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For Those Who Share A Bed
The person who sleeps on the right hand side of a bed usually drives the car (UK). Or left for left hand drives.
This is just a copy and paste from something I ran across this morning. I sleep on the right side, but hubs is left handed and we are in the US.
Anyway, why do we have a preference for one side of the bed than the other? Do you ever have a problem sleeping on the "other side" ?
The only thing that matters to me is that the side I'm on isn't up against a wall.
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| July 31, 2011, 12:45 |
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NRG4U
63 / male
Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
same here, i have the bed in the middle of the room
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| July 31, 2011, 13:56 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
My parents always slept where he was closest to the door. I guess incase there were an intruder. I know the first time I slept with my husband (now ex) he must have been dreaming because he swung his arm over and slammed his fist right into my nose. To make it worse, I had just had a car accident and fractured my nose. I felt incredible, throbbing pain, but decided if I fell back asleep, it would stop hurting.
I wasn't so sure we were ever gonna sleep together after that.
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| July 31, 2011, 16:05 |
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
I sleep in the middle. 
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| July 31, 2011, 20:48 |
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bulrush
63 / couple
lake havasu city, Arizona, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
Our in funny male half sleeps on the left side except when we stay at a hotel then he sleeps on the right side!
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| August 1, 2011, 13:22 |
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yepper12
73 / male
Jeffersonville, Pennsylvania, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
I all ways slep on the side closest to the door just in case someone broke in I could protect her. What a fool I was 
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| August 1, 2011, 21:32 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
we use to have a dog , now have 3 attack kats they guard so we can sleep and the new kitten still haves all her claws she will rip ya up with them hooks ....then we flip sides when we flip the bed once a month
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| August 2, 2011, 03:19 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
I never really cared what side I slept on. I only get annoyed if I don't have a nightstand or some type of surface to have for a bottle of water , tissues and my book. I find that men seem to care about what side of the bed they sleep on more than most women I have spoken to about this.
I just realized that I was sleeping on the right side at Kam's old place. Now he is in the new place and I sleep on the left side.I think he likes being closer to the door. Now I have to ask if he even thought about it or it just worked out that way.
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| August 2, 2011, 06:45 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
Am a bit clostaphobic (way to go perve, sp, again). When really in bed to actually sleep, I like my space and peace. Alone for me, is good. With that, don't wear a watch, rings, etc., too constricting, as everything else. (did'nt see that one coming huh?)  
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| August 2, 2011, 13:21 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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I'm always happy when I wake up and know where I am.
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| August 2, 2011, 13:25 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ August 2, 2011, 06:45) I find that men seem to care about what side of the bed they sleep on more than most women I have spoken to about this.
Is this a topic you discuss often?
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| August 2, 2011, 13:26 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
Good morning kissu! Great to see you on the job in Chazzys' absence. I know you'll do well. Can we say, future moderator. Am I  or what?
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| August 2, 2011, 13:33 |
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
I like to sleep on my right side on the right side of the bed and my boyfriend likes to sleep on his left side on the left side of the bed. That means we sleep with our backs to one another. But most mornings I wake up to find him on my side with his arms around me. I love that but it sure makes it hard for me to get up. I don't want to leave those warm loving arms. Awww! Lol 
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| August 2, 2011, 16:33 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ August 2, 2011, 13:26) QUOTE (newbie1011 @ August 2, 2011, 06:45) I find that men seem to care about what side of the bed they sleep on more than most women I have spoken to about this.
Is this a topic you discuss often?
It has come up more often than I ever expected. But not as a major topic but more of a quick question in chats many times over the years.Men seem to have a reason they sleep on a certain side of the bed. Most times having to do with the placement of the TV if there is one in the bedroom. Many others because they are close to the bathroom or door and they think that's better for some reason.Most women say they sleep on one side or the other because their partner likes a certain side. I do know many men have also mentioned that being right handed or left handed comes into the decision because they use their hands so much during sex with us that they seem to have a preference with that as well.
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| August 2, 2011, 23:31 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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what about which way ya set your bed? do you have it with the head board faceing east or west south and north.
we have ours faceing west now , wonder if thats why im having bad dreams in the morning , i read sometime ago that faceing west invited bad things as face east invites good things and good karma type stuff anyone else read somthing on that?
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| August 4, 2011, 01:20 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: For Those Who Share A Bed
I think you mean "Feng Shui". It is a Chinese way relating how things face, whether it be direction or even certain elements Example: Fire(stove), water (sink) should not face each other.
There are a whole bunch of other rules. It explains everything about placements and even numbers of the address.You can google it and get a much better explanation.lol
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| August 4, 2011, 05:00 |
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