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Variety is the Spice of Life
Have been thinking about this today following on from some hot chatting last night. I am avery flexible in things I will try sexually and over my time have played all sorts of roles, with most toys you can imagine and with a variety of ages and personality types.
I still do and enjoy it, but have realised that my core desires, the things that just turn me to jelly have always stayed the same throughout. Strong people, not just physically, but mentally, those with a forceful personality will always be my weakness
I can be submissive sexually and really enjoy it, but (hope this makes sense) I am submissive in a feisty strong way. My submission is almost like a sexual tango full of fire and wanting. The first moment my partner grabs me forcefully, not to hurt, but to possess me - OMG my heart rate has just gone up thinking about it.
So - whilst you may like all sorts of things in all sorts of positions, do you have that ONE thing? the action or the taste or the situation that will always bring you to your knees?
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| February 23, 2011, 20:07 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Variety is the Spice of Life
Gonna have to sit this one out. Need to find my fan. Getting hot in Tucson already.  And I need a 
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| February 23, 2011, 21:00 |
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Re: Variety is the Spice of Life
two words...water sports...gets me every time.
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| February 23, 2011, 21:02 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Variety is the Spice of Life
So funny that you posted this. I was just e-mailing back and forth with someone on here that i do that with a lot. He and I always discuss in detail about things like this.
I think we all have our "core" things that do it for us.
I have realized that when I'm really getting close and my partner stops me by telling me things like "Don't cum yet" or if I am wanting something really bad and I don't get it right away.Like when he is sucking on my nipples and I get so horny I want him to finger me or let me finger myself and he won't let me. It makes me go wild. I know it's strange because it makes me mad at the same time.But it is also how I discovered I can cum from him sucking on my nipples. lol
My other thing is when someone really just lets go. When they don't sensor themselves at all. I always know it because that's when a man will say things they would never normally say. When they say "I love that cunt" instead of "Pussy" or something they think is more appropriate.
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| February 23, 2011, 21:09 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Variety is the Spice of Life
variety is the enemy of boredom
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| February 24, 2011, 01:39 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Variety is the Spice of Life
I can't ever imagine getting bored with sex. I guess being open to trying new things or at least a variation of old things and having a great partner helps a lot.
Kam, boredom runs the other way when you are coming through the door!  
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| February 24, 2011, 16:38 |
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Re: Variety is the Spice of Life
As I say I agree about variety, but I have found that all of all of the different things I have tried the most pleasing ones to me have all had a smililar core principle to them. One that I guess is the basis of my sexual personality
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