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okanaganmom
59 / couple
Vernon, British Columbia, Canada
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New to this
I am new to this, but just a standard membership, and would love to send a note to someone, but they don't allow for that. I find that unfair to those that don't use credit cards and can't get a regular membership, all i can do is do the flirts and hope that someone sends a message, but thats the downside....i have sent out flirts and no one reponds, which is interesting as they say they are here to meet people , it would be nice if someone could at least send a note and say they are either not interested or whatever. would be nice to hear something from someone that you flirt with. Can someone explain why people don't respond.
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| September 28, 2011, 02:04 |
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User no longer registered.
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Re: New to this
it's the nature of the beast, people have been asking that question for years, and no one really knows the answer, people all have different reasons. if you go in the chat rooms, with someones permission, you can exchange info via private messages. just remember the rules about not posting it out loud in public. (i say "with permission" because it's be better to ask first, just in case they might not be interested.)
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| September 28, 2011, 03:20 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: New to this
you can message all vip members with a free membership
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| September 28, 2011, 06:15 |
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yepper12
74 / male
Jeffersonville, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: New to this
  
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| September 28, 2011, 07:58 |
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okanaganmom
59 / couple
Vernon, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: New to this
the problem is when you search is you get members who have paid, how do you find those who have the free membership?
or am i missing something
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| September 30, 2011, 01:45 |
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catlady
60 / female
rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: New to this
You might want to change some of your "prefer not to say" on your profile. That may be stopping some in responding to you.
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| September 30, 2011, 02:39 |
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Re: Re: New to this
QUOTE (okanaganmom @ September 30, 2011, 01:45)the problem is when you search is you get members who have paid, how do you find those who have the free membership?
or am i missing something
when your searching, if the member is a paid member, it will say "VIP" on their profile (in red letters), if it doesn't say that, they are a free member and you can't send them anything more than a naughty note.
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| September 30, 2011, 03:16 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: New to this
Welcome. I've been here just short of a year. I usually send out all the notes I can, but, selective at the same time, as in, if I don't believe theres interest either way, I don't. As stated before, my receiving notes back, not so much, perfectly ok with me, but then again, I'm more a forum junkie, which is a good way to get to know one another, and have fun doing it. I always try to be considerate, and reply back to notes sent me. May want to participate in the forums, and see how it goe's. Best of luck to you.
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| September 30, 2011, 11:38 |
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okanaganmom
59 / couple
Vernon, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: New to this
thanks everyone, i do listen to what you all have to say. I appreciate all the responses. 
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| September 30, 2011, 13:44 |
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