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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
Kam and had a conversation as to why people like getting their partner to cum.I see it as several different reasons. In the case of men. I think some don't give a damn if their partner cums. Some do it because it's the gentlemanly thing to do. Some because it gets them more sex if they do. Some because it turns them on to have their partner cum. Some men are definitely more sincere about it as well.
Women can be the same way but its not as big a deal because, lets face it you guys are easy. I can't think of a time I couldn't make a guy cum. EVER. The reasons can still be similar. Some women do it because well, you should. Or because the guy might lose it and strangle you if you don't. Or because you really enjoy getting him off.
All joking aside whats your take on it. Does it matter if its just a quick fuck or a person your in love with? Does it depend on how you were taught? What do you think.
I was trying to figure out if its the thought of having the power to make someone feel that great and/or turned on, or being excited just from the fact that your partner is so turned on by you? Or is it because I love my partner so much that making him feel that good is something that is hard to even put into words? Maybe all.
The other part is do you think that your partners are always sincere when they say that having you cum turns them on?I remember vividly the time I looked into Kam's eyes after he had just made me cum for the, god knows how many times and thought OMG this man truly loves making me cum. There is no denying it , unless he is the best actor I have ever seen.
I know he is aware how I feel. I get so turned on but I think its a combination of many things.
What's you take on it in your experiences?
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| June 29, 2011, 04:49 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
I love to make my lady cum and always make sure they are satisfied before me. It turns me on wicked to now that they have cum,I love the sound, the body thrusting the flavor,the aroma, I get hard as a rock when they cum for me.I can almost cum just by making them cum.
I want them to be satisfied as much as I am
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| June 29, 2011, 07:36 |
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hightop
50 / male
pleasure beach, New Zealand
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
love making partner cum to see her losing control and having absolute pleasure on her face. Not only her coming but the pleasure of the build up the tease building it up and up until the orgasm as well, is a massive turn on that makes the experience more intense more enjoyable for myself .
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| July 1, 2011, 04:35 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
Damn Hightop,where the hell have you been! I've missed you.
I get that you guys enjoy seeing your partner cum. I do as well. It's a huge turn on. But I just don't think its like that with everyone. I would bet that there are some people that do it because they were taught its the right thing to do. "If your partner makes you cum, make sure you make them cum as well." I would think especially with young people first starting their sex lives.Although men are very visual so maybe the number is lower than I'm thinking.
Do you men think we women enjoy making you guys cum or do you think we do it because it's something we are supposed to do. I know its always bothered me I can't make my partner cum as much as I can cum. I know logically it's impossible but it still bugs me at times. Not nearly as much as it used to .
So are men and women the same? Do men think women enjoy making their partners cum? Do women think men really enjoy making their partner cum?
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| July 1, 2011, 23:04 |
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hightop
50 / male
pleasure beach, New Zealand
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
been away yes long time thought cum back for a sneek peek see what lovely people still around  xo
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| July 2, 2011, 05:07 |
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wantubad2
54 / male
white creek, New York, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
To be honest Newbie I don't think man analyze things the way women do.I know that I have never thought about,whether a women likes to make me cum or if they just do it because it is right to do. Always assumed that one of the main purposes of sex was to make each other feel good by the act of cumming
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| July 2, 2011, 09:10 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
QUOTE (wantubad2 @ July 2, 2011, 09:10) To be honest Newbie I don't think man analyze things the way women do.I know that I have never thought about,whether a women likes to make me cum or if they just do it because it is right to do. Always assumed that one of the main purposes of sex was to make each other feel good by the act of cumming
Different spin on this wantu. If you go to the refridgerator, and it's empty, you are going to go shopping. Bottom line. 
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| July 2, 2011, 11:27 |
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
O! O! O!
Do me! Do me first! Me first!!! Then I promise I'll do you next...I promise
Pffffttttt!!!!!
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| July 2, 2011, 12:50 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
I know I never felt obligated by any stretch to make my partner cum it's just something that happens. I agree with you Wantubad2 in the sense that,the whole point of sex is the pleasure for all involved.
Maybe I am not wording it right. I have heard from so many people through the years that they love making their partner cum. Many say to the point that it's sometimes more than when they cum themselves.Then there are the times when people get frustrated because they can't make their partner cum.As I have stated my frustration for a long time was more of a "Is it really fare that I cum so much and my partners can't?". I have also hear over and over again "Your supposed to make the women cum first." It's the gentlemanly thing to do" . Do you guys really think that way? Did you when you were younger?
