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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Many people have said they enjoy being watched and or enjoy watching someone masturbate. Do you enjoy being watched? Watching someone else? Do you care if its your partner or a stranger? Do your care is it's someone of the same sex as you? Do you feel different if it's a couple your watching or your the couple being watched? Do you prefer it in person or on-line will do just as well? What is it about watching or being watched you enjoy? Do you look at the persons eyes, face or just watch the action and that's it? DO you want the person to know you are watching or they are watching you?
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| February 20, 2011, 23:41 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female
Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
I like to watch their eyes, and face, and love hearing the words or sounds that escape from their lips in these moments of pleasure.
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| February 21, 2011, 00:28 |
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t189
35 / male
London, England, UK
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
i love to be watched it drives me crazy, if any girls want to watch me masturbate add me on (edited)
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| February 21, 2011, 00:44 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
i love being watched, and i love watching. it doesn't matter how long i've known the person...whether i've known her for five minutes, or have been begging to get her on cam for years  , with that being said, i wouldn't mind watching couples, and would'nt mind a couple watching me, but they need to be a straight couple ...no bi guys or gay men allowed...sorry.
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| February 21, 2011, 00:50 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
on a side note, i have been know to let women watch my cam, even though they don't have a cam (but it's really not fair to me...) and i have let a few ladies watch me with out showing me much more than her face...that's as much of a turn on as watching her play...
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| February 21, 2011, 00:57 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Never any doubt where I stand on this. Been on both sides countless times. And watched each other at the same time. Both sexs, separately, and together. Just good clean fun I say. Whoopi!
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| February 21, 2011, 01:29 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
QUOTE (Iwant2kssuallovr @ February 21, 2011, 00:28)I like to watch their eyes, and face, and love hearing the words or sounds that escape from their lips in these moments of pleasure.
Agreed. I am a voyuer at heart.
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| February 21, 2011, 01:42 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
So no one has really said if they find it better in person or on-line. Has anyone caught a stranger or neighbor watching or masturbating?
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| February 21, 2011, 01:45 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
i've had better luck being watched online, never really found a woman that was into it in person. if any one has caught me in the act, they never said anything. lol
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| February 21, 2011, 02:05 |
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Re: Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
QUOTE (lonelyandhorny @ February 21, 2011, 02:05)i've had better luck being watched online, never really found a woman that was into it in person. if any one has caught me in the act, they never said anything. lol
on a side note, the one woman that has agreed to watch, she decided that she needed to lend a hand...so i really didn't get a chance to be seen all the way through to the finish...lol
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| February 21, 2011, 02:08 |
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kamarel
60 / male
Alexandria, Louisiana, US
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Re: Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 21, 2011, 01:45)So no one has really said if they find it better in person or on-line. Has anyone caught a stranger or neighbor watching or masturbating?
Twice I've stumbled across live. Once guy/girl. Once girl/girl. Both a surprise. Both hot as hell. Neither time did I do more than watch. Nor did either couple know I was watching. Cam and phone are interesting, but not the same.
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| February 21, 2011, 02:27 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 21, 2011, 01:45)So no one has really said if they find it better in person or on-line. Has anyone caught a stranger or neighbor watching or masturbating?
I do mine in person. First time we meet, to building a network. Then were not strangers anymore. It's all good. My advantage is, I love it, and have no shame.  
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| February 21, 2011, 02:33 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
I know for me being watched in person by my partner is my favorite. Being watched on-line is great IF I'm into the person or in the right frame of mind at the time. Again I think women need to have the mind engaged first..
Watching someone else is the same way. I don't get anything out of watching a stranger if I'm not into that person or in the right frame of mind.
As for being watched by a stranger I know of one time I am pretty sure I was being watched while I was masturbating for the guy I was dating. I think the mutual friend that had been staying over was watching but not completely sure. None of us ever said anything but at the time I loved it.
I had a neighbor that would masturbate in the window when he would see me in my room. It grossed me out! I would pull the shade and I told my parents about it. I was in my late teens. But he was creepy to say the least.
Sometimes I think the fantasy of being watched or watching strangers is so hot but I have no idea how it would feel if It came down to the moment. I have had people watch me do many things, mostly accidental or at least not planed. Masturbating is so personal that I feel differently about it. I feel like that about kissing as well. Kissing is so personal that in threesomes I only kissed my partner ,never the third person.I think that's why I love watching my partner its so personal and he is willing to share that with me.
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| February 21, 2011, 04:08 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
With the exeption of NOT being bi, I suppose I'm about the most sexually liberal person here (and anywhere else), when it comes to this issue. Hence, perveman, nudist/exhibitionist. What newbs stated is absolutely biologically true. Ladies sex drive, is in thier mind. Men's, well, we know where that is. I personally, always seem to respect the difference, and never, ever violate that. Others and I, need to agree on any (fun), before the fact. From a legal standpoint, I never expose myself to others. Guess I stop here, before I write a bonk. (would be good reading though, lol) 
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| February 21, 2011, 12:49 |
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Grandelf
64 / male
Northern, Michigan, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
I'd say it depends, but to watch and be watched, both can be fun! If one knows the other is pleased then I am as well...it is like throwing wood on a fire. A photo I saw as a young man , yesterday, har har..okay where was I, Oh yeah. One of many photo's I saw but that turned me on big time was that of a woman touching herself. I found it incredibly sensual, erotic..so perhaps that started my love for it. The first porn clip I ever saw was of the same nature, and as others have stated the expression, sounds...the entire clip was hot. As far as cams I have been watched by woman I didn't know and watched them too. Always anonymous though and that happens if I am in a certain mood. Just as we can be very creative with another in order to get the most pleasure etc. We too can be as creative with ourself. The days of just "grip and rip it" (ouch) are not me anymore, as I've dated myself so much through the years I'd have turned myself down by now, lol....Seriously though to use the imagination is far better than grab and go. I am the same with this as I am with photos so to speak. Why not be as creative that way as we are with others? I am not talking mini tramps and a chandeliers, it is imagination. ("disclaimer, in no way did I mean a small hooker when using the term "mini tramp" )
The phone was a big laugh for me,till I tried it with the right person. I was surprised at how hot it was, because even though the expression visually isn't there the expression verbally was....and exciting. As I say a pleasant surprise. There's so many avenues, ways in which to get the most out of this gift we all have in our sexuality , I just think imagination is the key. Via phone I was asked, "you really enjoy that, I mean I can tell you are very in tune with yourself aren't you?"..and well she was right. It had never occured to me but I suppose I am. So it's all good if with the right person, right mood and handled in a certain way.
