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Threesomes
My man and I fantasize about having a threesome with another woman, but don't know anyone who would. What's the best way to go about finding someone to join us ?
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| March 1, 2011, 06:12 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: Threesomes
sounds more like a topic for the advice line , good luck in your search
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| March 1, 2011, 18:18 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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| March 6, 2011, 04:10 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Threesomes
Must have been something I said... 
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| March 6, 2011, 15:01 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Threesomes
The 2 times I've had m/f/f 3sums, it gets too busy, my only breaks were when they turnd thier attention to each other.  3some .gif">
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| March 6, 2011, 17:20 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Threesomes
GG I think you had it explained it pretty well. Although I don't think the way to go is with a stranger for all people. But if it were you obviously know how to get it done.
All my threesomes have been with 2 men and myself so very different experience than you have explained. They were never with a complete stranger either. Besides you guys are much less complicated than when your adding a women to the mix. I loved your comment about being a prop. I have used something similar. I say the "extra" man is like a " sex toy " to me in the threesome . Guys don't have an issue with that. (at least the guys I've been with) But women might not like being seen that way. lol
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| March 6, 2011, 18:13 |
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Grandelf
64 / male
Northern, Michigan, US
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Re: Threesomes
I met a couple a few years back, online that just so happened to be NEAR where I lived...amazing! Husband and wife, nice laid back people...after getting to know each other a bit, they mentioned she had always wanted to spend a evening with two men. Well, I had always been curious about something "new" at least for me, and said..."pick me, pick me!"..Two big concerns were they know I am straight and was the husband REALLY okay with this? Well yes, and yes..so onward, hoooooo! As it turned out, the fact that none of us had done this before was a benefit due to us all being a bit nervous, but that didn't last long. He was okay with it, he too being straight...so we had a great time! For me, seeing and hearing her living something she'd wanted to do for a long time was awesome. We got together three times, each time more comfy thus each time was hotter...alas then I moved. As far as seeking such a thing, I'd never done that and frankly wouldn't have known where to start...I'd develop a stutter, Don Knotts look..LOL. So it was fun...yeppers! We weren't total strangers either, that to me might be a bit....eh? I want to know if they laugh, and that I'm not going to get thumped in the back of the head as the guy decides, "nope this ain't a gonna happin".... 
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| March 7, 2011, 21:12 |
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GG317
60 / male
Bowl of Granola, Massachusetts, US
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Re: Re: Threesomes
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ March 6, 2011, 18:13)GG I think you had it explained it pretty well. Although I don't think the way to go is with a stranger for all people. But if it were you obviously know how to get it done.
All my threesomes have been with 2 men and myself so very different experience than you have explained. They were never with a complete stranger either. Besides you guys are much less complicated than when your adding a women to the mix. I loved your comment about being a prop. I have used something similar. I say the "extra" man is like a " sex toy " to me in the threesome . Guys don't have an issue with that. (at least the guys I've been with) But women might not like being seen that way. lol
We only went with a stranger for two reasons. One, she didn't dare ask one of her friends for fear of what they might say or think about the proposition. I know of two who would have been down with it, but she wouldn't have been able to even look them in the face for ever after. Two, it seemed to make the whole idea more electrically charged to pick up a complete stranger. I didn't say it right, but we started out with the stripper at the club. It was through her that I met a lot of other fascinating women after the ex and I broke up... 
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| March 8, 2011, 00:09 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Threesomes
I definitely didn't mean to say it was WRONG to go with a stranger. I just meant that wouldn't work well for me and I think many people. Although the fantasy is awesome I think my fears of safety and health issues would overcome the fun it was meant to be. Everyone is different. I have talked about threesomes many times on here. That is why for once I didn't go into a long thread on how I would go about it and all the things you really should think about and do BEFORE you get into the threesome .They are really not for everyone. And even if you're into them it doesn't mean you can have a threesome with every relationship you're in. For instance I never did a threesome with my now ex husband. He was way to controlling, jealous and possessive to be able to handle it. Among other issues.
Hey for once someone had a longer answer in the thread than me. lawl Thanks GG!
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| March 8, 2011, 00:48 |
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Re: Threesomes
My last threesome was November 2009 (MFF) My girlfriend came to visit me and brought her friend with her. It wasn't planned, it just happened!! I love being at the right place at the right time!!! 3some .gif">
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| March 8, 2011, 01:29 |
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Re: Threesomes
Wow, that's a good girlfriend!
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| March 8, 2011, 13:26 |
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