The real turning point for me was with Kam when I really got to look at his face when he made me cum and for some reason I really believed more than ever before, this man really loves to make me cum. I can't really explain it. I bet that most of you have had a moment like that with someone you have had a great relationship with.
But can't you remember when you were younger just started having sex and it was more mechanical. I have to say I have been really lucky in my life and haven't had many bad sex experiences but there were a few.I know as I got older and got more comfortable with my own body and sex in general I enjoyed everything much more. I remember thinking "OMG, oral sex ? No way! Yuk that's disgusting!" LMAO Things have changed a bit. I'm sure we have all had our minds changed about many things.
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| July 2, 2011, 20:43 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
Because if she doesn't cum, I got to do it myself... 
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| July 3, 2011, 16:48 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
And because it's funner! 
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| July 3, 2011, 20:09 |
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
Well for me I think it's the whole control thing. Knowing what I'm doing is making him cum! And cum and cum! I think I enjoy when I make a man who usually doesn't cum more than once or twice cum several times too! Also if I'm with a steady partner or someone I trust... I love they way it feels to let him cum inside me! I almost cum all over again just feeling it shoot inside me. There's nothing like having ur pussy full of warm cum! Just sayin  so I guess it's a bit selfish but at least I'm being honest. I like them to cum so I can cum some more.... Lol
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| July 4, 2011, 18:21 |
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Re: Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
QUOTE (Cupcake69 @ July 4, 2011, 18:21)Well for me I think it's the whole control thing. Knowing what I'm doing is making him cum! And cum and cum! I think I enjoy when I make a man who usually doesn't cum more than once or twice cum several times too! Also if I'm with a steady partner or someone I trust... I love they way it feels to let him cum inside me! I almost cum all over again just feeling it shoot inside me. There's nothing like having ur pussy full of warm cum! Just sayin so I guess it's a bit selfish but at least I'm being honest. I like them to cum so I can cum some more.... Lol
I think the men here all like cream filled cupcakes.
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| July 4, 2011, 18:35 |
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
Hahaha yeah mmmm mmmm good! Tastes good on the outside as well as on the inside!
So... R u saying you like creamfilled cupcakes too? Do u like the icing? The filling of the cream? Or just the sweetness of It all? 
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| July 4, 2011, 18:41 |
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Re: Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
QUOTE (Cupcake69 @ July 4, 2011, 18:41)Hahaha yeah mmmm mmmm good! Tastes good on the outside as well as on the inside!
So... R u saying you like creamfilled cupcakes too? Do u like the icing? The filling of the cream? Or just the sweetness of It all?
That'd be yes to all of the above.
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| July 4, 2011, 21:31 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
I love to see my partner squirm. Hear her moan. Taste her. Taste her. Touch in just the right spot. Get into her head. I want to know how many ways I can turn her on and get her off. Do them all and then find new ones. The continual exploration of my partner is exciting for me. So I suppose getting my partner off, gets me hot and hard.
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| July 4, 2011, 21:47 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Re: Why do you like making your partner cum? Or do you?
Great answer cupcake. I do think it is sometimes a control thing as well. I love when my partner thinks he is done as far as being able to get hard and/ or cum and I prove him wrong.lol I also agree with the way it feels when he cums inside me. It's a really great feeling that is very hard to explain to men. I know I feel the pulsing and warm cum and it definitely makes me cum if I'm close.
Kam I almost wish we could put a video of us and your face when you make me cum. I think every woman at least would know exactly what I mean when I say I see it in your face how much you enjoy it. I have to say it is an amazing thing to know that it turns your partner on that much when he is making you feel that good. I know how I feel as we all do but I guess you always kind of wonder about the person your with. With you there is no wondering. I know you like the challenge of finding new ways. I think the difference between the guys that are great in bed and those who aren't is what you said about getting into your partners head.
Sex is so much in the head first and foremost. You guys that do it understand the importance of that. It's such a fine balance you have to do. You get into my head but you also touch my body in the right way and watch and listen for reactions.There is no way you can be a selfish lover and be able to do all that. You also want to have pleasure as well as giving so that goes into the mix as well and how and when to switch things around so you and your partner are both enjoying it all. In some ways it can be very complicated and then we wonder why so many people are bad at it .lol
As I have always said communication with your partner is very important and both men and woman should do it much more. Most people that complain of bad sex lives usually tell me either one or both partners never communicate. I just want to give them a crystal ball and tell then , that should fix everything, but of course that never works.
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| July 5, 2011, 05:28 |
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