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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Faking it?
I know we have had many threads that have touched on this but I don't remember if we actually ever asked you guys how you feel about it.
So how do you feel about it?
Do you think women fake it a lot?
Do you care if a women fakes it (Be honest)?
Can you tell if a women fakes it?
Do you guys fake it?
Women:Why have you faked it?
Do you still feel you should?
Personally I don't have to fake it I cum very easily. I faked in a game of truth or dare where I had to do a fake orgasm like in When Harry Met Sally. I have spoken to many women that explained why they have and some of the answers were perfectly reasonable and some might surprise you.
I've heard "I just couldn't relax and didn't want the guy to feel bad." "I have never had an orgasm but didn't want the guy to know." "I just wanted it over with." "It hurt." etc...
To be honest I don't understand how you fake it without your partner knowing. If you're not into it then you can't be wet. I would think that the guy would definitely notice that unless you are using lube. I rarely use lube maybe that's why I would think it is so difficult to fake it. If you are into it , then you would be wet and eventually cum so you wouldn't need to fake it. Unless you are having a hard time relaxing enough to cum.But I would think that still it would be noticeable to your partner. There are certain things that go on in your body that would be really hard to fake. The muscle reaction for one. Of course the sounds are easy enough to fake but the body reaction is a different story. Maybe a young inexperienced guy wouldn't know but I would think a guy that has had sex would definitely know.
Once I had a guy accuse me of faking it based on one thing alone. He said I came a lot and thought it was impossible. lol So my response was "So let me get this straight..You think I'm faking it because you think you suck in bed?" He was all fucked up after that. He said "No, I never said that! But I never saw any women cum that much." I just laughed and said "Well you just did, but don't worry I have a feeling you wont again."lol
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| November 2, 2011, 07:35 |
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Re: Faking it?
Don't ask, don't tell. 
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| November 2, 2011, 12:27 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Faking it?
I think they should be honest and if can't cum they should just say so.
I don't know about other men but I am pretty sure that they do not fake it with me.
I care a great deal, I want the women I am with to be pleasured as much or more than myself.
I think that if they did fake it I would be able to tell yes.
I don't really think that there is anyway that a man can fake it because our orgasm actually show, and even inside a women they must be able to feel it pulsate and feel the warm cum ejecting inside them.
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| November 2, 2011, 12:30 |
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Re: Faking it?
Women fake orgasms, men fake cuddling afterwards.
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| November 2, 2011, 12:45 |
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ November 2, 2011, 12:45)Women fake orgasms, men fake cuddling afterwards.
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| November 2, 2011, 13:05 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Faking it?
That was very funny Chazzy.
I can honestly say I don't fake it. I do understand why some women do I just don't understand HOW.It's kind of like wantubad said. Yes I feel when a guy cums but I have to say if you have been going at it all night and a guy doesn't cum as much as he did at the beginning of the night it isn't as noticeable. Especially because I am very wet and have less friction I guess is the way to put it.I know that there are many men that say they have faked it. Normally with a women that is less experienced or not as sensitive I would imagine.
If you have been having sex all night and both have cum a few times then you have no way of saying if the guy had more cum inside you or not. But you made a good point. I definitely feel the pulsing. But don't you guys feel it when we cum. Our muscles contract as well and tighten around you so you should be able to tell from what you said. That's the part I don't think can be faked or at least not well.I know I also get very touchy after I cum and again that isn't something you can control or fake. I wish I could at times because a certain someone thinks it's funny to fuck with me when I get like that.Totally unfair by the way!
It's hard for me to understand but then again I only have me to go by. I have never been with a women so I can't say if other women react the same way I do.I will say this much. Don't judge those to harshly that do fake it.From the women I have spoken to I have to say that it is rarely if ever that they fake it for any reason that would be to hurt you guys. Just the opposite. As I stated it seems that it has much more to do with their own insecurities or body issues or that they don't know how to tell you and they do it out of shame that they can't cum. I know it seems silly but think about it. How would you feel if you went your whole life and never had an orgasm and felt like everyone around you was. I bet you would think there was something wrong with you.I have come across more women than you would imagine that have been in multiple relationships including long marriages and have NEVER had an orgasm. It's sad that so many women feel they are broken just because they were never able to talk to someone about it.I do thing the internet is helping with that.
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| November 2, 2011, 13:32 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Faking it?
I never have, although, I think some men have been confused by my response, it not being what they thought.
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| November 2, 2011, 14:13 |
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ November 2, 2011, 13:32)
It's hard for me to understand but then again I only have me to go by. I have never been with a women so I can't say if other women react the same way I do.
All you have to do is watch porn to see how other women react and how they cum. You can tell that all of those orgasms are real.
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| November 2, 2011, 14:28 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ November 2, 2011, 14:13)I never have, although, I think some men have been confused by my response, it not being what they thought.
Well don't be shy tell us what your response to orgasm is.
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| November 2, 2011, 15:01 |
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Re: Faking it?
Ive never faked an orgasm, but I have faked erections
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| November 2, 2011, 15:23 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 2, 2011, 15:23)Ive never faked an orgasm, but I have faked erections
Prosthetics?
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| November 2, 2011, 15:40 |
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Re: Faking it?
Popsicle sticks and duct tape
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| November 2, 2011, 15:46 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (kamarel @ November 2, 2011, 15:40) QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 2, 2011, 15:23)Ive never faked an orgasm, but I have faked erections
Prosthetics?
Arthritis in your penis??? 
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| November 2, 2011, 15:48 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 2, 2011, 15:46)Popsicle sticks and duct tape
Duct tape fixes everything.
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| November 2, 2011, 15:50 |
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Re: Faking it?
Ya just gotta make sure Its well lubed with WD 40
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| November 2, 2011, 15:52 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 2, 2011, 15:52)Ya just gotta make sure Its well lubed with WD 40
I think u should use Valvoline hi milage & hi friction for a all nighter...lol
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| November 2, 2011, 16:03 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Faking it?
I have duct tape, and WD 40.
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| November 2, 2011, 16:03 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ November 2, 2011, 16:03)I have duct tape, and WD 40.
Plz xcuse me, will be off site for a bit. I'll be on the next flight to somewhere in Florida.
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| November 2, 2011, 16:13 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Faking it?
When it gets right to it, I can actually prove I got my nut 4 times. The evidence is in different parts of Arizona. Seems as though they have thier own evidece too. What the hell is that all about? I'm such a dumb-ass.
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| November 2, 2011, 16:28 |
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Re: Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (NRG4U @ November 2, 2011, 16:03) QUOTE (freensleazy @ November 2, 2011, 15:52)Ya just gotta make sure Its well lubed with WD 40
I think u should use Valvoline hi milage & hi friction for a all nighter...lol
Good point, but Im more of a Pennzoil kinda guy
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| November 2, 2011, 16:33 |
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Re: Re: Faking it?
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ November 2, 2011, 16:03)I have duct tape, and WD 40.
I'll gather up some popsicle sticks!
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| November 2, 2011, 16:34 |
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