Think how you would feel if you made advances toward a woman and she didn't accept. Or, how a woman would feel if she made advances toward you and you didn't accept. You would probably feel rejected and a little embarrassed. I think that's probably the way they feel.. they just show it in a different way. And their friends are taking up for them.

Just a thought!

Think how you would feel if you made advances toward a woman and she didn't accept. Or, how a woman would feel if she made advances toward you and you didn't accept. You would probably feel rejected and a little embarrassed. I think that's probably the way they feel.. they just show it in a different way. And their friends are taking up for them.

Just a thought!

I don't know either, dear. I get hit on by women, and once I politely give them a "No thank you, I'm straight" they just move on after replying with a "No problem, I understand"

If I say "no thank you" to a guy though, it just doesn't work as well, it's better not to reply at all, once I reply I get a string of "Why not?" "if you would just give me 10 minutes of chat, I could change you mind" or "how about later then?" and stuff like that. It never ends.

Chazzy brought up a good point.Although this is a generalization and there are of course exceptions, I agree that most times if a women hits on me and I say I'm not interested they move on.Men seem to be a bit more of the "I'll prove you wrong" mentality. I think many men have an ego that just wants to prove that they are what we want and need even when we say no. I would guess that every women on a web site like this can tell you that some men get VERY persistent to say the least. Of course there are many nice guys too but the bad ones can be real bad.

They start with "Hey, babe want to chat? Your so hot."(Even though they have never seen or spoken to me. lol) As soon as we say no, even very nicely.We have all had guys that either get determined and do the ..."But I will rock your world!" and if that doesn't work they go to the "Fuck you bitch, you fucking fat and ugly and your pussy is dried up!" I am not exaggerating at all this has been said in the chat room on more than one occasion by many guys to several women including my self. Keeping in mind again these guys have never seen us, spoken to us or know anything about us in most cases. If it wasn't so screwed up it would be funny.You just have to laugh it off and realize jerks are everywhere in the world but so are nice people.

From what it sounds like, I suppose I have to learn how to be a jerk. I really don't want to do that, but if it'll give me a way to buy these idiots a clue, I guess maybe it might be worth it.

There are some that do talk that way in real life. Just not as often. It also usually involves a lot of alcohol and/ or drugs.There are some women that are just as bad but not nearly as many.Peoples ego's are fragile and they hate being turned down so they have to come up with a reason in their head as to why you don't like them.

I always thought the crazy ones were the guys that would ask me to dance. I would sometimes say "No thank you" and get the occasional guy that would say "Why?".One day I just couldn't help myself. I just said "Because, you're ugly and your mother dresses you funny!". The guy was fine to be honest but I was there with friends and was dancing all night and just wanting a break. I just didn't feel like I owed him an explanation, I didn't even know him. I answered him politely when he asked me so I couldn't understand why he would go further.

From what it sounds like, I suppose I have to learn how to be a jerk. I really don't want to do that, but if it'll give me a way to buy these idiots a clue, I guess maybe it might be worth it.