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Liberalwife
47 / female
north, England, UK
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Prefer Not to Say?
Ok..curious!...what makes you prefer what you "prefer NOT to say" in your profile?
Do tell? 
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| September 27, 2011, 23:18 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Well, will you allow me to be the first? Thank you. I would prefer not to divulge that infomation at this present point in time. (a little sophisticated lingo there) What? I did? Dammit! Never mind then. Carry on. 
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| September 27, 2011, 23:24 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (Liberalwife @ September 27, 2011, 23:18)Ok..curious!...what makes you prefer what you "prefer NOT to say" in your profile?
Do tell?
Its because of my speech impediment. I'd prefer not to say.
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| September 28, 2011, 13:03 |
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okanaganmom
58 / couple
Vernon, British Columbia, Canada
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
prefer not to tell everyone, only those that need to know. you still want to be able to have some things private, and if it comes up when a potential relationship is being made, then those things can come up. not everyone needs to know everything about you.
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| September 28, 2011, 16:54 |
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catlady
60 / female
rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (okanaganmom @ September 28, 2011, 16:54)prefer not to tell everyone, only those that need to know. you still want to be able to have some things private, and if it comes up when a potential relationship is being made, then those things can come up. not everyone needs to know everything about you.
I can see some things private, but have seen profiles where there is really no info.
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| September 28, 2011, 17:45 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (catlady @ September 28, 2011, 17:45) QUOTE (okanaganmom @ September 28, 2011, 16:54)prefer not to tell everyone, only those that need to know. you still want to be able to have some things private, and if it comes up when a potential relationship is being made, then those things can come up. not everyone needs to know everything about you.
I can see some things private, but have seen profiles where there is really no info.
Oh crap! You've seen mine 
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| September 28, 2011, 17:57 |
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catlady
60 / female
rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (perveman @ September 28, 2011, 17:57) QUOTE (catlady @ September 28, 2011, 17:45) QUOTE (okanaganmom @ September 28, 2011, 16:54)prefer not to tell everyone, only those that need to know. you still want to be able to have some things private, and if it comes up when a potential relationship is being made, then those things can come up. not everyone needs to know everything about you.
I can see some things private, but have seen profiles where there is really no info. Oh crap! You've seen mine
lmao yeah right perv 
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| September 28, 2011, 18:08 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
I love when I get the email from someone that says. "Hey I loved your profile. Check mine out and let me know what you think." So I go to the profile(Once in a while.lol) and it all says "prefer not to say" except the comment section where it says something like "looking to have some hot sex with some horny slut ." So I usually answer the email with "I prefer not to say."
I understand that some people don't like to do the profile thing but at least give us something to work with. Make an effort in the email or in the forums. I never understood the people that bitch about not getting a response when they have nothing but "prefer not to say" then basically do the same thing in the email and expect us to go begging them to fuck us.
I love it when they pop into the chat room and send the ever so annoying PM that says "Are your horny?" I love telling them "YES". Then when they say "want to go private?" I say "yes, but not with you". They really just don't get it!
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| September 28, 2011, 18:57 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Ah Newbs, sometimes you really crack my ass up!!!
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| September 28, 2011, 19:01 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 28, 2011, 19:01)
Don't blame me, that crack was there when I met you! 
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| September 28, 2011, 19:24 |
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catlady
60 / female
rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ September 28, 2011, 18:57)I love when I get the email from someone that says. "Hey I loved your profile. Check mine out and let me know what you think." So I go to the profile(Once in a while.lol) and it all says "prefer not to say" except the comment section where it says something like "looking to have some hot sex with some horny slut ." So I usually answer the email with "I prefer not to say."
I understand that some people don't like to do the profile thing but at least give us something to work with. Make an effort in the email or in the forums. I never understood the people that bitch about not getting a response when they have nothing but "prefer not to say" then basically do the same thing in the email and expect us to go begging them to fuck us.
I love it when they pop into the chat room and send the ever so annoying PM that says "Are your horny?" I love telling them "YES". Then when they say "want to go private?" I say "yes, but not with you". They really just don't get it!
lmao I'll have to remember those responses.
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| September 28, 2011, 20:18 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Well, I know a lot of us have come to think of this site as more of a community of friends, but it's advertised around the web and on the home page more like...
REAL PEOPLE !
REAL SEX !
The members of Web Naughty are as different as night and day. There are singles , couples and swinwers looking for many different kinds of sexual relationships and contacts. Some members want swinging , same room sex , intimate encounters , no strings attached sex , video or picture exchange , a discreet affair , a kinky fetish partner, a one night stand , or even a long term relationship .
EXPLORE YOUR NAUGHTY SIDE!
So....No excuse for a lame ass profile but yeah we kinda do expect new members to be looking for sex . Don't be too harsh on 'em. They saw an ad or search result for an adult sex site and they joined. Ads for all adult sites make it sound so easy, eh?
