though.lol
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| February 25, 2012, 20:27 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 25, 2012, 16:32)
I flirt with my eyes and my smile. It is probably pretty obvious.
I know.
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| February 25, 2012, 20:59 |
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hornyhobos
65 / couple
yooperville, Michigan, US
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Re: Flirting
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| February 26, 2012, 01:52 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 25, 2012, 20:27) Kam has to be one of the biggest flirts I've ever seen.He just does it naturally and it makes me smile when I see him do it.I am starting to think the women at his bank are starting to have a thing for him though.lol
Well if you get asked, "Do you like spankings?" You have to say something, don't you?
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| February 26, 2012, 02:42 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Flirting
And, if the eyes and smile don't get their attention, this  usually works!
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| February 26, 2012, 05:46 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (kamarel @ February 26, 2012, 02:42) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 25, 2012, 20:27) Kam has to be one of the biggest flirts I've ever seen.He just does it naturally and it makes me smile when I see him do it.I am starting to think the women at his bank are starting to have a thing for him though.lol
Well if you get asked, "Do you like spankings?" You have to say something, don't you?
The woman only wanted to know if you like spankings because the way you behaved deserved one. But I have to admit, I don't think she expected your answer. She might still be recovering. What color red would you call it that her faced turned? LMAO 
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| February 26, 2012, 07:49 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 26, 2012, 05:46)
And, if the eyes and smile don't get their attention, this usually works!
That would be a given. lol  (non flirting post)
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| February 26, 2012, 13:27 |
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QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 26, 2012, 05:46)
And, if the eyes and smile don't get their attention, this usually works!
You have eyes and a smile?
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| February 26, 2012, 15:40 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (freensleazy @ February 26, 2012, 15:40) QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 26, 2012, 05:46)
And, if the eyes and smile don't get their attention, this usually works!
You have eyes and a smile?
Good one Free. I too like her second option. Yuk, yuk, yuk.
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| February 26, 2012, 16:12 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 26, 2012, 05:46)
And, if the eyes and smile don't get their attention, this usually works!
men do love boobs
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| February 26, 2012, 18:33 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Flirting
Women have boobs, so men will takk ti them. Same reason, we cannot look them in the eyes.
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| February 26, 2012, 18:48 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Flirting
If a woman comes up to me and asked for the time, I'd give it to her. If she continues to stare at me smiling, I'm either going to smile back or scream for a cop. If she puts her arm around me while getting the time and then leaves, I'm searching for my wallet... 
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| February 26, 2012, 23:35 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Flirting
Ha ha Just sent a flirt note out. Guess to who. Yadda yadda yadda.
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| February 28, 2012, 22:30 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Flirting
Oh crap. Shes talking to Free. I'M SCREWED.
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| February 28, 2012, 22:53 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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QUOTE (perveman @ February 28, 2012, 22:53)Oh crap. Shes talking to Free. I'M SCREWED.
Damn lobby.
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| February 29, 2012, 00:41 |
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QUOTE (perveman @ February 29, 2012, 00:41) QUOTE (perveman @ February 28, 2012, 22:53)Oh crap. Shes talking to Free. I'M SCREWED. Damn lobby.
Why do you feel that way?
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| February 29, 2012, 01:54 |
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sybianwatcher1
49 / male
Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 26, 2012, 05:46)
And, if the eyes and smile don't get their attention, this usually works!
a guy could put a eye out with those things!!!!
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| February 29, 2012, 03:20 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (freensleazy @ February 29, 2012, 01:54) QUOTE (perveman @ February 29, 2012, 00:41) QUOTE (perveman @ February 28, 2012, 22:53)Oh crap. Shes talking to Free. I'M SCREWED. Damn lobby.
Why do you feel that way?
I'm shit'n ya. Just lisening to myself rattle on.
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| February 29, 2012, 10:54 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Flirting
Per the experts; Body Language Basics 
Without even thinking about it, women almost always give physical tips that convey their level of interest in a man. The most common body language gestures that reveal at least minimal interest are hair twirling, hair tossing and leg crossing. When a woman tosses her hair, it comes across as a nervous gesture. What it tells the man is, he's making her a bit nervous. And to his mind, if she's nervous, she must be interested! 
