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saying the wrong thing
i have been talking to thid guy and i told him i want to meet in person but now he wont type back
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July 1, 2011, 00:27 |
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perveman
111 / male Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: saying the wrong thing
I won't even try to guess why he is'nt writing. I will let you know though, anything worth waiting for, has to be good. You are doing the right thing, sharing in the forums. Btw, been to Tacoma many times, born and lived on both sides of the Cascade's. Anyway, good luck, be safe, have fun, and welcome to WN.
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July 1, 2011, 00:47 |
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Re: saying the wrong thing
You did not say anything wrong at all....you're gorgeous and there are way so many men who would love to hear that from you!
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July 1, 2011, 00:50 |
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NRG4U
63 / male Beaver City, Nebraska, US
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Re: saying the wrong thing
About the only time i take my foot outta my mouth is just to change feet, so sayin the wrong thing is my job, & I'm not ready to give it up...lol
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July 1, 2011, 01:01 |
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thechunkyone
35 / male elizabeth, New Jersey, US
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Re: saying the wrong thing
give it a few more days never know if something with work come up or something. im not one to put doubt in ones minds so just w8 and hope for the best
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July 1, 2011, 01:54 |
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funlovingpair
59 / couple Frozen Tundra, Minnesota, US
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Re: Re: saying the wrong thing
QUOTE (NRG4U @ July 1, 2011, 01:01)About the only time i take my foot outta my mouth is just to change feet, so sayin the wrong thing is my job, & I'm not ready to give it up...lol
Hey now, you took my job away from me???? Ops shouldn't have spanked you, you like it too much.
Kimmy, just hang in there. Look at it this way, if you don't hear from him, them you didn't need him. Only a fool wouldn't respond to you.
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July 1, 2011, 03:22 |
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Re: Re: Re: saying the wrong thing
QUOTE (funlovingpair @ July 1, 2011, 03:22) QUOTE (NRG4U @ July 1, 2011, 01:01)About the only time i take my foot outta my mouth is just to change feet, so sayin the wrong thing is my job, & I'm not ready to give it up...lol
Hey now, you took my job away from me???? Ops shouldn't have spanked you, you like it too much.
Kimmy, just hang in there. Look at it this way, if you don't hear from him, them you didn't need him. Only a fool wouldn't respond to you.
Agreed. Many online are more interested in the fanticy than actually meeting. Plus, there's always another one.
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July 1, 2011, 18:12 |
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Mkid1
31 / male North logan, Utah, US
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Re: saying the wrong thing
I dont think you said anything wrong, I would love to get to know you
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July 4, 2011, 05:40 |
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wandering5tar
53 / male London, England, UK
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Re: saying the wrong thing
He clearly isn't worth your time.
"NEXT..."
P.S. I have recent experience in this regard, so can speak with some confidence on this subject. Many thanks to my friends on here for their support - you all rock!
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July 4, 2011, 09:13 |
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perveman
111 / male Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: saying the wrong thing
QUOTE (wandering5tar @ July 4, 2011, 09:13)He clearly isn't worth your time.
"NEXT..."
P.S. I have recent experience in this regard, so can speak with some confidence on this subject. Many thanks to my friends on here for their support - you all rock! I'm with you on this one, except different. Relationship's are one thing, but as the dog I was, (no offence to dogs, I have 2, and 2 cats) "NEXT", was my motto.
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July 4, 2011, 13:35 |
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Re: saying the wrong thing
It does happen, some folks just want the fantasy or think they want to meet until the actual moment comes and then when it becomes real they get scared
Some people just play around and you never get a direct answer, but there are some very genuine people around too. The fun is working out which is which xxx
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July 4, 2011, 20:35 |
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kamarel
60 / male Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: saying the wrong thing
QUOTE (Josie34 @ July 4, 2011, 20:35)It does happen, some folks just want the fantasy or think they want to meet until the actual moment comes and then when it becomes real they get scared
Some people just play around and you never get a direct answer, but there are some very genuine people around too. The fun is working out which is which xxx
Maybe I should take lasso lessons. Less energy than the chase and easier to convert into bindings.
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July 4, 2011, 21:56 |
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GG317
60 / male Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: saying the wrong thing
Just yesterday, I was waiting on a customer when I asked, "Are you all set ma'm?" The customer turned around and he had a mustache as thick as NRG's, OOOPPPSS!... Later I found out that the other two guys at the counter were as surprised as me since they were staring at his ass in those tight jeans!...
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July 6, 2011, 14:53 |
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Re: Re: saying the wrong thing
QUOTE (Josie34 @ July 4, 2011, 20:35)It does happen, some folks just want the fantasy or think they want to meet until the actual moment comes and then when it becomes real they get scared
Absolutely, something we've discussed before on many occasions. Allot of online activity are people who want to indulge in fantasy only, and for whatever reasons, they do not want that fantasy to bleed over into their real life.
They should be upfront with people they interact with that but for some, that interferes with the fantasy.
When someone suddenly stops messaging/chatting you, I know that there are going to be moments of self doubt, but as all before have state in one way or another, it is them, not you and try to shrug it off.
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July 6, 2011, 15:01 |
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