I had to look it up(the how long does it take for women to cum thing). In the Mens Health article you quoted it did say 15 to 40 minutes but the Brown university study said 10-20 minutes.

I guess every study will vary depending on many variables. That's the thing about these studies and articles they are all opinions based on a lot of factors which is why I rarely take the results to seriously.

I can find a study that fits every opinion.lol

I have to say again as I have on your other well intended posts that these are generalizations and speaking as a women I can say some, if not most do not apply to me. I know and hope that everyone knows that we are all different.

I just read a woman's post on "exactly how to go down on a woman". She stated things like "NEVER EVER suck at all it will shut a woman down to a stand still in a second". I personally like when he sucks at certain times or places when he goes down on me. My point is that even as a woman I can't and neither can anyone else tell you a one fits all thing when it comes to sex.

If you were using this post as a guide for a person who never had sex then I say it's a good start. Try those things. But be open to the fact that you might get a better response trying different things as well. Letting a woman feel comfortable enough to tell you or guide you is the most important thing in my opinion.

That doesn't mean you can say to every woman "Hey tell me what you want or like." I can tell you from experience that many times we can't tell you specifics. An example is something that Kam does . I know it feels really great when he does it but I couldn't exactly see what he is doing.(I was busy at that moment) I finally said "do that again and keep doing it". He asked "what?" . I said "what ever the hell you just did. I think it was your tongue". With a little playing I found out it wasn't his tongue at all it was his lips.It can be very difficult to explain what you feel sometimes or to even know how to explain it.I laughed when the woman that wrote the post I mentioned had said the guy asked "What do you like? What do you want me to do to you?" She said in her head all she could think of was "go down on me and don't stop." But she couldn't say that and even if she did she couldn't give him directions step by step which is why she was writing it now.This woman also said she didn't care if they ever fucked. Trust me I care!

Consider us snowflakes. We might all be made of the same thing, but no two are exactly alike.

Wow 5tar, your wife must have a big ass !

  QUOTE (freensleazy @ February 2, 2012, 17:40)


Well, I had it done in shorthand - looks just like a Chinese tattoo!

And yes, she does have a big bum!!

  QUOTE (wandering5tar @ February 2, 2012, 17:48)


Well your lucky BigDaddyJ only put the 8 tricks the original article in Mens Health has 10 and an overview. She would need a bigger ass, lol Look it up on their site the article is called "10 Lessons About the Female Orgasm" maybe you can tattoo it in smaller font style. I am actually curious why you left the other two things off when you copied the article BigDaddyJ. Did you not agree with them?

Oh before you go adding the other two lessons you might want to check her feelings on the statements made. I love articles that state things as if they checked with every women on the planet. I guess they missed me somehow.lol

  QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 2, 2012, 18:26)


Well Newbie, I try my best to be a "Modern Man", but things were a whole lot simpler before the female orgasm had been invented!!

I don't remember the exact thought process but i believed I wanted to stick to the better ones and edit the article down a little for the forum... also glad i can help 5 star