On the other hand, hair tossing, like leg crossing, is also a preening gesture. It's a way of calling attention or showing off a gorgeous, glossy mane ( very sexy ) or a terrific pair of gams.
Eye Contact
Usually the first way two people connect is through looking into each other's eyes. Before either of you speaks a single word, the eyes have already sent messages. 
Arm Crossing
When a woman crosses her arms over her chest, it can be interpreted in a number of ways by a guy. It can telegraph the message that she's a vulnerable female creature, an innocent little lamb who feels the need to protect herself from the Big Bad Wolf!
But arm crossing is also a way of telling a guy that you don't like him at all and that your fondest wish at the moment is that he'll go away. Crossing your arms over your chest is also a sneaky way of drawing attention to your breasts. 
Leaning Toward Him
The most common form of this is leaning forward when you're sitting across from him. This gesture shows interest and acceptance. In short, it means you just think he's the funniest, cutest, most fascinating creature put on the face of this earth. 
Lip Licking
This is purely physiological. Forget what they say about "drooling" over a hot guy . When we're aroused and excited, our mouths get dry. If you find yourself licking your lips a lot in the company of a new man, it means that something about him is really getting to you. Watch out!
Your Flirt Object will probably think you are telling him you want to take him to bed.
And maybe you do !! 
Flared Nostrils
Omigod, this is the mother of all body language signals! Flared nostrils are an irrefutable sign of sexual arousal. If you're talking to a man and his nostrils are flaring, you can bet your booty he's achin' for you. "Really???"
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| March 2, 2012, 17:44 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Flirting
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ March 2, 2012, 17:44)Per the experts; Body Language Basics
Without even thinking about it, women almost always give physical tips that convey their level of interest in a man. The most common body language gestures that reveal at least minimal interest are hair twirling, hair tossing and leg crossing. When a woman tosses her hair, it comes across as a nervous gesture. What it tells the man is, he's making her a bit nervous. And to his mind, if she's nervous, she must be interested!
On the other hand, hair tossing, like leg crossing, is also a preening gesture. It's a way of calling attention or showing off a gorgeous, glossy mane ( very sexy ) or a terrific pair of gams.
Eye Contact
Usually the first way two people connect is through looking into each other's eyes. Before either of you speaks a single word, the eyes have already sent messages.
Arm Crossing
When a woman crosses her arms over her chest, it can be interpreted in a number of waysAnd one more. B.S. on line. Something you will NEVER catch the ole perve doing.
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| March 2, 2012, 17:52 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Flirting
When in advertising/ marketing I would go to many training seminars. Almost all included reading body language as well as using body language to make a client feel more comfortable with us. Also very useful in public speaking / presentations because we would appear more confident and could see how our audience would react. Have you ever noticed almost all politicians hold their hand the sane way while making a point? Clothing styles and colors also add to all this as well. I think many people use the same techniques when flirting.
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| March 3, 2012, 03:24 |
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Re: Flirting
I have been told I flirt a lot with all sorts of people. I don't always see it the same way as others as the sort of things I say and do are just such a part of me that I quite often don't think I am flirting.
I always know when I move from "innocent" flirting to something with more intention behind it. Certainly anyone that I am interested in has always picked up on it lol
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| March 3, 2012, 16:48 |
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Re: Flirting
Flirting is so much fun as long as you both no thats all it is. However when it gets a little more serious and you both know its leading somewhere more interesting, well thats when it gets really fun 
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| March 4, 2012, 13:00 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Flirting
Right you are bub's, just wrote someone who could give a rats ass about my sorry old ass, but it's fun huh? (maybe cause I'm naked. lol)
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| March 4, 2012, 14:51 |
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QUOTE (perveman @ March 4, 2012, 14:51)Right you are bub's, just wrote someone who could give a rats ass about my sorry old ass, but it's fun huh? (maybe cause I'm naked. lol)
Ha ha, i had noticed you were naked, certain things did kinda stick out 
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