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| February 21, 2011, 14:56 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
I read what Grandelf wrote and had to laugh at some memories it kicked in for me. I remember guys trying the phone sex thing with me and all I felt was uncomfortable , awkward and couldn't get off the phone fast enough. I didn't get it at all UNTIL.....It really does depend on the right person and the right mood. I could not be the person that gets a call "Hey I'm horny wanna have phone sex ?". I have phone sex on a regular bases but it seems to naturally lead there not ever planed even though it goes there so often.
I think women in general have to be creative because as said over and over it's in our heads. All the rubbing, touching and probing doesn't do a thing if my mind is on what color I want to buy that pair of boots in rather than sex at the moment.lol
The new thing that I find I really enjoy is being watched while my partner is playing with me. So video conference and have him finger, using toys , whatever... is something that I found I really like. I think it is close enough to the fantasy of having people watch us in public yet totally safe and controllable.There are ways to video conference with only known or people you give permission to or you can have your setting so anyone can call you. It opens up some interesting possibilities.I noticed there is never a shortage of people that want to volunteer to be the person or people watching or playing on the other side as well. lol
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| February 21, 2011, 19:49 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Obviously being the pure little angel that you all know and adore I have never ever ever ever watched anything ever or done anything ever 
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| February 21, 2011, 20:13 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Hey Josie that Halo is a bit tarnished and the steal tube you have trying to hold it in place is a bit bent so the Halo is a bit tilted. You might also want to fix your hair because the horns are showing through just a bit. 
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| February 21, 2011, 20:32 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Something tells me you haven't fallen for my clever lies!
For a serious answer, yes I have watched and been watched. I only ever have done this with people I have a connection with, because let's be honest there is plenty of porn out there if I just want a quick fix.
As my time is quite limited, I can't partake often, but as much as anything I love just having a chat to people of cam. Have had some long convos and laughed so much with some friends on cam and had fun at the same time. It is lovely when you can play and then lay back and just have a chat and a laugh.
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| February 21, 2011, 21:13 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
OK so I thing in general we all agree that at least women need to have some mental connection. Meaning they have to be turned on in their head not necessarily a relationship with the person.
PLEASE don't take this wrong guys. I know for me personally I see all the "cock" shots on the profile pictures and it might as well be the generic icon they use if you have no picture. They do NOTHING for me. For one thing , again I have no connection to that person so its generic. But (sorry about this) they start to all look about the same. I have asked if others felt this way and I know at least privately many women agreed with me. However men seem to feel completely different when they see pictures of our body parts. Or at least that's what they say. Is it true? It goes back to the being watched thing again . Why do we do it and do we like being watched more than watching? Even if its just a picture of a body part? I also think its much easier to get a compliment my posting body part pictures than a facial or full body shot picture so that is PART of why we do that as well. What do you think?
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| February 21, 2011, 21:27 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Personally I love that part on a body where the hip just starts to curve in again over the hips and you can follw the line of the pelvis down.
Or the flexed arm or tight thigh in part shadow. My imagination works just fine thank you, so I like to let my mind take the journey. That goes for shots of men and women that I look at.
Although I love to see eyes and personality
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| February 21, 2011, 22:17 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Back to simple biology again. Men are generally visually stimulated, and variety. Doe's anyone believe ANY sex site (including) would work, if it were not for men wanting to see pics? I believe most would agree with the natural "animalistic" attraction. And surprisingly, only personal experience behind this, there are ladies that really enjoy watching (or I could be out of "business"lol). Only thing left, is to stop nude pic posting both ways, and to partner with E-Harmony. Just kidding! Love my wn just as it is. 
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| February 21, 2011, 22:26 |
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newbie1011
62 / female
The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
You misunderstand guys!, We enjoy the pictures as well. But I think we enjoy them when we are in the right mood or if its someone we have some interest in to begin with.
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| February 21, 2011, 22:55 |
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
Like I said I like pictures, I like video, I like face to face and live feeds...video conferencing, but yes it is better for me when I know someone. When it is the whole package
I will however look at strangers too lol and have fun. Just not everybody or all the time
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| February 21, 2011, 23:11 |
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perveman
111 / male
Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
QUOTE (newbie1011 @ February 21, 2011, 22:55)You misunderstand guys!, We enjoy the pictures as well. But I think we enjoy them when we are in the right mood or if its someone we have some interest in to begin with.
I'll give you that. 
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| February 21, 2011, 23:19 |
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Grandelf
64 / male
Northern, Michigan, US
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Re: Those who enjoy watching or being watched.
In the words of Billy Crystal ~ Woman need a reason to have sex . Men just need a place... 
Funny and somewhat true, but not totally...but since I have a gift for typing novels, that's on the next Geraldo.
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