Anyway, especially if you're a woman on an adult site(especially if you have photos, especially if you have explicit or nude/semi-nude photos) expect guys to hit on you. Granted that some guys are much better at it than others.
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| September 29, 2011, 18:43 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Wow! If someone had taken the time to explain it to me from the beginning, and how's that go? "Hey baby, wanna f...?" I got it, now I can straighten out my mess, and I KNOW, I'll score.  (will keep all updated on how that works out)
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| September 29, 2011, 19:26 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Hey, like I said, it's advertised as an adult sex site. There's plenty of members here who don't get why people hang out if they aren't open to sex chat, photo exchange , hooking up, and all the other stuff the ads promote.
I'm not saying right and wrong here, I'm just saying that on an adult site,expect to get hit on and expect that other members are looking for fast and easy sex even if you're not. You don't have to reply to anyone anywhere (chatrooms, forums, privte messages)on this site if you're not interested in them or what they are looking for.
It's a certain truth that there are plenty of women here that enjoy the attention that other women don't like. There are plenty of women here that love the mail they get, and love horny anxious men and plenty of women that prefer to be "courted"
Room for everyone here.
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| September 29, 2011, 19:44 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
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| September 29, 2011, 20:05 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
ill trade for some hot feetoes lol
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| September 29, 2011, 20:10 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Ah yes, the puffed cheetos, not the crunchy!
We cannot deny an obvious double standard, a chick comes in and posts "I need some dick" and the whole place brightens up, a doode comes in and says he needs pussy and it's totally different.
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| September 29, 2011, 23:31 |
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ September 29, 2011, 23:31)Ah yes, the puffed cheetos, not the crunchy!
We cannot deny an obvious double standard, a chick comes in and posts "I need some dick" and the whole place brightens up, a doode comes in and says he needs pussy and it's totally different.
It took you long enough! I put that pic up because of something you said a few weeks ago!
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| September 30, 2011, 00:09 |
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catlady
60 / female
rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 30, 2011, 00:09) QUOTE (Chazzy @ September 29, 2011, 23:31)Ah yes, the puffed cheetos, not the crunchy!
We cannot deny an obvious double standard, a chick comes in and posts "I need some dick" and the whole place brightens up, a doode comes in and says he needs pussy and it's totally different.
It took you long enough! I put that pic up because of something you said a few weeks ago!
crunchy!
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| September 30, 2011, 01:01 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
flaming hot....ouch!
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| September 30, 2011, 03:09 |
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catlady
60 / female
rostraver/belle vernon, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
lol Hooked on the cheetos free? Crunchy ones are best.
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| September 30, 2011, 03:25 |
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Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 30, 2011, 00:09) QUOTE (Chazzy @ September 29, 2011, 23:31)Ah yes, the puffed cheetos, not the crunchy!
We cannot deny an obvious double standard, a chick comes in and posts "I need some dick" and the whole place brightens up, a doode comes in and says he needs pussy and it's totally different.
It took you long enough! I put that pic up because of something you said a few weeks ago!
I'm so sorry, I have been emotionally unavailable to you.
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| September 30, 2011, 13:24 |
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (Chazzy @ September 30, 2011, 13:24) QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 30, 2011, 00:09) QUOTE (Chazzy @ September 29, 2011, 23:31)Ah yes, the puffed cheetos, not the crunchy!
We cannot deny an obvious double standard, a chick comes in and posts "I need some dick" and the whole place brightens up, a doode comes in and says he needs pussy and it's totally different.
It took you long enough! I put that pic up because of something you said a few weeks ago!
I'm so sorry, I have been emotionally unavailable to you.
Well, the first step in correcting a problem is recognizing it. That being said, I forgive you. Let the healing begin. 
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| September 30, 2011, 13:39 |
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
Well, since I am just seeing the cheetos photo I haven't been on in a bit...only verbal and written bitch slapping for you sleazy, otherwise the bitch will have to deal with me...are you sure those are cheetos? They look like cheese doodles and you know how I feel about you leaving your doodles laying around...
My profile says very little here because I am in a relationship and when I first started on the site it was for the social activities in the chat room. That was before the red room existed. Back in those days it was like a free for all on the woman. There wasn't even a hello, chat boxes started popping up with comments like, "you want to suck me off?" There was not even so much of a hello. That is def. the difference in what can start off something fun.
I have developed some very close ties here on the site and miss several people who have left, BCB and BC were good friends, Bogie, ptrn61, kinky and so many others...now if only my darn smart phone could connect with the chat room!
My limited info. is only limited to those who do not know me...
