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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Guide to Female Orgasm. A Public Service
When it comes to the female orgasm, most guys are confused. This is understandable considering that many men are clueless regarding the different types of orgasms and stimulations that can be given, not to mention if a certain part of the vagina has to be manipulated in order to give a woman an earth-shattering orgasm.
Well, if you're among the bewildered, have heart; today's tip will help you understand the female genitalia and the female orgasm inside and out.
What Happens?
When a woman orgasms, regardless of which area of her body you're manipulating, her body physically reacts in the same way. During an orgasm, she feels:stimulation in her clitoris
her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase tension builds within her pelvis muscles contract throughout her body, especially in the vagina, uterus, rectum, and pelvic floor tension is released upon orgasm
Blue Clitoris
Believe it or not, it is possible for women to get what is often called "blue balls" in men. As you know by now, the clitoris and penis are remarkably similar after conception, but males go on to develop penises. If a woman gets incredibly turned on, her clitoris, like the penis, becomes engorged with blood. If the blood isn't released via orgasm, she will experience discomfort -- just as men do.
So when you tease her, you build up awesome tension, and when she finally orgasms, it will be an explosion of release. Keep in mind, however, that roughly 26% of women have difficulty reaching orgasm. And usually, it's her own mental block that keeps her from reaching orgasm -- it's not you.
Different Types
It was Sigmund Freud who first suggested that there were two types of female orgasm. However, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey refuted the claim and his view was that there is only one type of female orgasm. Others sexperts claim that women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended. But considering the latter is literally the other two put together, I wouldn't necessarily classify it as a type. 
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| July 26, 2011, 08:50 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Guide to Female Orgasm. A Public Service
Thanks for the PSA, BigDaddyJ. Glad to see someone cares!
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| July 26, 2011, 13:08 |
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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Guide to Female Orgasm. A Public Service
hey you know me. I aim to please.
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| July 26, 2011, 13:23 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Guide to Female Orgasm. A Public Service
I just know it feels really, really, really, great!
I had to laugh when I saw this thread. When I had a heart attack last December my primary care doctor and I had a bit of a disagreement. He was telling me why I was not supposed to have sex or more precisely an orgasm for 6 to 8 weeks after my heart attack. (He was a bit late in telling me this but I figured I was alive so I didn't see the need to tell him that part.lol) He was a bit frustrated because his partner and my Cardiologist said 4 to 8 weeks and online it said 2 to 8 weeks so I liked the 2 weeks better than all the other numbers and was going to see Kam so I decided to go with that number.He starts getting a bit frustrated and had the door open because we were just chatting at that point and not realizing he was getting louder says "Do you have any idea what happens to your body when you orgasm?!" I just said "As a matter of fact I do." But he realized the door was open and everyone in the office and waiting room were now staring at us.lol (You can see this room from the waiting room if the door is open and the outer door which happened to be open at the time is also open. Normally you can't hear but he was a little loud due to his frustration.) He just closed the door and said "Well now that all the seniors in the waiting room had a heart attack....You are never a boring patient to have."
Needless to say I lived through it and now he says its good for my heart so I can (and do) have all the sex I want.
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| July 28, 2011, 15:58 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Guide to Female Orgasm. A Public Service
pfft!
Give me my lips, tongue, cock and fingers. A willing partner and time. I'll find more stimuli than that.
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| July 29, 2011, 01:34 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Guide to Female Orgasm. A Public Service
QUOTE (kamarel @ July 29, 2011, 01:34)pfft!
Give me my lips, tongue, cock and fingers. A willing partner and time. I'll find more stimuli than that.
 <<<<Willing partner with as much time as you want. (AGAIN!)
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| July 29, 2011, 12:10 |
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