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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
How's going everybody. I'm posting because I have decided that I would like to find girlfriend. I thought why not make it public record that I'm not just looking for casual sex . I'm honestly and truly looking for more serious. I am opening myself to the community for advice, the more candid the better and any assistance render. I'm not to talk the same old rehashed advice. I'm talking action step. Think you know the girl for me, set me up. know any good website let me know. Webnaughty I need your help. I have many friends here and I think you guys know me well enough can we pool our collectivness to get one longstanding, normal member into a relation ship. Chazzy, Iwantokissyouallover, MNJT, Newbie101 ladies if you cant help no one can. Even you Free can help 
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| July 6, 2011, 14:45 |
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
Awwww, all I can say is I've known you since the minute you joined here, your photos have always shown a face with eyes full of light, and a sweet, sweet smile. That mirrors what I've come to know about your personally.
I think of you as very smart, very fun, very sexy . The one you seek, is out there somewhere. I can't say for sure she is here, but she is out there....somewhere.
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| July 6, 2011, 14:52 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
Best of luck to ya! Real is good.
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| July 6, 2011, 15:15 |
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
I thought you had found someone here a few months ago. No?
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| July 6, 2011, 15:18 |
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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
yeah that didn't work out
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| July 6, 2011, 15:49 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
BigDaddyJ is a stand up guy! He is ambitious, giving, caring, and fun. I think it will be hard to find a good woman deserving of Mr. J.
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| July 6, 2011, 16:07 |
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
My very best suggestion for meeting the "right one" has always been to focus on yourself...you're a fine person, I'm sure you have strong interests and you should follow what pleases and interests you.
The internet is great, but sometimes best to turn it off, disconnect and go old school.
If you love history, spend time at exhibits and museums. if you love to read, spend more time at bookstores, if you love movies, go to theaters more often, if you like fine dining, don't wait till you have a date, just go...the people that share those spaces with you, have something in common with you already, and conversation can happen very easily under those conditions. Even if you don't meet a single woman , you could meet and impress people that know a single woman looking, or have a cousin, sister, best friend that after getting to know you a bit, would be happy to introduce you.
I love the internet, allot of great happy relationships start online, but I don't think think the old school approach should be totally forgotten or abandoned.
Just go out, indulge your own heart and mind, it will enrich your life and put you in the same places of other like people.
How often do we see a post by someone asking "Any women in my area?"
My first thought is "I dunno, turn off your computer, go outside and look" 
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| July 6, 2011, 16:07 |
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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
thanks for all the kind words guys and all the great advice. I'll be sure to give it a try
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| July 6, 2011, 16:20 |
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
She's out there for sure...you'll find each other.
Even online, some feel the most obvious places are dating sites, and some who base their site on matchmaking features, have a pretty good sucess rate.
The same old school practice I mentioned before, there is a computer version of finding and joining non dating sites. Like joining a writing site, a book, music or movie discussion and review site, gardening sites, gaming sites, etc...
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| July 6, 2011, 18:02 |
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JenTX
47 / female
East, Texas, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
Also talk to everyone you see. Say hi to the people on the other pump as you get fuel. The people in line with you at the grocery store. And not just the women. Men have sisters and cousins and moms that are available. I was working in a gas station when I met my hubby. I went out with him because I liked his smile. And thursday will be 11 years we have been together SO SMILE. You have a great smile. Use it to your advantage.
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| July 6, 2011, 23:57 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
Smell real good! That always worked real good for me. I would be wearing sweats and tennis shoes, with White Diamonds perfume, and the guys would all stop and tell me how good I smell.
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| July 7, 2011, 00:55 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
Not sure he'd attract the kind of attn you got, wearing white diamond.
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| July 7, 2011, 00:57 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
I've always believed the best way to meet someone is to stop looking. Just be yourself and do the things you like to do. When you are yourself doing what you like to do that's when your at your best. Others will see you for the real you, not the person you are trying to put out there when your on your best behavior or putting on a show.
I agree with a little of everything else said as well. It's OK to be on here. It does happen that you meet someone on here occasionally as you know I did, but make sure you are out in the world face to face with people as well. Make sure you talk to people and let yourself be open to people talking to you. As for smelling nice I would hope you do that all the time. However you might not want to use White Diamonds unless your talking the pretty shinny kind. I agree with Kam I think it might have a different effect than when Kiss wears hers.
I really don't know why it is that the harder you look the harder it is to find and when you aren't looking it's always there in front of you but that's just the way it always seems to be. So just have fun and let it happen. But don't close your eyes and ears either. Some guys are so oblivious to when women are trying to pay them attention.
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| July 7, 2011, 07:15 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ July 7, 2011, 07:15)
Some guys are so oblivious to when women are trying to pay them attention.
So what I miss?
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| July 7, 2011, 11:38 |
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TasteLikeCandy
39 / female
FunTownUSA, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
If your standers weren't so high you wouldn't have this problem 
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| July 7, 2011, 14:34 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Re: Webnaughty Community to the Rescue
QUOTE (TasteLikeCandy @ July 7, 2011, 14:34)If your standers weren't so high you wouldn't have this problem
Or, is it that too many have low or no standards.
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| July 7, 2011, 14:46 |
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