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what to do?
So i don't really know where else to turn, thought I would see what people on here think.
Back when i was in high school i had a huge crush on this girl, I think she knew but we never acted on it. I kept in contact with her for a yr or so after graduation, then she when into the service and over seas. I found her on facebook and have been talking back and forth quite a bit, now 7 yrs later. She's back state side now and will be for quite some time. Problem being she's in North carolina and i'm in wisconsin. It sounded like she may be coming home for a visit sometime this summer. I still have a huge crush on her, and am wondering if i should pour my heart out to her on facebook or wait to see if and when she comes home
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| July 15, 2011, 16:11 |
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perveman
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Re: what to do?
Knowing as little as I do about facebook, but understanding that your business is put on the street, I would opt to message her in private communication. Email, text, snail-mail, etc. And in any long distance relationship, most times can be "icky". Just saying, hope this helps. Oh, if it goe's bad on facebook, you could have a publc "icky". One of my motto's is, "Hope for the best, prepare for the worst", then you're covered. Am I wrong WN members?
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| July 15, 2011, 16:26 |
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Re: what to do?
Thanks for the input. ya u can private messege on facebook too
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| July 15, 2011, 16:42 |
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perveman
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Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: what to do?
Would be happy to, if I were on facebook, but not. Got enough stuff on my mobile to keep me busy now. Besides, my "special interests", pobably wonld'nt be appreciated there, and I'm pretty loyal to "other" sites. But thx, appreciate the invite.  P.S. We can talk openly here on WN. Cool huh?
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| July 15, 2011, 17:11 |
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Re: what to do?
Maybe start out kinda subtle, private message through facebook about how you use to have such a crush on her. See how she reacts to that...her reply could go a couple of ways...
A little indifferent like "Oh, I didn't know that"
Or something a little more encouraging like "I wish I had known that" or "I wish you would have spoke up"
Then, you'll have a clue at least!
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| July 15, 2011, 19:03 |
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