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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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The Dilemma
Is a new movie coming out with Vince Vaughn, which begs the question, what would you do? A man discovers that his best friend's wife is having an affair. Would you reveal the truth to your best friend?
Furthermore, if you are friends with the spouse, and your best friend is cheating, do you tell?
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January 13, 2011, 16:52 |
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Re: The Dilemma
Tough question. I'd probably be more apt to confront the one that's doing the cheating
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January 13, 2011, 17:00 |
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perveman
111 / male Tucson, Arizona, US
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Re: The Dilemma
That's a tough call. So I'd need to plead street ethics
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January 15, 2011, 16:12 |
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thechunkyone
35 / male elizabeth, New Jersey, US
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Re: The Dilemma
umm yea i know it would hurt but thats my best friend and the longer the w8 the more it'll hurt. btw my best friends i call my brothers and sisters and yea mess with them u mess with me
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January 15, 2011, 16:56 |
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Iwant2kssuallovr
62 / female Bendover, Florida, US
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Re: The Dilemma
Okay, I'm not even really sure what you all are saying. What are street ethics?
My girlfriend started cheating on her husband. First, with the guy next door, who had been a good friend (supposedly) with her husband. Then she started f'ing a guy from work. I wasn't thrilled about this, or him, but never said anything to her husband. I never called her out on her behavior, although, my feelings are if you want to cheat.... get out of the marriage first.
What really disgusted me, is when she had the boyfriend from work over one night when her husband was at work, and the kids were asleep in their beds....
As it turned out, she got a divorce. Broke up the boyfriend, married the neighbor. She has since divorced the neighbor, why I am not sure because I stopped talking to her about 7 years ago. I'm sure she is still getting her "BFO" by many.
I have since talked with Scott, the husband at that time and he it seems knew she has been cheating. His comment to me was, "If I had been smart, I would have divorced her as soon as Brad got out of diapers." He has been happily remarried for 10 years. She, I am convinced will never be happy!
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January 15, 2011, 17:07 |
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skeeterdillman
49 / male Dayton, Ohio, US
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Re: The Dilemma
First I would take my friends feelings into consideration, I would ask him the question, What would you do if a buddies girl is...? Then I would take his own advise to either break the news to him or let it be. Then he could not be mad at me for how I handled the situation. If the answer he gives is that he don't care and cool with it, I would then see about me taking a turn
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January 15, 2011, 17:49 |
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newbie1011
62 / female The Shore, New Jersey, US
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Re: The Dilemma
It's a hard thing to answer. I would have to think about the people involved. I have found in some of those situations you wind up the bad guy and are not believed anyway. Some people don't really want to know the truth even when it is staring them in the face. Also most people know when someone is cheating. There are also more that cheat with permission as long as it is under the radar. The spouse says "Don't let my friends and family see you." You never really know what their situation is.I can only say on a per person and per situation basis as to what I would do. I know my best friend as an example YES I could and would tell her because she and I have been through enough and know each other well enough that she knows it comes from a loving place and not meant to hurt.
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January 15, 2011, 21:34 |
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