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skeeterdillman
49 / male
Dayton, Ohio, US
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I must be doing something wrong.
All this time I have yet to have a good responce on here. And I must say I really injoy it. So I have added a new pic of my self, I first thought the dick was the way to go then maybe a few of quality joy, so guess I was wrong so here is a pic of just me. Come on no one wants to get to know me better? I got alot to offer.
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| February 25, 2011, 05:37 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
Read your profile, you sound like a nice guy . May I suggest you stay active in the forums. Lot's of nice people here will get to know you better. Then it kinda snow-ball's. I'm proof it works. Even the perve I am, have a good amount of friends who we communicate now, off wn. Good luck!
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| February 25, 2011, 12:17 |
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
This probably won't help much, but I really do prefer the current photo. You have the others on your profile so it is all good.
I do agree though, forums are a good way to get yourself known
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| February 25, 2011, 12:23 |
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
give it time, not every one replies to messages. it took me awhile before i started getting any when i first joined. quite frankly, it took so long, that when i finally got a response, i was shocked. lol
in all seriousness, be patient, it's worth waiting.
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| February 25, 2011, 12:37 |
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
Love the new photo!
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| February 25, 2011, 13:46 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
The "broken record" again. Althouqh I agree wit Chazzy, me being me, always prefer everyone naked. How can I not be consistant, and still be real. Of course I've been in room full's of penple naked, and won't judge them for wearing clothes. It's ok. Uh Oh, seems as though I've strayed  once again. Sorry.
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| February 25, 2011, 16:01 |
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
See, I am the total opposite. A photo that gives something away about the person behind the name is always good.
As for myself, I am not shy at all, but would never have a fully naked shot of myself as my profile pic. Where is the anticipation??
Always find it interesting how differently we all think. Makes for an interesting world
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| February 25, 2011, 16:33 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: I must be doing something wrong.
QUOTE (Josie34 @ February 25, 2011, 16:33)See, I am the total opposite. A photo that gives something away about the person behind the name is always good.
As for myself, I am not shy at all, but would never have a fully naked shot of myself as my profile pic. Where is the anticipation??
Always find it interesting how differently we all think. Makes for an interesting world
Damn it, I hate when that happens. JUST KIDDING!
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| February 25, 2011, 16:53 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
I agree with Josie on this. I know most of you guys don't understand this but I couldn't care less if you ever posted a cock shot. I like this picture much more. You can have the other pictures on your profile for people to see if they chose.
I am certainly not shy. I have body part shots on my profile. I won't put identifiable pictures up. I feel its a safety issue. But that's my choice.
You should also get active in the forums. That's what makes me look at a profile. I normally wouldn't know anything about a person to get me interested enough unless they posted something or sent me something that makes me want to look at their profile.
I think all the women on here can tell you we get overwhelmed with e-mail and notes and PM's so you won't always get responses from them. I know if I get a really interesting e-mail I will respond to that!
Make your profile something that really shows your personality and what you want people to see. It's like your own personal commercial. Other than that be patient.
Sorry but I just looked at your post. I am honest and blunt but this isn't meant to be mean. You asked so here goes.
You have a generic profile. You have a picture so take out the description. You also say the same old "I will go down on you for hours..yada, yada.." Heard it all! Yeah yeah your all great and will wear us out! What about YOU? Show your personality. If your funny, be funny, if your sarcastic, be sarcastic. If your a great write,write something. I hope you get the idea. Good luck.
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| February 25, 2011, 18:14 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
I meant I looked at your profile not post. (Just wanted to correct that) lol
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| February 25, 2011, 18:22 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: I must be doing something wrong.
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 25, 2011, 18:14)I agree with Josie on this. I know most of you guys don't understand this but I couldn't care less if you ever posted a cock shot. I like this picture much more. You can have the other pictures on your profile for people to see if they chose.
I am certainly not shy. I have body part shots on my profile. I won't put identifiable pictures up. I feel its a safety issue. But that's my choice.
You should also get active in the forums. That's what makes me look at a profile. I normally wouldn't know anything about a person to get me interested enough unless they posted something or sent me something that makes me want to look at their profile.
I think all the women on here can tell you we get overwhelmed with e-mail and notes and PM's so you won't always get responses from them. I know if I get a really interesting e-mail I will respond to that!
Make your profile something that really shows your personality and what you want people to see. It's like your oDamn, that IS blunt. But totally ok in my book. Would not expect anything different from you, or would be disappointed. You rock! 
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| February 25, 2011, 19:25 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
My profile is a complete blank. No pics, little info. BUT I am a VIP member and can write. I've found introducing myself to people I find interesting goes a long way.
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| February 26, 2011, 00:52 |
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ashkats
65 / couple
crystal falls, Michigan, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
yepper......  
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| February 26, 2011, 04:56 |
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BigDaddyJ
45 / male
Springfield, Massachusetts, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
hey bro as soon as you figure out please let the rest of us know. i myself started with a normal pic and never had the kind of responce i wanted. when i recently switched i started gettin all sorts of attention from people that had neved given me the time of day. but after a few days died out again. so im still at a loss let me know how it works for you
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| February 28, 2011, 13:35 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
BigDaddyJ and others, when something changes it normally generates interest. Also many people post more when they make a change to get feedback, again sparking interest.
You have to look at a few things. 1. What are your expectations? 2. Are your expectations realistic? 3. What message are you sending out? 4. Is it the message you want to send out? (Think of it as your own personal commercial.)
5. What can I do to improve my response and/or image? 6. Is there something I can do to keep the responses from falling off. (Example:Change things every so often to spark interest.Also moving you to the top of the list in the new profile photos list.This also gets you MORE views.)
I always recommend that you let your personality show and that you stay in peoples minds by posting in the forums and chat as well (If you can get into chat).
After that it just requires patience. Did you know that the average commercial has to run for 3 months minimum at an reasonable amount of views for it to even be remembered? (With few exceptions. Example: Superbowl spots. Which is why they cost so much.)
Hope this helps. Good luck.
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| February 28, 2011, 20:59 |
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skeeterdillman
49 / male
Dayton, Ohio, US
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Re: I must be doing something wrong.
Well I just want to say thanks to all that replied, and the one that sent me a message thanks as well. I like the site but never seemed to get any feed back so thanks again I will take some advice and hope it gets better. so till next time, happy sex to all. 
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