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| October 1, 2011, 16:25 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
well since i do know u, those were good times in the lobby, u ,me, lizzy, kinky, ma & pa... ahhh good times
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| October 1, 2011, 16:30 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
For whatever reason other's "Prefer not to say", helps me decide faster weather I even send a note/message to them, as do pics. I sure don't want to waste thier time or mine, if theres no common ground, why bother? With little description, and/or one liners, theres really not much to go on. Same as what they seek. This has been been gone over before, but as I've learned, when a lady states "Lesbian", in her profile, and is seeking "Men", no she's not seeking men. HELLO! That get's skipped. Same as men seeking women. I tend to believe what I read in profiles, respect it, and react accordingly. So I don't bother anyone, who I believe there would be no interesting/fun dialog with each other. And I'm not talking about any hook ups. I feel I'm in the majority on these points. Did I make any sense at all?
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| October 4, 2011, 11:52 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (perveman @ October 4, 2011, 11:52)For whatever reason other's "Prefer not to say", helps me decide faster weather I even send a note/message to them, as do pics. I sure don't want to waste thier time or mine, if theres no common ground, why bother? With little description, and/or one liners, theres really not much to go on. Same as what they seek. This has been been gone over before, but as I've learned, when a lady states "Lesbian", in her profile, and is seeking "Men", no she's not seeking men. HELLO! That get's skipped. Same as men seeking women. I tend to believe what I read in profiles, respect it, and react accordingly. So I don't bother anyone, who I believe there would be no interesting/fun dialog with each other. And I'm not talking about any hook ups. I feel I'm in the majority on these points. Did I make any sense at all?
Just adding a little something to this, on "another" site I've been on much longer than WN, they have a feature fop adding friends, simular to adding others to Naughty lists. Many "friend" collecters, and they have a lot. I did too till recently, then I started removing them, down to a handfull. I questioned myself: If no dialog, why? Had one friend request the other day, no message sent. So, wrote to them, to say hi and thx, no reply in 3 days. Removed them today. Have 2 pending requests (I never put requests in), will wait, if no real interest in me, as they may just be friend collecters (playing the numbers), I choose not to participate. Numbers, are meaningless to me, substance is. Not being an ass-hole, just using the sites as intended: interaction. I'm good with that.
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| October 4, 2011, 13:14 |
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Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (Julianna @ October 1, 2011, 16:25) QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
Well, since I am just seeing the cheetos photo I haven't been on in a bit...only verbal and written bitch slapping for you sleazy, otherwise the bitch will have to deal with me...are you sure those are cheetos? They look like cheese doodles and you know how I feel about you leaving your doodles laying around...
My profile says very little here because I am in a relationship and when I first started on the site it was for the social activities in the chat room. That was before the red room existed. Back in those days it was like a free for all on the woman. There wasn't even a hello, chat boxes started popping up with comments like, "you want to suck me off?" There was not even so much of a hello. That is def. the difference in what can start off something fun.
I have developed some very close ties here on the site and miss several people who have left, BCB and BC were good friends, Bogie, ptrn61, kinky and so many others...now if only my darn smart phone could connect with the chat room!
My limited info. is only limited to those who do not know me...
Do I know you?
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| October 4, 2011, 13:35 |
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Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
Don't play with youself after eating cheetos. least not before ya wash your hands.
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| October 4, 2011, 19:37 |
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
I had to go check..it's been so long since I joined.
At the time it seems I didn't want to share my weight...hell No!...I make it clear I am a big woman and since the people I play with don't mind that - they don't require exact numbers...
and my Zodiac Sign..I have had too many people judge me in advance by that and dyet when somoen doesn't know it and tries to guess - they always get it wrong lol
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| October 4, 2011, 22:05 |
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Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (OOMG @ October 4, 2011, 19:37) QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
Don't play with youself after eating cheetos. least not before ya wash your hands.
Isn't that just chilli's? he may have a cheeto dust fetish....
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| October 4, 2011, 22:06 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Prefer Not to Say?
Cheeto dust fetish? Sounds kinky. Can you share the details? 
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| October 4, 2011, 22:17 |
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Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (OOMG @ October 4, 2011, 19:37) QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
Don't play with youself after eating cheetos. least not before ya wash your hands.
I dont play with myself. But one time I was cleaning it and it went off.
(Yes Perv, that was a LTCG bit)
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| October 5, 2011, 20:30 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Prefer Not to Say?
QUOTE (freensleazy @ October 5, 2011, 20:30) QUOTE (OOMG @ October 4, 2011, 19:37) QUOTE (freensleazy @ September 29, 2011, 20:05)Ive never been hit on. Just verbally bitch slapped. Time for some more Cheetos.
Don't play with youself after eating cheetos. least not before ya wash your hands.
I dont play with myself. But one time I was cleaning it and it went off.
(Yes Perv, that was a LTCG bit)
Cool! You kill me, in a the yuk, yuk way. Thx
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