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dreaux11
37 / male
covington, la, Louisiana, US
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descreet affairs
what do women want in a descreet affair ? Besides the obvious!!
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| September 12, 2011, 07:01 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: descreet affairs
Just my opinions as being the "other guy" at times. (Yes all, that was the past me, not now). Part of it, is just a thrill of something new, not unlike we guys and our variety thing, (that's our dog side). I believe a lot of ladies, are seeking security, stemming from trouble at home, and give themselves to a guy, hoping they will find that security. Most of the time, sorry ladies, just not happening, (refer back to dog). Then again, they may just love to have sex , and that could be a problem at home in thier own bedroom, or not. Repeat: They just love to have sex . I'm sure there are other reasons, but ladies may need to fill in the blanks. Again, just my opinion, and experience.
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| September 12, 2011, 10:53 |
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Re: descreet affairs
I dunno....bitches be crazy.
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| September 12, 2011, 11:49 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: descreet affairs
I may add, I was enough of an ass-hole, to take advantage of the situations. I know, I know, all were thinking "The ole perve is perfect", WRONG! Yes it's true, even I have imperfections. Anyone else non-perfect? 
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| September 12, 2011, 14:39 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: descreet affairs
QUOTE (dreaux11 @ September 12, 2011, 07:01)
Ya know, all I can think is it depends on the woman. I had a friend and I don't know what was wrong with her? I found out, discovered, she has some mental/nervous issues. I am not sure if it is her libido, her self-esteem, or she wanted to be like her dad. We grew up together, and she became all the things she hated. She is liar, she had this man in her house with her kids there, and I am pretty sure as for it being FUN.. that she remembers the turmoil in her family when her dad got caught with the neighbor lady.
I personally don't want to have an affair with a married person. I don't want to do that to another woman, I don't think it is fair to her because in my mind, her life can't be all that easy. Second, I am a very jealous person. I've had plenty of chances, but no matter what their relationship, if I want to talk to him or be with him.... I don't want it to be on the sneak, or sly.
To finish this off, I did once have a relationship with a married man . I had run, (escaped), from my ex-husband. I talked to this marry man, whom I'd know for half my life. We met for drinks, and had some fun. He was more that willing. He wanted to be with me as much as I did with him, and he had a pretty rotten marriage, both their fault. I moved some distance, 6 hours away, and he would come and spend the weekends with me, or we went to my girlfriend's. In my case, I did it for purely selfish reasons. I had been in a horrible relationship, and I just needed someone to hold me, to care for me, and enjoy.
I only allowed him to come visit that distance, 6 hours, for about 4 months. See, he had a 3 year old, and a 12 year old at home. If something were to happen to them, there was no way they could get a hold of him. I did not want this on my conscious, (or is it conscience)? Actually, his wife did call me one day. He had just left, so I guess she could have contacted him, however, I wanted him with his kids. As it turned out, they divorced about 5 years later, she turned their son against him, and not until recently have they developed a relationship. I know I still did the right thing.
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| September 12, 2011, 15:58 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: descreet affairs
Along the lines as kiss was saying, I rest my case, a lot, if not most men are dogs. Thinking with the wrong part of the anatomy. Sorry guys, but we all know it's the truth. I was'nt any different (bow wow). Pretty much settled in now, and slowed up my shit. (Knock on wood). Those without sin, cast the first stone. Guess I better duck and  .
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| September 12, 2011, 17:22 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: descreet affairs
Men and women are the same in that sense. I think discreet comes in because of many reasons. I was in several "discreet" relationships. Not what your thinking! I just felt that even though I was single, I didn't want my kids or everyone in town to know everything I did or everyone I dated. My kids never met any man I dated (that they know of) until I felt it was someone that I felt would be in my life for a long time. That has been once. In my current relationship. They are also older so handle things better and have an understanding now of how life works.
I did date a married guy for a while but his wife knew about me . She had my name address, and phone number.They had a relationship in appearance only.She was fine with him having his own life as long as when it came to business and holidays or family events they looked like the happy couple . She only requested it not be "in her face" so we were discreet.They actually like each other most times as friends but could not have a marriage. For one thing she hated sex .
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| September 12, 2011, 20:50 |
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katung44
45 / male
Makurdi, Nigeria
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Re: descreet affairs
Everything the public affair does not provide I guess
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| September 13, 2011, 14:14 |
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